Each woman you know has put you in one of two categories. Either you are a guy she might want to eventually sleep with, or you are a non-sexual friend. To be successful in the dating world, you need to avoid being the friend as much as possible.
I say this because the more you find yourself in the Friend Zone, the less sex you will be getting. If she thinks of you as a friend, she’s less likely to have sex with you.
A lot of men feel they should be ‘respectful’ as they get to know a woman, and don’t try to seduce her. In an attempt to be polite, understanding, and thoughtful, they quickly end up stuck in the Friend Zone. Getting into this zone with too many women also hurts these guys’ seduction game. They’ve gotten used to interacting with women in a non- sexual manner. (For more on avoiding the Friend Zone, check out How to Have Sex with Two Women a Day.)
On meeting a girl that you like, you might think your best approach is to be kind, sweet, and respectful. Women might even tell you that they want this. Unfortunately, they often fail to realize that if you act like this, it changes how they’ll view you.
While these Nice Guy moves may win you another female friend, they are not going to help your sex life. They’re basically a one-way track to the Friend Zone. And most women won’t even consider having sex with their male friends.
By interacting with women as a friend (and not trying to seduce them), you are ruining your chances for sex. The reason is that once you’re in the Friend Zone, there’s little chance of it ever turning sexual. You’ve become too friend-like, too non- sexual. It makes a woman think of you like one of her girl friends rather than a potential lover. Even if you tried to seduce her at this point, it most likely wouldn’t work.
Hanging out with a lot of woman as friends can also hurt your methods of seduction with other women. You will subconsciously start to approach all women you meet in a way that puts you more and more quickly into the Friend Zone with all of them. Instead of acting like you’re attracted to them, you act like you’d like to get to know them on a non- sexual basis. You’ll become the Nice Guy friend, rather than a potential sex partner.
What I’m saying is that every woman you meet (who you’re attracted to) should be a woman that you are trying to seduce. After you have seduced her and had sex with her, then you can decide if you want to continue sleeping with her or just be friends. The main thing to remember is that 90 percent of the woman that you meet should be women that you are seducing and not trying to be friendly with.
Get used to seducing the women you meet. You’ll have more sex partners and you’ll have more fulfilling relations with women in general.