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Table Of Contents

Foreword

Chapter 1:

The Basics On Attraction

Chapter 2:

Know Who You Want To Attract

Chapter 3:

Getting Out And Meeting People

Chapter 4:

Learn To Be Interesting

Chapter 5:

Develop A Personal Style

Chapter 6:

Learn How To Flirt

Chapter 7:

Develop Your Self Confidence

Chapter 8:

Be A Good Listener

Chapter 9:

Learn How To Be Attentive

Chapter 10:

When Attraction Turns To Obsession

Wrapping Up

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Foreword

When it comes to learning the basics on attraction, you need to look

for certain signs in order to know if someone is interested in you or

not. They may flirt with you often or laugh many times at your jokes,

but this does not necessarily mean they are interested in you. It may

just be a part of their personality and how they act but you won't

know this unless you've known them for a few years.

Attracting the opposite sex is fairly easy to do if you are someone who

responds well to emotions, touch, and body language. If you have

talent for picking up certain signs or hints people give off - you'll have

no problem with identifying a potential mate who is interested in you.

Get all the info you need here.

Attraction Artist

A Guide To Attracting The Opposite Sex

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Chapter 1:

The Basics On Attraction

Synopsis

There are four main elements of basic attraction we'll need to focus

on first. Attraction begins with sexual appeal and is one of the

strongest ties when it comes to being attracted to someone. How

many posters did you have of celebrity males you had practically

fallen in love with on your room wall? Let's just say it's one too many.

 

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The Basics

At this time, you did not know the importance of personality which is

another element when it comes to attraction. The way the person acts

around you will give off a certain vibe or feel, making you a happier

person when around them. If you feel nervous and not so sure of

yourself, it's a good sign you have not known them for that long. Not

to worry, there are a few things you can do to change this.

The third law of attraction has to do with desire. Why do you want to

be with this person in the first place? Do they make you feel special or

are you just trying to get ahead in life with your personal image?

By dating someone who is much older than you are, what you are

doing is showing people you are ready for a commitment and are

serious in your relationships.

If you are a woman who is with a much older man, you may just be

trying to fit yourself into a "secure" relationship. Yes, we are talking

both financially and mentally. Women aren't guilty of doing this all

the time since men do it as well. Just know what your desire is before

you step into the attraction.

The last law of attraction similarity. How similar are the interests

between you and your crush? If you have already acknowledged

similar interests such as artwork, volunteering, understanding, and

biking - there is a good chance the two of you are already are getting

along. Some say that opposites attract but after thirty years of age, we

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tend to go for people who have similar interests, as we already know

this will make the relationship more convenient for us.

For example, if your partner smokes cigarettes and you absolutely

hate it - who do you think will be the one having to go outside to

smoke? What about a couple who shares different views on food?

A vegetarian woman might have trouble selecting a dish after her

husband takes her out to the all you can eat "Steak House", while he

happily chows down without a care in the world.

 

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Chapter 2:

Know Who You Want To Attract

Synopsis

Knowing whom you want to attract beforehand is one of the most

important things to think about. You obviously don't want to attract

the wrong attention from females or males you are not interested in.

After all, we are not here to play with the feelings of others or lead

them on. What we are here to do is find a meaningful relationship,

based on what you see within that person. You'll want to ask yourself

three basic questions when you finally know who you want to attract.

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Know What It Is

By answering a few questions, you can determine if you want to be

with that specific person or not. If you need to learn more about them

before asking these questions, you are probably stuck in the land of

the "unknown", meaning that you really don't know if they like you

back.

This is where you should take things gently and only look to them as a

friend before making a decision on if you would ever be with them or

not.

Find out what they are about first by making dates to hang out, study

together, work on projects, or just get together on a regular basis.

Here are the questions you'll want to ask once the time comes.

Are they worthy of your love?

Someone who is worthy of your love should be a respectable person.

If you are a person who values their life and morals, the other person

should have the same standards as well.

Don't settle for anyone less than what you are. While you should

strive for people who are in a good place in life, this doesn't mean you

should use them either. You want to find someone who is worthy of

your love in both the mental and physical aspects in life.

Do you see yourself being with them in the future?

Let's say the two of you have been friends for three years now. You

know their every secret, positive habits, and even bad habits they

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cannot seem to get over. The two of you have been through pretty

much everything in life - except an intimate relationship together.

You want to ask yourself if you will be able to keep up with this

person or if they will slow you down.

Compare some of the things they do to your daily habits and you will

understand what we are talking about. Create a list of things you like

about the person and things you do not like. If the list outweighs in

good points, you may want to stick around to see if it can develop into

a relationship.

Are they someone you can trust with your life?

Even if you have known the person for a few weeks or a few years, you

can gradually find out if you could trust them with your own life.

Someone who truly cares for you would jump in front of the bullet.

This also goes for sacrificing some of the things they do in order to

make you happy. If you already see some of these things happening,

there is a huge likelihood that the person you are crushing on already

likes you.

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Chapter 3:

Getting Out And Meeting People

Synopsis

If you can't get out and meet people, you will never find someone to

share your life with. Building healthy relationships will help you stay

happy and even live a longer life. To get out and meet people, you'll

need to become more active in certain activities that you like. Let's

discuss some of the places where two people can meet.

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Get Out

At the Work place

Since we are at work for the majority of our day being at around 6-8

hours daily, new people will tend to enter our lives. We may meet

them by mistake or greet them as a new client.

Relationships take off during times when you may least expect it and

even someone you are not interested in may be your future wife. This

really depends on what point you are at in life and if you are able to

hold a steady relationship.

Now, we normally don't recommend starting intimate relationships in

the work place but it is a good idea to make a few friends around the

way.

