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the variable light of the dark, thoughtful eyes. In her last years, when

her stately figure had grown attenuated, and her face was pallid

with long suffering, the underlying force of her character was more

distinctly defined in the clear and noble outlines of her features. Her

nature was full of subtle shades. Over her reserved strength, her calm

judgment, her wise penetration played the delicate light of a lively

imagination, the shifting tints of a tender sensibility.

Her sympathy

found ready expression in tears, and she could not even bear the

emotion of saying good-by to Mme. de Sevigne when she was going away to

Provence. But her accents were always tempered, and her manners had the

gracious and tranquil ease of a woman superior to circumstances. Her

extreme frankness lent her at times a certain sharpness, and she deals

many light blows at the small vanities and affectations that come under

her notice. "Mon Dieu," said the frivolous Mme. de Marans to her one

day, "I must have my hair cut." "Mon Dieu," replied Mme.

de La Fayette

simply, "do not have it done; that is becoming only to young persons."

Gourville said she was imperious and over-bearing, scolding those she

loved best, as well as those she did not love. But this valet-de-chambre

of La Rochefoucauld, who amassed a fortune and became a man of some

note, was jealous of her influence over his former master, and his

opinions should be taken with reservation. Her delicate satire may have

been sometimes a formidable weapon, but it was directed only against

follies, and rarely, if ever, used unkindly. She was a woman for

intimacies, and it is to those who knew her best that we must look for

a just estimate of her qualities. "You would love her as soon as you

had time to be with her, and to become familiar with her esprit and her

wisdom," wrote Mme. de Sevigne to her daughter, who was disposed to be

critical; "the better one knows her, the more one is attached to her."

One must also take into consideration her bad health.

People thought

her selfish or indifferent when she was only sad and suffering. For more

than twenty years she was ill, consumed by a slow fever which permitted

her to go out only at intervals. La Rochefoucauld had the gout, and they

consoled each other. Mme. de Sevigne thought it better not to have the

genius of a Pascal, than to have so many ailments. "Mme.

De La Fayette

is always languishing, M. de La Rochefoucauld always lame," she writes;

"we have conversations so sad that it seems as if there were nothing

more to do but to bury us; the garden of Mme. de La Fayette is the

prettiest spot in the world, everything blooming, everything perfumed;

we pass there many evenings, for the poor woman does not dare go out in

a carriage." "Her health is never good," she writes again, "nevertheless

she sends you word that she should not like death better; AU CONTRAIRE."

There are times when she can no longer "think, or speak, or answer, or

listen; she is tired of saying good morning and good evening." Then she

goes away to Meudon for a few days, leaving La Rochefoucauld "incredibly

sad." She speaks for herself in a letter from the country house which

Gourville has placed at her disposal.

"I am at Saint Maur; I have left all my affairs and all my husbands; I

have my children and the fine weather; that suffices. I take the waters

of Forges; I look after my health, I see no one. I do not mind at all

the privation; every one seems to me so attached to pleasures which

depend entirely upon others, that I find my disposition a gift of the

fairies.

"I do not know but Mme de Coulanges has already sent you word of our

after-dinner conversations at Gourville's about people who have taste

above or below their intelligence. Mme. Scarron and the Abbe Tetu were

there; we lost ourselves in subtleties until we no longer understood

anything. If the air of Provence, which subtilizes things still more,

magnifies for you our visions, you will be in the clouds. You have taste

below your intelligence; so has M. de La Rochefoucauld; and myself also,

but not so much as you two. VOILA an example which will guide you."

She disliked writing letters, and usually limited herself to a few plain

facts, often in her late years to a simple bulletin of her health. This

negligence was the subject of many passages-at-arms between herself and

Mme. de Sevigne. "If I had a lover who wished my letters every morning,

I would break with him," she writes. "Do not measure our friendship by

our letters. I shall love you as much in writing you only a page in a

month, as you me in writing ten in eight days." Again she replies to

some reproach: "Make up your mind, ma belle, to see me sustain, all my

life, with the whole force of my eloquence, that I love you still more

than you love me. I will make Corbinelli agree with me in a quarter of

an hour; your distrust is your sole defect, and the only thing in you

that can displease me."

