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The birds, too, found in her a most sympathetic friend.

Her ear is open

to:

"Spring's messenger, the sweet-voiced nightingale,"

and she pities the wood-doves as "their heart turns cold and their wings

fall," under the stroke from the arrow of the archer.

Sappho's love for nature is only surpassed by her love for art, for

splendor and festivity, as they appeal to the aesthetic nature. She loves

her lyre, the song and the dance, garlands, purple robes, and all that

attended the worship of Aphrodite and the Muses. Her lyre she thus

addresses:

"Come, then, my lyre divine!

Let speech be thine."

And to Aphrodite she utters this appeal:

"Come, Queen of Cyprus, pour the stream Of nectar, mingled lusciously

With merriment, in cups of gold."

She also calls about her the Muses and the Graces:

"Hither come, ye dainty Graces

And ye fair-haired Muses now!"

And again:

"Come, rosy-armed, chaste Graces! come, Daughter of Jove."

And yet again:

"Hither, hither come, ye Muses!

Leave the golden sky."

In the worship of Aphrodite and the Graces, garlands are appropriate for

the devotees:

"Of foliage and flowers love-laden Twine wreaths for thy flowing hair

With thine own soft fingers, maiden,

Weave garlands of parsley fair;

"For flowers are sweet, and the Graces On suppliants wreathed with may

Look down from their heavenly places,

But turn from the crownless away."

Such was the joy of the devotees of the Muses. Sappho believed in the

adornment of the soul as well as of the body, and she thus addresses one

who neglected the services of the Muses:

"Yea, thou shalt die,

And lie

Dumb in the silent tomb;

Nor of thy name

Shall there be any fame

In ages yet to be or years to come;

For of the flowering Rose,

Which on Pieria blows,

Thou hast no share:

But in sad Hades' house

Unknown, inglorious

'Mid the dark shades that wander there Shalt thou flit forth and haunt the filmy air."

"I think there will be memory of us yet in after days,"

said Sappho, and

the sentiment is one which later poets have often imitated. Thus the

poetess had intimations of the immortality that is justly hers, and the

reader will heartily enter into the spirit of Swinburne's paraphrase:

"I, Sappho, shall be one with all these things, With all things high forever; and my face Seen once, my songs once heard in a strange place,

Cleave to men's lives, and waste the days thereof In gladness, and much sadness and long love."

Sappho sings of love and its manifestations, of longing and passion, of

grief and regret, of natural beauty in sea and sky, by day and by night,

of the birds and trees and flowers, and "all this is told us in language

at once overpowering and delicate, in verse as symmetrical as it is

exquisite, free, and fervid, through metaphor simple or sublime; each

word, each line, expressive of the writer's inmost sense; with an art

that, in its Greek constraint, comparison, and sweetness, and in its

Oriental fervor, is faultless and unerring."

Not only as a poet is Sappho of interest to the women of our day, but

also because she was the founder of the first woman's club of which we

have knowledge. This Lesbian literary club did not engage, however, in

the study of current topics, or seek to gather sheaves of knowledge from

the field of science and history, but was consecrated strictly to the

service of the Muses. Sappho attracted by her fame young women of Lesbos

and of neighboring cities. She gathered them about her, gave them

instruction in poetry and music, and incited them to the cultivation of

all the arts and graces. Many of these maidens from a distance doubtless

sought the society of Sappho because they were weary of the low drudgery

and monotonous routine of home life that fell to the lot of women in

Ionian cities, and because they felt the need of a freer atmosphere and

more inspiring surroundings.

Sappho eagerly sought to elevate her sex. She showed them that, through

the more perfect training of mind and body, their horizon would be

enlarged, their resources for happiness increased, and their homes

become centres of inspiring influences for husband and children.

Never was there a teacher more eager to possess her pupils' love and

confidence. Maximus of Tyre compares her relations with her girl friends

to Socrates's relations with young men. At times, men have seen fit to

censure these intimate friendships of Socrates and Sappho with their

pupils, and to see in them immoral relations such as characterized the

passionate devotion of many Greek men to beautiful youths; but there is

no ground for such imputations. While manifesting the beauty and

sweetness and satisfaction in woman's love for woman, Sappho did not

attempt to make this love a substitute for the love of men. She herself

was married; and there are intimations in her poems that certain of her

girl friends exchanged the pleasures of aesthetic comradeship for the

joys of wedded life.

