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Using Positive Affirmations Love and Romance

Love and romance can be the greatest experiences of your life, but they can also be painful when you do not have them in your life in the form you desire. Too often we get down on ourselves, view ourselves in a negative light, when we do not seem to feel the love from others we desire to feel.

This is natural and normal, but there is something you can do about it to both get out of the negative spiral of emotions and to bring into your life the love and romance you want.

The key to this is the power of positive affirmation. The first step is to get clear on what it is you really want in your life from both love and romance. Then you need to be able to clearly describe what that love and romance will look like in specific examples.

Each example should be one small part of the big picture, and be very clear. The make these in the present and start writing and reciting them as affirmation daily.

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Clarity:

This is the first and most important step. You have to know what love and romance actually means to you. This can be a combination of ideal and realistic. If love for me includes a beautiful woman from Italy, then I need to be in Italy, or at the least need to be open to learning Italian.

So it isn't just about the ideal, but also about having a clear understanding what it really will look like for you.

This is not easy, this will require some serious emotional soul searching, and it will require effort. You are going to find some of your demons, some of the ugliness within you that you may not like but has kept you from having success in love and romance in the past. Be honest with yourself and be compassionate with yourself. Know you deserve love and romance and will find it if you believe you deserve it and are worthy of it.

Specifics:

Now that you have clarity on what love and romance means for you and what it will look like, now you need to take this large picture image of love and romance to you and putting it in clear single chunks. These should be clear and concise statements.

If love means having the opportunity to show you love someone in unique and little ways every day, then you need to make this specific. It could mean "I send flowers for no reason at least once a month which receives amazing gratitude".

That is a perfect example of a clear specific part of what love and romance means. This will take some time, making this long list of specific items that really summarize all the aspects of love and romance for you. This is very important because without these specific pieces you will not be as effective at affirmation, which is the next step.

Affirmations:

Now that you have your list of specific items that make up the big picture of what it is you want for love and romance, you are ready to start turning them into affirmations.

Affirmations are things you write and say every day to implant the thoughts and ideas into your subconscious to prepare you for receiving what you want for love and romance.

The key is to take these specific items, make sure they are written in present and positive. You never want to say I want or talk about it in the future. In an affirmation you want to be stating it as if you have it directly in front of you, already in your possession.

You must believe it before you see it. So make sure when you do your affirmations they are stated in the present and in the positive. Never say you will lose 10 pounds or even I have lost 10 pounds, instead, know the weight you want to be and state it that way. "I weigh 135 pounds and am lean and healthy". That is a better and more appropriate affirmation.

So get clarity on what love and romance means to you. Break that down into specific items and ideas. Then turn these specific statements into positive and present statements that you write and state daily. I recommend doing it twice a day, right when you wake up, and right when you go to bed. This allows you to start and end the day in positive powerful ways to ensure you invite the love and romance you want into your life.