But in spite of a certain apparent indolence, and her constant ill

health, there were many threads that connected with the outside world

the pleasant room in which Mme. de La Fayette spent so many days of

suffering. "She finds herself rich in friends from all sides and all

conditions," writes Mme. de Sevigne; "she has a hundred arms; she

reaches everywhere. Her children appreciate all this, and thank her

every day for possessing a spirit so engaging." She goes to Versailles,

on one of her best days, to thank the king for a pension, and receives

so many kind words that it "suggests more favors to come." He orders

a carriage and accompanies her with other ladies through the park,

directing his conversation to her, and seeming greatly pleased with

her judicious praise. She spends a few days at Chantilly, where she is

invited to all the fetes, and regrets that Mme. de Sevigne could not be

with her in that charming spot, which she is "fitted better than anyone

else to enjoy." No one understands so well the extent of her influence

and her credit as this devoted friend, who often quotes her to Mme.

de Grignan as a model. "Never did any one accomplish so much without

leaving her place," she says.

But there was one phase in the life of Mme. de La Fayette which was not

fully confided even to Mme. de Sevigne. It concerns a chapter of obscure

political history which it is needless to dwell upon here, but which

throws much light upon her capacity for managing intricate affairs. Her

connection with it was long involved in mystery, and was only unveiled

in a correspondence given to the world at a comparatively recent date.

It was in the salon of the Grande Mademoiselle that she was thrown into

frequent relations with the two daughters of Charles Amedee de Savoie,

Duc de Nemours, one of whom became Queen of Portugal, the other Duchesse

de Savoie and, later, Regent during the minority of her son. These

relations resulted in one of the ardent friendships which played so

important a part in her career. Her intercourse with the beautiful

but vain, intriguing, and imperious Duchesse de Savoie assumed the

proportion of a delicate diplomatic mission. "Her salon," says Lescure,

"was, for the affairs of Savoy, a center of information much

more important in the eyes of shrewd politicians than that of the

ambassador." She not only looked after the personal matters of Mme.

Royale, but was practically entrusted with the entire management of her

interests in Paris. From affairs of state and affairs of the heart to

the daintiest articles of the toilette her versatile talent is called

into requisition. Now it is a message to Louvois or the king, now a turn

to be adroitly given to public opinion, now the selection of a perfume

or a pair of gloves. "She watches everything, thinks of everything,

combines, visits, talks, writes, sends counsels, procures advice,

baffles intrigues, is always in the breach, and renders more service

by her single efforts than all the envoys avowed or secret whom

the Duchesse keeps in France." Nor is the value of these services

unrecognized. "Have I told you," wrote Mme. de Sevigne to her daughter,

"that Mme. de Savoie has sent a hundred ells of the finest velvet in the

world to Mme. de La Fayette, and a hundred ells of satin to line it,

and two days ago her portrait, surrounded with diamonds, which is worth

three hundred louis?"

The practical side of Mme. de La Fayette's character was remarkable in

a woman of so fine a sensibility and so rare a genius.

Her friends

often sought her counsel; and it was through her familiarity with legal

technicalities that La Rochefoucauld was enabled to save his fortune,

which he was at one time in danger of losing. In clear insight, profound

judgment, and knowledge of affairs, she was scarcely, if at all,

surpassed by Mme. de Maintenon, the feminine diplomatist par excellence

of her time, though her field of action was less broad and conspicuous.