In Social Gatherings

Through social gatherings with friends, you will begin to see the same

people on a regular basis. Remember the tall and handsome guy your

girlfriend introduced you to a few weeks ago at the Christmas party?

By now, you've became friends with him and he's even helped you

with some personal issues in your life.

The two of you usually get together and talk about your female friend.

This is how it all started. Both of you were trying to cheer her up from

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being depressed for a month after a baffling medical condition came

upon her. Now that she's better, the two of you can scoot closer to

learn more about one another.

At family Events

Since most of us never like to miss a family reunion, we are always

there for the events that take place within the family. It doesn't matter

if we are having an Easter get together or simply meeting up for the

annual reunion at a fancy restaurant.

Your cousin's brought a few friends along and you want to get to

know everyone who you have not met yet. Meeting new people in the

family is very important because you never know who some of your

family members will bring. You might see an incredibly beautiful

woman who also has an eye on you as well. This is common for some

people so keep a look out.

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Chapter 4:

Learn To Be Interesting

Synopsis

Everyone wants to be around someone who is interesting. Being

around a person who always hangs their head low never laughs or

says anything interesting can be aggravating at times. If you make

arrangements with that person and you feel they are not using it for

building a positive relationship, you'll probably be inclined to move

on. It doesn't matter if this is a good friend or a boyfriend/girlfriend

type of relationship. Being someone who is interesting should come

naturally to all of your relationships.

 

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Be Intriguing

Even if you are a shy person, you can still learn to become

interesting person. Well, this does not mean you aren't interesting

but you have trouble expressing yourself.

There are certain ways around this. We suggest building a one on

one relationship first before diving in to social gatherings. Not

being able to share your ideas, opinions, or jokes during a

gathering at friend's can make you look like the boring group of the

bunch although this is not true at all.

People tend to be careful around what they say with others and it's

difficult to do this in a large group since many of your friends have

different beliefs or morals in life. For example, Sandra might hate

hospital jokes because of a traumatic medical condition she is

going through - while Jessica loves these jokes since she is a nurse.

To be interesting, first begin on concentrating on one person.

Learn what is and is not okay in their "relationship book". You can

start off a healthy relationship by writing pen-pal letters, starting

to text, and eventually call. After that it is time to meet.

If everything goes out smoothly, the two of you can go out more

often and build memories together. This is the best part about

enjoying a relationship.

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Often, when two people get together - they will look on the past

and see what activities led them to become a couple. Some will

even have friendship bracelets, pictures, gifts, and other precious

items that remind them of that special person in their life.

To be interesting, you don't have to be the class clown or act like a

loud person. All you really need to do is share your experiences in

life, try to make the other person feel good about themselves, and

tell a joke once and awhile.

Don't let the other person in the relationship do all the work. They

will come out of their shell soon so that this way you'll be able to

take a break.

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Chapter 5:

Develop A Personal Style

Synopsis

All people have their own personal style. This is what makes everyone

so unique. By being unique, we invite other people to become curious

about us and learn more.

They'll get comfortable between us and try to nudge their way into a

relationship. If someone senses you have a deep personal style about

you that is warm and inviting, they'll automatically want to become

closer to you. People who have their own styles tend to be more

popular among the crowd and may also receive a lot of attention

compared with other people.

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Put Together Your Style

If you don't believe you have a personal style, let us stop you right in

your tracks. It doesn't matter if no one can tell you have your own

unique personality. What matters is that you already know you do

and you can work on it with certain techniques to bring out the best in

you. You might be someone who is serious and seems bitter at times.

We understand that from human psychology, we quickly morph from

carefree children to quiet adults.

This is because you might have suffered a job loss, lost your sense of

pride, or even lost someone you loved recently. Recovering hasn't

been so easy and this is why you are serious. You are tired of people

talking behind your back and ridiculing you for things that you do not

mean to do. Some people don't realize how much suffering a person is

going through until they get close to them.

Tips on how to develop your own personal style

Showing you care

People show they care about another person in many ways. This can

be through talking to them in order to form a sort of release through

discussion. Another way could be buying a small gift for that person if

they are in distress. If your girlfriend just lost a child due to a

miscarriage at 5 weeks, you can always give her a big hug instead of

talking about it.

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Laugh however you want

You might think your laugh is embarrassing or even annoying but

instead of avoiding it - embrace it. There are times when people begin

to smile because of how ridiculous it is to hear another person laugh.

Some people snort when laughing, and other people giggle devilishly

in a high pitched voice. Hearing something as small as a laugh can

cheer someone up so this is important. Remember it is the small

things that count when developing your personal style.

Dress the way you like

Don't let others dress you or try to change you. Keeping your own

personal style builds a strong identity and allows others to recognize

you, based on what you are wearing. You might be the flower girl who

loves to wear floral print dresses with a bunch of crazy and bright

accessories.

On the other hand, if you are a guy - you seek that "bad boy" image,

going with leather jackets and you’re always half shaved. Having a

shadow can definitely pick up a few women but it really depends on

what the girl likes.

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Chapter 6:

Learn How To Flirt

Synopsis

One of the most difficult issues within relationships is learning to

flirt. If you have no idea how to flirt or throw out any signals, you

might feel doomed when it comes to the task. It's not that you don't

know how. It's only thinking about the risk of being rejected which is

why many people don't try to flirt.

If you have met someone recently and have known them for a few

months, you may be putting yourself at risk if you do not flirt. Why is

this? Because what you are doing is setting yourself up in the friend

zone. Once you are in the friend zone, he/she will just see you as a

good buddy and they won't ever try to escalate the relationship, since

they haven't seen you do anything eithe