From the fragments of her songs, we know the names of at least fourteen

of her pupils, and it pleases the fancy to attempt to reconstruct a

picture of that delightful band of girl friends, who spent their days in

the study of poetry and music and their evenings in every elevating form

of recreation. A writer has thus sketched the picture:

"Let us call

around her in fancy the maidens who have come from different parts of

Greece to learn of her. Anactoria is here from Miletus, Eunica from

Salamis, Gongyle from Colophon, and others from Pamphylia, and the isle

of Telos. Erinna and Damophyla study together the composition of Sapphic

metres. Atthis learns how to strike the harp with the plectrum, Sappho's

invention; Mnasidica embroiders a sacred robe for the temple. The

teacher meanwhile corrects the measures of the one, the notes of

another, the strophes of a third; then summons all from their work, to

rehearse together some sacred chorus or temple ritual; then stops to

read a verse of her own, or to denounce a rival preceptress. Throughout

her intercourse with these maidens her conduct is characterized by

passionate love, as between equals in mind and heart, and is expressed

in fervid and high-wrought language embodying a purity that cannot be

misunderstood or cavilled away."

VII

THE SPARTAN WOMAN

It was from Sparta that Paris in the Heroic Age bore away to his

Phrygian home Argive Helen, fairest of mortals, the Greek ideal of

feminine beauty and charm. But never since that fateful day--as, indeed,

never before it--was there in Sparta any woman to compare with her; for

the Spartan maidens of historical times, though comely and vigorous and

noted for physical beauty, were cast in a firmer, sturdier mould than

that which characterized Helen, the flower of grace and loveliness. Yet

the traveller in Sparta in her prime must have marvelled at the splendid

maidens and matrons he saw amid the hills of Lacedaemon-

-trained in

athletic exercises, fleet of foot, vigorous and well-proportioned, and

showing in their very bearing how important they were to the well-being

of the State.

In Sparta, woman was the equal of man--in Athens, his inferior. In this

fact lies the secret of the training that was given her, for the

character of the education of woman is an index to the position assigned

her by the spirit of the State. Spartan legislation concerning woman was

controlled by one idea--to develop in the maiden the mother-to-be. This

idea is so beautiful, so profound, that, after all the centuries which

have elapsed, one cannot find a better principle for feminine education.

Like mother, like son--and the Spartan ideal of the son was the warrior

strong, brave, and resolute, enduring hardship and living solely for

the State. Hence the mother must be strong, brave, and resolute,

sacrificing every womanly tenderness to the prevailing conception of

patriotism.

Great is the contrast between the women of the various peoples of

Greece. The Achaean woman, in Homeric times, played no prominent part in

public affairs; her home was her palace, and she manifested those

domestic traits and womanly qualities that in this day still constitute

womanly charm. The life of the Ionian woman was a secluded one; she was

under the domination of the sterner sex, and compelled to devote herself

largely to the varied duties of the household. The AEolian woman, on the

contrary, had asserted her freedom, and lived on terms of social and

intellectual comradeship with men. She devoted herself to the

cultivation of every womanly grace, and was the earnest follower of

Aphrodite and the Muses. In contrast to these, the Spartan woman

presents an altogether unique type. She was merely a creature of the

State, the cultivation of her higher nature being under the control of a

rigid system. As such, she contributed in a large degree to the public

welfare, but it was at the sacrifice of many feminine attributes. In

her, natural affection and womanly sympathy were sacrificed to a single

virtue--patriotism. But one function was emphasized--

that of motherhood.

All her training was devoted to but one end--that of producing soldiers.

The life of the individual was strictly subordinated to the good of the

State. Such a system evolved a remarkable type of womanhood, and the

Spartan matron has won an immortal name in history.

From the central mass of the mountain system of the Peloponnesus in

Arcadia, two chains, Taygetus and Parnon, detach themselves and extend

southward, terminating in the two dangerous promontories of Taenarum and

Malea. Between the two ridges the river Eurotas winds its way in a

southeasterly course. In the undulating valley formed by the bed of the

stream, and shut in by the mountain ranges, lay ancient Sparta. The

country, by nature and climate, was such as to make men hardy and

determined. Euripides styles it "a country rich in productions, but

difficult to cultivate; shut in on all sides by a barrier of stern

mountains; almost inaccessible to the foe." Its hidden situation in the

Eurotas valley made it a well-guarded camp, and the Dorian conquerors of

the Peloponnesus, surrounded by enemies and threatened by warlike

neighbors, soon saw that the only hope of holding their conquests and

extending their power lay in the maintenance of a warlike race.

Lycurgus, usually reputed to have lived in the ninth century before

Christ, was the founder of the legislation which constituted the

greatness of Sparta. He was one of the originators of the principle, so

characteristic of antiquity and in such contrast to the spirit of modern

times: "The citizen is born and lives for the State; to it his time, his

strength, and all his powers belong." Nowhere was this maxim so rigidly

enforced as at Sparta. Lycurgus established institutions of a public

nature which gave a centralized administration of the most rigid sort,

and regulations relating to private life which would develop a warlike

type of citizen, the whole system tending to make Sparta supreme in the

Peloponnesus, and her soldiers invincible in war. To accomplish this

end, the daily life of every individual, both male and female, was under

the control of the State. The effect of such a system on the character

has been happily expressed by Rousseau: "He strengthened the citizen by

taking away the human traits from the man."

