It is of utmost importance to keep your mind open and clear and not worry on how the event has been formed, but to understand that causal reasons, those important beyond the physical world, examine those that you will carry with you after your physical death. Examine these reasons, the motivations, and the areas being affected. These are what often determine growth or an area to review for some potential lesson or meaning after you have come through physical death.
It is not necessary at all times to feel as though you experienced a specific incident and then reacted poorly to it, though you may not understand the process now you will understand, or you still may not, upon your exit from this physical world. Your reflection on this situation and understanding the correct, or universal, response that may have been more positive is as useful as if it were your initial response.
Typically, it is not known by you whether this also was the required response for the growth of yourself or others involved, though all actions should be considered and reviewed on terms of how you feel much later, after the incident. Were you better off because of your reaction to the accident or were you feeling as though you reacted negatively towards yourself or others involved. These are important if you are considering growth and evolution in your lifetime and beyond it.
Please understand that it is important that all individuals know of lifetimes, or what is
termed reincarnation;
there is much said to deter any thought or thinking regarding this and many are expressing