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BY OGU BABAFEMI OKECHUKWU

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ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

I w o u l d l i k e t o e x p r e s s m y s i n c e r e g r a t i t u d e t o A M A Z O N f o r m a k i n g o n e o f m y d r e a m s c o m e t r u e , I a p p r e c i a t e e v e r y o n e w h o ’ s p a r t o f m y s t o r y a n d I t h a n k m y s e l f f o r t h e s t e a d y s u p p o r t a n d e n c o u r a g e m e n t I g a v e m y s e l f t o k e e p g o i n g

d e s p i t e

t h e

c h a l l e n g e s ,

t r i b u l a t i o n s a n d t r i a l s . I w o u l d a l s o l i k e t o t h a n k a f e m a l e c o u r s e m a t e o f m i n e w h o g a v e m e t h e i n s p i r a t i o n t o w r i t e b o o k s . S p e c i a l t h a n k s t o m e , m y s e l f a n d I b e c a u s e m y h a r d w o r k a n d d e d i c a t i o n h a v e b e e n i n s t r u m e n t a l i n m a k i n g m y d r e a m s a r e a l i t y .

F i n a l l y , I w o u l d l i k e t o a c k n o w l e d g e t h e i m p o r t a n c e o f t h e s t r e e t s i n m a k i n g m e a b e t t e r p e r s o n a n d c o n t r i b u t i o n s o f a f e w n i g g a s t h a t b e c a m e f a m i l y o v e r t h e y e a r s , t h e i r g e n e r o s i t y h a s b e e n t h e b a c k b o n e , T h a n k y o u a l l , T h a n k y o u B A B A F E M I ! ! !

CONTENTS

Chapter I

➡ Practice Gratitude.

Chapter II

➡ Embrace Your Passions & Hobbies.

Chapter III

➡ Develop Meaningful Relationships.

Chapter IV

➡ Put Your Well Being & Mental Health First.

Chapter V

➡ Make Progress a Regular Part of Your Routine.

CONTENTS

Chapter VI

➡ Prioritize Sufficient Rest &

Taking Breaks.

Chapter VII

➡ Embrace Nature's Peace.

Chapter VIII

➡ Volunteer and Make a

Difference.

Chapter IX

➡ Practice Self-Compassion.

Chapter X

➡Learning continuously

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

OGU BABAFEMI OKECHUKWU

A n e n t r e p r e n e u r b y t r a d e , a n a u t h o r b y f a t e , O g u B a b a f e m i O k e c h u k w u w e n t f r o m b e i n g a n e n t r e p r e n e u r t o w r i t i n g e - b o o k s . H e i s a l s o a n u n d e r g r a d u a t e a n d a b u s i n e s s o w n e r . T h i s i s h i s f o u r t h b o o k a n d y o u c a n g e t h i s b o o k s o n E a r t h ' s m o s t c u s t o m e r - c e n t r i c c o m p a n y , A M A Z O N , b y s e a r c h i n g t h e a u t h o r ’ s f u l l n a m e , ‘ O G U B A B A F E M I O K E C H U K W U ’ .

H e ' s s o t h r i l l e d t o b e a p u b l i s h e d a u t h o r a n d h e ' s h a p p y t o s h a r e h i s p e r s p e c t i v e a n d e x p e r t i s e w i t h t h e w o r l d .

INTRODUCTION

Welcome to "Becoming Your Best Self,"

a guide to unlocking your full potential and achieving your dreams. In this book, you will discover practical strategies and tools to help you overcome obstacles, cultivate positive habits, and create a life that aligns with your values and aspirations. Whether you're seeking personal growth, career success, or greater fulfillment in your relationships, this book will provide you with the knowledge and inspiration you need to take your life to the next level.

"Becoming Your Best Self" offers a roadmap for transforming your life and realizing your full potential. The book consists of 10 chapters that will guide on how you can discover the best version of yourself!