Lycurgus saw that the salvation of Sparta depended on its citizens being

a nation of warriors. Only by being always ready for war and by

possessing an invincible body of soldiery could the State fulfil its

destiny in the work of the world. He realized further that the natural

antecedent of a nation of men strong physically and intellectually is a

race of healthy, sturdy, able-bodied women. Hence his training of the

daughters of Sparta was the corner-stone of his system.

Valuing woman

only for her fruitfulness, his legislation in regard to her had but one

object in view--fitting her to be the mother of a powerful race of men.

Maidens, therefore, as well as youths, were subjected to the most rigid

physical training.

From the moment of birth, the Spartan boy or girl was in the hands of

the State. The infant was exposed in the place of public assembly, and

if the elders considered it frail and unpromising, or for any reason

regarded its existence of no value to the State, the child was thrown

off a cliff of Mount Taygetus,--a usage shocking to modern

sensibilities, but accepted as a necessity by Plato, Aristotle, and

other ancient philosophers. The able-bodied child was restored to its

mother, and she directed the early training of her charge under the eye

of the magistrates. Though the Spartan girl was not, as the youth,

removed altogether from the mother at the age of seven and brought up in

the barracks, yet her training was scarcely less severe than that of the

boys. The feminine tasks of spinning and weaving, customary for free

women of other peoples, were by the Spartans committed to female slaves,

and the State so ordered the lives of the free maidens that they might

become in the future the mothers of robust children. "He

[Lycurgus]

directed the maidens," says Plutarch, "to exercise themselves with

wrestling, running, throwing the quoit, and casting the dart, to the

end that the fruit they conceived might in strong and healthy bodies

take firmer root and find better growth." These gymnastic exercises they

practised in public, clad in little else save their own modesty, thus

overcoming fear of exposure to the air, as well as overgreat tenderness

and shyness. Similarly clad, they took part in processions along with

the young men, and were trained in singing and dancing in the public

choruses. This carefully regulated comradeship between youths and

maidens was encouraged with a view to stimulating the young men to deeds

of valor. The maidens on these occasions would make, by means of jests,

befitting reflections on the young men who had misbehaved themselves in

the wars, and would sing encomiums upon those who had done gallant

actions. Thus the young men were spurred on to greater endeavor by the

dread of feminine ridicule, and were inspired by feminine praise to the

performance of great deeds. It was always the part of the Spartan

maiden, then, to keep bright the fires of patriotism and heroic

endeavor. The mother, by precept and example, taught the daughter to

repress every emotion of womanly tenderness, to elevate the State to the

first place in her heart and life, and to find her destiny in bearing

brave sons to defend her country. Thus admitted to the freedom of

companionship with their brothers in the games and processions, and

stimulated by the instructions of their mothers, they early caught the

spirit and purpose which animated one and all--the spirit of unselfish

patriotism. It was natural, therefore, that they accepted without a

murmur the tyranny of a single idea and found in it their glory and

pride. Many stories are told of their remarkable devotion to the State.

A Spartan mother who has lost her boy in battle exclaims: "Did I not

bear him that he might die for Sparta?" To another, waiting for tidings

of the battle, comes a messenger announcing that her five sons have

perished. "You contemptible slave," she replies, "that is not what I

wish to hear. How fares my country?" On hearing that Sparta is

victorious, she adds, without a tremor: "Willingly, then, do I hear of

the death of my sons."

Marriage is the determining factor in the economic conditions of

society, and the regulations prescribed concerning it are an excellent

index to the character of any people. Under the Lycurgan system,

marriage was strictly under the control of the State.

The goddess of

love was practically banished from Sparta. Only one temple to Aphrodite

stood in Lacedaemon; and in this the goddess was represented armed, not

with her magic girdle, but with a sword, and seated with a veil over her

head and fetters upon her feet, symbolizing that she was under

restraint. History records many instances of affection between husband

and wife, but considerations of love did not enter into the marriage

contract. No frail woman was allowed to marry. The age of marriage was

fixed at the period which was considered best for the perfection of the

offspring, usually about thirty years in the case of the men, and about

twenty for the maidens. Plutarch describes in uncolored language the

chief features of the marriage relations of the Spartans:

"In their marriages, the husband carried off his bride by a sort of

force; nor were brides ever small and of tender years, but in their full

bloom and ripeness. After this, she who superintended the wedding comes

and clips the hair of the bride close round her head, dresses her up in

man's clothes, and leaves her upon a mattress in the dark; afterward

comes the bridegroom, in his everyday clothes, sober and composed, as

having supped at the common table; and entering privately into the room

where the bride lies, unties her virgin zone, and takes her to himself;

and after staying some time together, he returns composedly to his own

apartment, to sleep as usual with the other young men.