But her love of consideration was not so dominant and her ambition not

so active. It was one of her theories that people should live without

ambition as well as without passion. "It is sufficient to exist," she

said. Her energy when occasion called for it does not quite accord with

this passive philosophy, and suggests at least a vast reserved force;

but if she directed her efforts toward definite ends it was usually to

serve other interests than her own. She had been trained in a different

school from Mme. de Maintenon, her temperament was modified by her

frail health, and the prizes of life had come to her apparently

without special exertion. She was a woman, too, of more sentiment and

imagination. Her fastidious delicacy and luxurious tastes were the

subject of critical comment on the part of this austere censor, who

condemned the gilded decorations of her bed as a useless extravagance,

giving the characteristic reason that "the pleasure they afforded

was not worth the ridicule they excited." The old friendship that had

existed when Mme. Scarron was living in such elegant and mysterious

seclusion, devoting herself to the king's children, and finding her main

diversion in the little suppers enlivened by the wit of Mme. de Sevigne

and Mme. de Coulanges, and the more serious, but not less agreeable,

conversation of Mme. de La Fayette, had evidently grown cool. They had

their trifling disagreements. "Mme. de La Fayette puts too high a price

upon her friendship," wrote Mme. de Maintenon, who had once attached

such value to a few approving words from her. In her turn Mme. de La

Fayette indulged in a little light satire. Referring to the comedy of

Esther, which Racine had written by command for the pupils at Saint Cyr,

she said, "It represents the fall of Mme. de Montespan and the rise of

Mme. de Maintenon; all the difference is that Esther was rather younger,

and less of a precieuse in the matter of piety." There was certainly

less of the ascetic in Mme. de La Fayette. She had more color and also

more sincerity. In symmetry of character, in a certain feminine quality

of taste and tenderness, she was superior, and she seems to me to

have been of more intrinsic value as a woman. Whether under the same

conditions she would have attained the same power may be a question.

If not, I think it would have been because she was unwilling to pay the

price, not because she lacked the grasp, the tact, or the diplomacy.

It is mainly as a woman of letters that Mme. de La Fayette is known

today, and it was through her literary work that she made the strongest

impression upon her time. Boileau said that she had a finer intellect

and wrote better than any other woman in France. But she wrote only for

the amusement of idle or lonely hours, and always avoided any display of

learning, in order not to attract jealousy as well as from instinctive

delicacy of taste. "He who puts himself above others,"

she said,

"whatever talent he may possess, puts himself below his talent." But

her natural atmosphere was an intellectual one, and the friend of La

Rochefoucauld, who would have "liked Montaigne for a neighbor," had her

own message for the world. Her mind was clear and vigorous, her taste

critical and severe, and her style had a flexible quality that readily

took the tone of her subject. In concise expression she doubtless

profited much from the author of the MAXIMS, who rewrote many of his

sentences at least thirty times. "A phrase cut out of a book is worth a

louis d'or," she said, "and every word twenty sous."

Unfortunately her

"Memoires de la Cour de France" is fragmentary, as her son carelessly

lent the manuscripts, and many of them were lost. But the part that

remains gives ample evidence of the breadth of her intelligence, the

penetrating, lucid quality of her mind, and her talent for seizing the

salient traits of the life about her. In her romances, which were first

published under the name of Segrais, one finds the touch of an artist,

and the subtle intuitions of a woman. In the rapid evolution of modern

taste and the hopeless piling up of books, these works have fallen

somewhat into the shade, but they are written with a vivid naturalness

of style, a truth of portraiture, and a delicacy of sentiment, that

commend them still to all lovers of imaginative literature. Fontenelle

read the "Princesse de Cleves" four times when it appeared. La Harpe

said it was "the first romance that offered reasonable adventures

written with interest and elegance." It marked an era in the history of

the novel. "Before Mme. de La Fayette," said Voltaire,

"people wrote

in a stilted style of improbable things." We have the rare privilege of

reading her own criticism in a letter to the secretary of the Duchesse

de Savoie, in which she disowns the authorship, and adds a few lines of

discreet eulogy.

"As for myself," she writes, "I am flattered at being suspected of it.