Chapter I

PRACTICE GRATITUDE

Embrace joy and gratitude, and shift your focus from lack.

Gratitude attracts abundance; counting your blessings increases it. Make use or apply this mindset for a magnetic connection to amazing

things

from

the

universe. Focusing on the good things in life and feeling grateful for them can help bring more positivity into your life. When we appreciate what we have, it can attract more abundance and opportunities.

Chapter II

EMBRACE YOUR PASSIONS

& HOBBIES

Embracing your passions and hobbies is a powerful way to enhance positivity in our life and well-being. Engaging in activities that you love can bring immense joy, satisfaction, and a sense of purpose. When you devote time to your passions, you unlock your creativity, expand your skills,

and

find

personal

fulfillment. Moreover, pursuing your passions can lead to personal growth and learning.

It aslo pushes you to set goals, overcome challenges, and

develop new skills. As you explore deeper into your

hobbies, you may discover

hidden talents and interests you never knew existed.

This process of continuous learning and self-improvement contributes

to

personal

development and a sense of achievement.

Chapter III

DEVELOP MEANINGFUL

RELATIONSHIPS

Developing meaningful relationships is an essential aspect of a fulfil ing and enriching life. Meaningful relationships go beyond surface-level interactions and involve deeper connections, mutual understanding, and

genuine

care.

These

relationships provide a sense of belonging, support, and emotional wel -being. To develop meaningful relationships, it is important for us to

invest time and effort in building and nurturing connections. This involves

active

listening,

empathy, and showing genuine interest in others. By taking the time to understand someone’s thoughts,

feelings,

and

experiences, you create a

foundation of trust and openness.

Meaningful relationships are built on mutual respect, support, and shared values, where

individuals feel seen, heard, and valued.

Chapter IV

PUT YOUR WELL BEING &

MENTAL HEALTH FIRST.

Putting Your Wel Being and Mental Health is paramount and most important. Even with

abundance,

poor

health

diminishes joy. Prioritize caring for mind, body, and soul. A balanced, healthy state leads to genuine happiness.

It’s very easy to get caught up in the demands of our everyday life and forget our health in the process.

Also, remember that it’s okay to ask for help when needed. Reach out to friends, family, or professionals who can of er support and guidance.

There is no shame in seeking assistance; in fact, it shows strength and self-awareness.

It is a necessity. It’s just like a car needs fuel to run smoothly, you need to take care of your mental and emotional needs to function at your best. It’s okay to put yourself first.

Chapter V

MAKE PROGRESS A REGULAR

PART OF YOUR ROUTINE.

Making progress a regular

part of your routine can help you achieve your goals and improve your life. Set small, achievable goals and work

towards them consistently.

Celebrate your progress along the way, and don't let

setbacks

discourage

you.

Remember that progress is

not always consecutive, and it's okay to take breaks and adjust your goals as needed.

By making progress a regular part of your routine, you can build energy to achieve

success in the long run.

Remember, progress is a

journey, and it takes time and dedication. By sticking on these principles, you can

make consistent drive toward your goals and enjoy the

satisfaction

of

personal

growth.

Chapter VI

PRIORITIZE SUFFICIENT

REST & TAKING BREAKS.

Prioritizing sufficient rest and taking breaks is crucial for maintaining your physical and mental well-being. Make sure to get enough sleep every time you can, and take breaks

throughout the day to rest or go on vacations and recharge.

This can help you stay focused, reduce stress, and improve your overall productivity.

Remember that taking care of

yourself is just as important as achieving all your goals,

and don't be afraid to take a step back when you need it. By prioritizing rest and breaks, you can improve your quality of life and achieve greater success in the long run.

It's important to listen to your body and prioritize rest when you need it. This might mean taking a nap during the day, or taking a day off from work or other

responsibilities

to

recharge.

Chapter VII

EMBRACE NATURE'S PEACE.

