Get Back Your Ex
Special Report

By: Harvey Michales
Brought to you by:
www.getyourexbackhome.com

Disclaimer

 

The information in this report is just that – information. The author cannot make any

 

guarantees that you will be able to get your ex back, that is completely up to you and the work

 

you are willing to put into it.

 

With that said, I am glad that you have this report. Please feel free to share this e-Book

 

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I truly hope that this helps you and if you need any further information or help, please

 

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now looking desperately for a plan of attack? Then you have come to the right place. We are

 

going to hit this thing head on and tackle this thing together.

 

In this time of sadness and perhaps anger and bitterness, you need to make sure that you

 

keep in mind that this did not all happen at once. There was a culmination of things that took

 

place in order to get you where you now stand. And as sad as it may sound, yes you had

 

something to do with your break up. If you want to get your ex back, there is one big thing that

 

you need to do. You have to fix what ever was broken. You need to figure out what went wrong

 

and think about how you got there. By seeing what landed you here, you can start to figure out

 

how you are going to get out of it.

 

Let’s retrace your steps, much like finding something that was once lost, we are going to

 

look deeper and try to find the love that you and your partner lost. Were you always bickering at

 

each other? Were you constantly yelling at each other? If this was the case then you need to

 

start letting things go and learn how to disagree without having it erupt into World War three.

 

If the issue is mainly yours then you need to take care of it now before it gets any worse.

 

Just like a friend once told me of his two pack a day smoking habit – “I have to quit smoking

 

yesterday.” What he meant was he knew how bad it was and that he needed to take care of now

 

because it was starting to take a toll on him. If there is something you need to work on than do it. It is a lot easier to work on

 

ourselves than other people. Let them worry about themselves because you really do not have

 

any control over someone else and the way they act. So take care of what you need to.

 

Once you do this and start to live it, your ex will definitely start to take notice. It is easier

 

to show someone that you have changed as opposed to telling someone. Changing yourself for

 

the better is a quality that many find attractive. It is a sign of strength and definitely a

 

characteristic of someone that others find to be interesting. Take a look at yourself and put in the

 

work that you need to.

 

Follow my lead….

 

Remember that breaking up is not a death sentence. This does not make you a social

 

pariah just because you no longer are with someone or in a relationship. You should look at it as

 

something to learn from. You can take the mistakes you made and learn from it.

 

One of the most important things top remember is to maintain your social life. Go out

 

and have a good time. Not only will this show them that you are not going to let things get you

 

down, you are showing that you are strong enough to move on and push on forward. A quality

 

that is very attractive to many.

 

If there is a chance that someone may show interest in you, then go after it. It is one date;

 

it does not mean that you are betrothed to marry this person. Often times, when ex’s see us on the dating scene again, it really shows them what they had. It’s like that saying, you never really

 

know what you have until it’s gone. In this case that will be true.

 

Another important thing is not to let your appearance suffer because of a break up. This

 

is a big sign that you are getting hit really badly by it. I have seen many women wear the same

 

sweats for days or the same sweater for weeks because of a break up. I have also seen guys go

 

without a shower or shave for days at a time because they were hurting. Nothing is less

 

attractive than seeing someone in this state. And you will definitely not be very attractive to your

 

ex either looking like this.

 

Here is a quick checklist to get your ex back

 

There are a lot of things that can go wrong in a relationship. Perhaps one partner cheated

 

on another, maybe there were some unkind words that were said or maybe one partner’s needs

 

were continually going unmet. You may have been dealing with some or none of the above, but

 

what I do know is right now you are really wishing none of it happened. You are trying to figure

 

out how you are going to get your ex back, right? No problem, I have outlined some things for

 

you to do or follow so we can get right back on track and get back to the way things were.

 

__ Avoid any contact right now. If the breakup is fresh, you need some time away. Chances

 

are he or she needs some time as well to think and clear their head.

 

__ Think about what caused the breakup. People who are in a committed loving relationship

 

do not just decide to leave for no reason. You know why they left. Think about what caused all

 

of this and what contributed to it.

 

__ Fix what ever needs fixing. My guess is that there was something that you did that

 

contributed to the break. Perhaps it was something that you did entirely. If it was, then you need

 

to fix what ever it is that needs to be fixed. If they see that you have changed, then it is more

 

likely that they will come back.

 

__ Keep working on yourself. Continue working on you, change is not immediate and takes

 

time. Keep working on what ever you need to. It will pay off in the long run. __ Move on with your life. If you are working or going to school you need to take care of your

 

obligations. Don’t slip into a funk and start calling in sick or missing classes. Moving on with

 

your life is vital to getting your ex back.

 

__ Keep your social life active. It seems that exes tend to see you in a different light after a

 

breakup if you are active in your social life and dating again. They start to see what they were

 

missing. Get out and get going.

 

What You Should Not Do

 

Now that we know what we should do, let’s talk about what we should not do.

 

There are a lot of things that you can and should do, but there are also a lot of things that you

 

should not do. Knowing what to avoid doing can make the difference between your ex wanting

 

to work things out or pushing them further away from you.

 

What not to do:

 

One thing to avoid is trying to play with their emotions. Don’t use things like your kids or any

 

thing you may have over their head as leverage to get them to come back to you. Using methods

 

like manipulation may get them back initially but eventually they will catch on to you. Why is

 

that bad? Well, while you may initially get them back, once they catch on to the things that you

 

are doing, they will likely leave and this time for good. Don’t use childish tricks or antics to get

 

them back. Don’t ruin any chance you have by pushing them further away.

 

Stating over and over again that you have changed is also another thing that you need to avoid.

 

Actions speak louder than words. Telling someone you have changed, especially when it is done

 

over and over can be quite annoying. Doing things like this will have the other person doubting

 

your sincerity. Stop saying it and start showing it – change that is.

 

Professing your love repeatedly can also get really annoying. After hurting someone or causing a

 

break up, the last thing that person wants to hear is you saying “I love you” a million times over. The fact remains that if you did love them you would not have hurt them to the point where they

 

wanted to leave. Admit your wrongdoing and do your best to correct it.

 

One last thing to try and avoid is arguing and telling your ex why you need to reconcile and

 

make your relationship work. These arguments are usually painful to go through, not to mention

 

a waste of time in most occasions. Giving an embittered speech highlighting the reasons why

 

you need to get back together will probably not work. Stop using your mouth muscles and start

 

using your mental muscles to come up with a solid game plan to get your ex back.

 

A great coach of mine once said, failing to plan is planning to fail. If you want to get your ex

 

back, you need to take the right corrective steps in order to do so. Remember, knowing what to

 

say and do and what not to say and do are essential to you getting your ex back.

 

I hope that these tips help you to get your ex back. There are tons of free information and videos

 

at my site: www.getyourexbackhome.com be sure to check it out if you need more detailed

 

plans to get your ex back. Be sure to check out the guides and resources section as they have

 

stuff specifically for guys or girls.