I believe I should acknowledge the book, if I were assured the author

would never appear to claim it. I find it very agreeable and well

written without being excessively polished, full of things of admirable

delicacy, which should be read more than once; above all, it seems to

be a perfect presentation of the world of the court and the manner

of living there. It is not romantic or ambitious; indeed it is not a

romance; properly speaking, it is a book of memoirs, and that I am told

was its title, but it was changed. VOILA, monsieur, my judgment upon

Mme. De Cleves; I ask yours, for people are divided upon this book to

the point of devouring each other. Some condemn what others admire;

whatever you may say, do not fear to be alone in your opinion."

Sainte-Beuve, whose portrait of Mme. de La Fayette is so delightful as

to make all others seem superfluous, has devoted some exquisite lines

to this book. "It is touching to think," he writes, "of the peculiar

situation which gave birth to these beings so charming, so pure, these

characters so noble and so spotless, these sentiments so fresh, so

faultless, so tender;" how Mme. de La Fayette put into it all that her

loving, poetic soul retained of its first, ever-cherished dreams, and

how M. de La Rochefoucauld was pleased doubtless to find once more in

"M. De Nemours" that brilliant flower of chivalry which he had too much

misused--a sort of flattering mirror in which he lived again his youth.

Thus these two old friends renewed in imagination the pristine beauty of

that age when they had not known each other, hence could not love each

other. The blush so characteristic of Mme. De Cleves, and which at first

is almost her only language, indicates well the design of the author,

which is to paint love in its freshest, purest, vaguest, most adorable,

most disturbing, most irresistible--in a word, in its own color. It is

constantly a question of that joy which youth joined to beauty gives, of

the trouble and embarrassment that love causes in the innocence of early

years, in short, of all that is farthest from herself and her friend in

their late tie."

But whatever tints her tender and delicate imaginings may have taken

from her own soul, Mme. de La Fayette has caught the eternal beauty of

a pure and loyal spirit rising above the mists of sense into the serene

air of a lofty Christian renunciation.

The sad but triumphant close of her romance foreshadowed the swift

breaking up of her own pleasant life. In 1680, not long after the

appearance of the "Princesse de Cleves," La Rochefoucauld died, and

the song of her heart was changed to a miserere. "Mme.

de La Fayette has

fallen from the clouds," says Mme. de Sevigne. "Where can she find

such a friend, such society, a like sweetness, charm, confidence,

consideration for her and her son?" A little later she writes from

The Rocks, "Mme. de La Fayette sends me word that she is more deeply

affected than she herself believed, being occupied with her health

and her children; but these cares have only rendered more sensible the

veritable sadness of her heart. She is alone in the world... The poor

woman cannot close the ranks so as to fill this place."

The records of the thirteen years that remain to Mme. de La Fayette are

somber and melancholy. "Nothing can replace the blessings I have lost,"

she says. Restlessly she seeks diversion in new plans.

She enlarges her

house as her horizon diminishes; she finds occupation in the affairs of

Mme. Royale and interests herself in the marriage of the daughter of

her never-forgotten friend, the Princess Henrietta, with the heir to the

throne of Savoy. She writes a romance without the old vigor, occupies

herself with historic reminiscences, and takes a passing refuge in an

ardent affection for the young Mme. de Schomberg, which excites the

jealousy of some older friends. But the strongest link that binds her

to the world is the son whose career opens so brilliantly as a young

officer and for whom she secures an ample fortune and a fine marriage.

In this son and the establishment of a family centered all her hopes

and ambitions. She was spared the pain of seeing them vanish like the

"baseless fabric of a vision." The object of so many cares survived

her less than two years; her remaining son and the only person left to

represent her was the abbe who had so little care for her manuscripts

and her literary fame. A century later, through a collateral branch

of the family, the glory of the name was revived by the distinguished

general so dear to the American heart. It was in the less tangible realm

of the intellect that Mme. de La Fayette was destined to an unlooked-for

immortality.