E m b r a c i n g n a t u r e ' s p e a c e c a n b e a p o w e r f u l w a y t o r e d u c e s t r e s s a n d i m p r o v e y o u r

m e n t a l

w e l l - b e i n g .

S p e n d i n g t i m e i n n a t u r e c a n h e l p y o u f e e l m o r e c a l m , c e n t e r e d , a n d c o n n e c t e d t o t h e w o r l d a r o u n d y o u .

W h e t h e r y o u t a k e a w a l k i n t h e p a r k , g o f o r a h i k e , o r s i m p l y s i t o u t s i d e a n d e n j o y t h e b e a u t y o f t h e n a t u r a l w o r l d , s p e n d i n g t i m e i n n a t u r e c a n h a v e a p r o f o u n d i m p a c t o n y o u r m o o d a n d o v e r a l l h e a l t h .

A d d i t i o n a l l y , s t u d i e s h a v e s h o w n t h a t s p e n d i n g t i m e i n n a t u r e c a n i m p r o v e c o g n i t i v e f u n c t i o n , b o o s t c r e a t i v i t y ,

a n d

r e d u c e

s y m p t o m s o f a n x i e t y a n d d e p r e s s i o n . B y e m b r a c i n g n a t u r e ' s p e a c e , y o u c a n i m p r o v e y o u r q u a l i t y o f l i f e

a n d

f i n d

g r e a t e r

p e a c e a n d h a p p i n e s s .

Chapter VIII

VOLUNTEER AND MAKE A

DIFFERENCE.

V o l u n t e e r i n g

c a n

b e

a

p o w e r f u l w a y t o m a k e a p o s i t i v e i m p a c t o n y o u r c o m m u n i t y a n d t h e w o r l d a r o u n d y o u . W h e t h e r y o u v o l u n t e e r a t a l o c a l f o o d b a n k ,

p a r t i c i p a t e

i n

a

c o m m u n i t y

c l e a n - u p ,

o r

d o n a t e y o u r t i m e a n d s k i l l s t o

a

n o n - p r o f i t

o r g a n i z a t i o n , v o l u n t e e r i n g c a n h e l p y o u f e e l m o r e c o n n e c t e d t o o t h e r s a n d g i v e y o u a s e n s e o f p u r p o s e a n d f u l f i l l m e n t .

F u r t h e r m o r e , v o l u n t e e r i n g c a n h e l p y o u d e v e l o p n e w s k i l l s , b u i l d y o u r r e s u m e , a n d m a k e n e w f r i e n d s . B y m a k i n g a d i f f e r e n c e i n t h e l i v e s o f o t h e r s , y o u c a n i m p r o v e y o u r o w n l i f e a n d f i n d g r e a t e r m e a n i n g a n d h a p p i n e s s i n y o u r d a i l y l i f e .

Chapter IX

PRACTICE SELF-

COMPASSION.

Practicing self-compassion is a powerful way to improve your

mental

health

and

overall well-being. Instead of being hard on yourself or criticizing yourself for your mistakes or shortcomings,

self-compassion

involves

treating

yourself

with

kindness, understanding, and acceptance. This might mean acknowledging your feelings and

experiences

without

judgment,

giving

yourself

permission to make mistakes,

or simply being kind to yourself in the way that

you would be kind to a

friend or family.

People who practice self-

compassion

can

take

responsibility for negative experiences but don't get

overwhelmed

by

bad

feelings.

Chapter X

LEARNING

CONTINUOUSLY

Learning continuously is a powerful way to improve your skills, knowledge, and overall quality of life. Whether you take an online course or you attend a class, read a book, or simply seek out new experiences and challenges, learning can help you stay engaged and motivated, and keep your mind sharp and active. Additionally, learning can help you develop new

interests and passions, meet new people, and improve your career prospects.

It also helps in making a commitment

to

lifelong

learning,

you

can

stay

curious and open-minded,

and continue to grow and

evolve throughout your life.