Everyone knows that variety is the spice of life but since safe sex is recommend for a healthy life and relationship management even if morality doesn't quite hold up the argument, the best thing to do to add excitement – minus the dangers of unprotected intercourse - to your intimate life is to learn the techniques of erotic massage!
One needn't be an expert in giving massages to experience the pleasure of innovating on some basic techniques to elicit the same pleasure in their partner and erotic massages are more than simply learning the right hand movements or a single touch: it's an art that needs to be built upon.
Learning the techniques of an erotic massage can also help people in overcoming the dissatisfaction that creeps in to many sexual relationships and hangs over like a shadow into their personal and professional lives as it leaves individuals feeling discontented and disenchanted with a segment of their lives that should be open to experimenting and excitement.
Besides bringing in a certain lost charm about their own sexuality, an erotic massage can help a person practice touches on themselves without the need for telling a partner how and where to touch for how long and re-connect with their bodily needs at their own leisure, for their own pleasure! It is recommended for both men and women with strong needs and desires and all that is called for is creating the right ambience and having an open mind to enjoying the beauty of the human body.
An erotic massage given right and accepted in the right mind can lead to a foreign thrill that is orgasmic in the joy it provides besides helping one relax independently, or with a partner (should one choose to share the knowledge). One doesn’t even need an external stimulator for performing an erotic massage and it is as pleasurable in giving one as receiving one – so try it today!
A flat, firm surface is needed for performing an erotic massage and touches need to be intimate, warm and sensual to build up to a crescendo within the individual's body and bring about utter peace and ultimate relaxation from the session. When concentrating on the person's sexual points, it is advisable to keep the tempo going and steady at a plateau of feelings before letting them experience the high of the ultimate arousal.
Men like being spoken to during the erotic massage but many may react just as well to nonverbal strokes to bring them to ejaculate while women are more given towards receiving erotic massage when it concentrates on their G-Spot (also known as the clitoral massage), which if done properly, can bring them to multiple orgasms.
An erotic massage can be performed for opposite sex or same-sex partners and be equally stimulating in either case but remember, there is little room for selfishness and wanting to satisfy your own urges when conducting an erotic massage – so, learn to give pleasure in order to be the best lover you can be!