Most of us value a little romance in our lives. Love without romance is like an unfinished Symphony; it's beautiful but somehow you feel something is missing. In order to truly appreciate how to create the magic of romance, we need to appreciate the subtle chemistry involved in making a connection with someone that may lead to a romantic opportunity.
In today's world it is often difficult to meet someone to be romantic with. However it is certainly worth the effort and a few well- placed romantic tips can be a great help.
Patience is a Virtue
To make a good impression with romantic gestures, it is helpful to have an insight into the romantic desires of your partner. This may take a little time, a little subtle research and a degree of sensitivity. It is true that communication is the gateway to a healthy relationship, for without it you have no idea of your partners view of the world or what they would like to get out of the relationship.
Of course this level of intimacy in conversation can sometimes be a little tricky to start with, so it's best to take one's time and let it happen naturally. There is a natural flow to development of romance which cannot be hurried or forced.
Romance and love are vital ingredients to any intimate relationship. Indeed, without them, we are really just going through the motions. Although, romance and love usually go together, sadly romance is often neglected when love has been established.
This is quite common and can often be the source of distress or dissatisfaction between couples, especially for the female partner. True romance is all about considering the feelings of your partner and being responsive to his or her needs and desires. A lack of romance can often be interpreted as a lack of interest and desire.
Although there are traditional symbols of romantic love in our culture, like candles, chocolate and roses, these are really just tokens. Truly, the most important thing is to offer a sense of 'I treasure you' in your romantic gestures whatever they may be.
A romantic partner finds personalized ways to charm their lover. There are no formulas to follow in becoming a romantic, but there are many resources available that offer some great suggestions on what has worked for others.
You can use these romance stories as inspiration in your own quest for romantic ideas and gestures. Oftentimes we limit our thinking when it comes to romance and go for the safe and traditional route. However it's the unexpected expression of intimacy from our partner or date that makes the greatest impact and often proves the most rewarding.
Monotony is a romance killer!. Getting out of a the rut of everyday routine and planning a special surprise romantic experience can be a great start. Maybe go up to the mountains for a spa weekend, or be impulsive and fly to a European city to attend an art exhibition for example, if you know that your partner would appreciate it.
However, romance can also be found in the simplest of things as long as you are sharing a heart to heart connection with your partner in the experience.
Intimacy is often broken down into "into me you see"... and that is the heart of the matter.
A final note to consider is that romance is not a spectator activity. Be a player, be creative, be sensitive and just dive in and enjoy the adventure. Your partner will love you for it.