And so he

continues to do, spending his days and indeed his nights with them,

visiting his bride in fear and shame and with circumspection, when he

thought he should not be observed; she also, on her part, using her wit

to help to find favorable opportunities for their meeting, when company

was out of the way. In this manner they lived a long time, insomuch that

they sometimes had children by their wives before ever they saw their

faces by daylight. Their interviews being thus difficult and rare,

served not only for continual exercise of their self-control, but

brought them together with their bodies healthy and vigorous, and their

affections fresh and lively, unsated and undulled by easy access and

long continuance with each other, while their partings were always early

enough to leave behind unextinguished in each of them some remaining

fire of longing and mutual delight.

"After guarding marriage with this modesty and reserve, Lycurgus was

equally careful to banish empty and womanish jealousy.

For this object,

excluding all licentious disorders, he made it nevertheless honorable

for men to give the use of their wives to those whom they should think

fit, that so they might have children by them; ridiculing those in whose

opinion such favors are so unfit for participation as to fight and shed

blood and go to war therefor. Lycurgus allowed a man, who was advanced

in years and had a young wife, to recommend some virtuous and approved

young man, that she might have a child by him, who might inherit the

good qualities of the father, and be a son to himself.

On the other

side, an honest man who had love for a married woman upon account of her

modesty and the well-favoredness of her children might, without

formality, beg her company of her husband, that he might raise, as it

were, from this plot of good ground worthy and well-allied children for

himself."

Regulations such as these, though shocking to modern sensibilities, seem

not to have been detrimental to public morals while Sparta submitted to

the severe austerity of the laws. It seems surprising that, while a

woman might lawfully be the recognized wife of two husbands, no such

duplication of spouses was allowed to a man. This rule is illustrated by

its one historical exception In the case of King Anaxandrides, who, says

Herodotus, when the royal Heraclidaean line of Eurystheus was in danger

of becoming extinct, married his niece, who bore him no children. The

people besought him to divorce her, and to contract another marriage;

but, owing to his love for his wife, he positively refused. Upon this,

they made a suggestion to him as follows: "Since then we perceive thou

art firmly attached to the wife whom thou now hast, consent to do this,

and set not thyself against it, lest the Spartans take some counsel

against thee other than might be wished. We do not ask of thee the

putting away of the wife thou now hast; but do thou give to her all that

thou givest now, and at the same time take to thy house another wife in

addition to this one, to bear thee children." When they spoke to him

after this manner, Anaxandrides consented, and from this time forth he

kept two separate households, having two wives, a thing which, we are

told, was not by any means after the Spartan fashion.

Every inducement was offered to encourage matrimony, and bachelors were

the objects of general scorn and derision. "Those who continued

bachelors," says Plutarch, "were in a degree disfranchised by law; for

they were excluded from the sight of the public processions in which the

young men and maidens danced naked, and in the winter-time the officers

compelled them to walk naked round the market place, singing, as they

went, a certain song to their own disgrace, that they justly suffered

this punishment for disobeying the laws." Furthermore, at a certain

festival the women themselves sought to bring these misguided

individuals to a proper sense of their duty by dragging them round an

altar and continually inflicting blows upon them.

Without doubt, the

maidens were all inclined to matrimony, as it enhanced their influence

and enabled them to fulfil their mission; and the rulers were ever ready

to provide husbands for them.

A kind of disgrace attached to childlessness. Men who were not fathers

were denied the respect and observance which the young men of Sparta

regularly paid their elders. On one occasion, Dercyllidas, a commander

of great renown, entered an assembly. A young Spartan, contrary to

custom, failed to rise at his approach. The veteran soldier was

surprised. "You have no sons," said the youth, "who will one day pay the

same honor to me." And public opinion justified the excuse.

The effects of the athletic training upon the physical nature of woman

were most commendable. The Spartan maiden was renowned throughout Greece

for preeminence in vigor of body and beauty of form.

Even the Athenian

was impressed by this. Lysistrata, in the play of Aristophanes, in

greeting Lampito, the delegate from Sparta, who has come to a women's

conference, speaks thus:

"O dearest Laconian, O Lampito, welcome! How beautiful you look,

sweetest one! What a fresh color! How vigorous your body is! What

beautiful breasts you have! Why, you could throttle an ox!" To this

greeting comes the reply: