Dealing With A Drug Addict Child: The Parents' Role
The beginnings of drug addiction typically take place during the teens. This means that parents have such a big responsibility in running the family so that their teenage child will not be influenced to begin experimenting on drugs.
Parents not only have to forewarn their children about the dangers of drug addiction; they also have to be on the lookout for any sign that their child is beginning to be hooked on drugs.
Usually the most noticeable sign that a child may be beginning to use drugs is when he is irritable and overly sensitive. This show of irritability stems from a state of mental conflict. Note that a teenager who's just beginning to try drugs generally has enough discernment to make him rather anxious. Mystery surrounds the drug scene, and the teenager has been warned by his associates to keep the matter secret. Such conduct is condemned by his conscience.
Upon noticing any such over sensitivity on their child, the parents should observe more closely his comings and goings. They should try to engage their child in casual conversations and try to get as much information as they can about his activities. However, they have to be careful not to ask any unreasonable question, for doing so may only hinder the attainment of their desired goal.
Once it becomes clear that a teenager is using drugs, his parents should exert a determined effort to help him while the prospect of success is still high. To be successful, the parents must be ready to sacrifice many things. For example, it may be necessary for them to change residence to move their child away from his drug-using friends. Also, the teenager should not be away from home for long periods of time, unless of course he's following a definite program.
It may be advisable for parents to seek the help of their family doctor in discussing the matter with their child. Their child is most certain to respect the doctor's advice because he acknowledges the same as based on scientific information.
In some cases, a family doctor may be in a better position than the parents to help the child solve some of his problems. This is especially true if the child has some criticisms of his parents which he may want to discuss with the doctor. The doctor can, in turn, discuss these with the parents. From there, peaceable relationships may be worked out