But in spite of these interests, the sense of loneliness and desolation

is always present. Her few letters give us occasional flashes of the old

spirit, but the burden of them is inexpressibly sad. Her sympathies and

associations led her toward a mild form of Jansenism, and as the evening

shadows darkened, her thoughts turned to fresh speculations upon the

destiny of the soul. She went with Mme. de Coulanges to visit Mme. de

La Sabliere, who was expiating the errors and follies of her life in

austere penitence at the Incurables. The devotion of this once gay and

brilliant woman, who had been so deeply tinged with the philosophy of

Descartes, touched her profoundly, and suggested a source of consolation

which she had never found. She sought the counsels of her confessor, who

did not spare her, and though she was never sustained by the ardor and

exaltation of the religieuse, her last days were not without peace and

a tranquil hope. To the end she remained a gracious, thoughtful,

self-poised, calmly-judging woman whose illusions never blinded her to

the simple facts of existence, though sometimes throwing over them a

transparent veil woven from the tender colors of her own heart. Above

the weariness and resignation of her last words written to Mme. de

Sevigne sounds the refrain of a life that counts among its crowning

gifts and graces a genius for friendship.

"Alas, ma belle, all I have to tell you of my health is very bad; in a

word, I have repose neither night nor day, neither in body nor in mind.

I am no more a person either by one or the other. I perish visibly.

I must end when it pleases God, and I am submissive.

BELIEVE ME, MY

DEAREST, YOU ARE THE PERSON IN THE WORLD WHOM I HAVE

MOST TRULY LOVED."

Mme. de La Fayette represents better than any other woman the social

and literary life of the last half of the seventeenth century. Mme. de

Sevigne had an individual genius that might have made itself equally

felt in any other period. Mme. de Maintenon, whom Roederer regards as

the true successor of Mme. de Rambouillet, was narrowed by personal

ambition, and by the limitations of her early life. Born in a prison,

reared in poverty, wife in name, but practically secretary and nurse

of a crippled, witty, and licentious poet over whose salon she presided

brilliantly; discreet and penniless widow, governess of the illegitimate

children of the king, adviser and finally wife of that king, friend of

Ninon, model of virtue, femme d'esprit, politician, diplomatist, and

devote--no fairy tale can furnish more improbable adventures and more

striking contrasts. But she was the product of exceptional circumstances

joined to an exceptional nature. It is true she put a final touch upon

the purity of manners which was so marked a feature of the Hotel de

Rambouillet, and for a long period gave a serious tone to the social

life of France. But she ruled through repression, and one is inclined

to accept the opinion of Sainte-Beuve that she does not represent the

distinctive social current of the time. In Mme. de La Fayette we find

its delicacy, its courtesy, its elegance, its intelligence, its critical

spirit, and its charm.

In considering the great centers in which the fashionable, artistic,

literary, and scientific Paris of the seventeenth century found its

meeting ground, one is struck with the practical training given to its

versatile, flexible feminine minds. Women entered intelligently and

sympathetically into the interests of men, who, in turn, did not

reserve their best thoughts for the club or an after-dinner talk among

themselves. There was stimulus as well as diversity in the two modes of

thinking and being. Men became more courteous and refined, women more

comprehensive and clear. But conversation is the spontaneous overflow

of full minds, and the light play of the intellect is only possible on

a high level, when the current thought has become a part of the daily

life, so that a word suggests infinite perspectives to the swift

intelligence. It is not what we know, but the flavor of what we know,

that adds"sweetness and light" to social intercourse.

With their rapid

intuition and instinctive love of pleasing, these French women were

quick to see the value of a ready comprehension of the subjects in which

clever men are most interested. It was this keen understanding, added to

the habit of utilizing what they thought and read, their ready facility

in grasping the salient points presented to them, a natural gift

of graceful expression, with a delicacy of taste and an exquisite

politeness which prevented them from being aggressive, that gave them

their unquestioned supremacy in the salons which made Paris for so long

a period the social capital of Europe. It was impossible that intellects

so plastic should not expand in such an atmosphere, and the re