Online Dating Tips - Find Your Perfect Date by Paul Greenwood - HTML preview

MEETING SAFELY

When you are able to hold different conversations with someone online, you may both decide that meeting in real life would be good. A lot of date options are available to help break the ice. However it is important to remember that you must put your safety first. Both people but especially females should be exceptionally careful when they are meeting strangers. No matter how long you have spoken online, you have to remember that it is still someone that you do not know well enough to trust in certain situations. Use common sense when you are meeting someone in person for the first time ever.

First, you should suggest that the date take place in a very public area.

Restaurants are a great place to start and give you a chance to talk to more than a movie date will. You can also suggest that you go to other public places as long as they are not too secluded. Concerts work well for example but walks in the park are not recommended since there are often wooded areas in which your date and you will be alone.

You should also suggest a date that will occur during the daytime rather than at night. You will be able to see one another much better and it is less dangerous and less likely that a predator could victimize you in the daytime since there are other people around. In either case, always find a good common meeting ground for your date. It is dangerous to get into a car with someone that you have not met. Remember that it is easy to lie online. It is easy to continue to lie in person as well. You have to get to know the person as well as his or her friends, family and co-workers so that you can learn to have trust in each other.

You should also try a group date. Invite one or two of your friends and have your date do the same. You can then go to a number of places such as an amusement park or a shopping mall. Your friends will then carefully monitor the situation so that you are sure to be safe. There is always safety in numbers. If you are not taking your friends, you should tel someone where you are going and when you should be back. Always carry a cell phone to be sure.

When you are feeling more comfortable with a person you can move on to more secluded dates. However remember to keep your guard up at all times until you know the person in real life as well as online. Many people will become victims of rape, kidnap, and even murder al the time and a number of situat8ions stem from predators meeting their victims online. Use good common sense when you are meeting someone for the first time so that you are not another statistic to read about.

ONLINE FLIRTING – A NEW ART FORM

Many of the same things work for online flirting that work for "brick and mortar"

flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting. Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT. If you go too far, she will label you 'slimy" If you don't go far enough, she will label you "wimpy". So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language? Al you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right?

1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.

2. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the "feel good" factor. An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.

3. 3. Compliment her...and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say 'thank you". Do Not be self depreciating.

4. Listen...listen....listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Works wonders!

5. Don't be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn't responding to you. If she isn't interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach.

6. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.

Don't try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.

Checking a person's background can be a good thing. It can prevent online scams from reoccurring and help people feel safe about using online dating websites.

However it is also a type of invasion of privacy and many people will avoid online dating websites because they do not want a background check and people do change.

This is a situation that will be sure to be in the news for many years to come. There are already a few states that passed a law that will require background checks. Users and online dating websites do have mixed feeling about this and before you say your opinion you should be sure to understand both sides of the argument. Making background checks mandatory could create a better online dating service for everyone.

However it could also mean that the free services would no longer be available and subscription services would be more expensive than they are now.

To learn more about the online dating website background checks that are out there click the link to a background check site below.

THREE KEYS TO THE MOST UNFORGETTABLE DATE

Dating is such a fun experience for whatever age it is, there is that different feeling of fulfil ment and sheer joy as you meet a person you seem to have interest with. This is a means of finding your future life partner. It could also be a way of getting to know you better for through dating, the side of yourself that you are less familiar with is being unraveled.

When one is out on a date, what must he do in order to make the date worth a memory to cherish? Are there strict guidelines to fol ow? There are actually none, but there could be helpful tips in order for you to make the most out of your date.

These tips are real y important so that you would be able to act well and enjoy the rest of the time you have with that special person.

* Observe punctuality.

Time matters in almost any meeting or activity, it matters most in a date especially if it is the first date. Cliche as it may seem but first impressions last and you have to take good care of your date's impression of you. It may mean something negative if you fail to arrive on time. You may have all the excuses, but you have to show the best efforts in order not to be late.

* Remind yourself that you are just excited and not nervous That strange pump of your heart is just going to distract you from doing well and enjoying your time. Wel , it is but normal to feel that way but do not allow it to swallow you and stop you from doing the things you wanted to do. If you cannot stand the feeling, see to it that you divert that emotion to something that is more positive. Instead of feeling nervous, you have to remind yourself that you are just excited. This could really help you ease the burden of being worried or pressured. Being nervous does not help out, drop it off.

* Honesty is still the best policy

You do not have to impress your date by tel ing tal tales. Sincerity and honesty would always lead you to that acceptance from others. With your honest way of opening yourself to that person you choose to go out with, you would surely reap a warm and honest treatment as well. You could appear impressive without being dishonest. When you are true to what you say and feel, it exudes.

These are just three of the most helpful tips that could make heaven out of your date. Remember, it is the first step to find that lifetime partner you have been waiting for. For more tips, you could find them online. But for the best three tips, stick with our advice.