¶ The Muscular does not marry early like the Alimentive nor hastily like the Thoracic. His is a practical nature and his practicality is expressed here as in everything else. Back of his Marriage you will often find some of the same practical reasons that prompt his other activities.
Marries Between Twenty-five and Thirty-five
¶ Most Musculars are still unmarried at twenty-five when their Alimentive friends have families and when their Thoracic ones have had a divorce or two. But few Musculars are unmarried at thirty-five, though at that age their Osseous and
Cerebral friends are often still single.
The Muscular does not marry on nothing, and as he does not star in any line of work as early in life as the Alimentive or Thoracic he does not have the means to marry as early in life as they. But he is a splendid worker, gets something to do and does it fairly well.
The Alimentive spends too much on food and other comforts and the Thoracic too much on luxuries, but the Muscular,
while not mercenary, saves a larger portion of his income.
Make "Sensible" Marriages
¶ So at somewhere around thirty the Muscular is prepared to establish a home. By that time he has lived past the rash
stage and selects a mate as much like himself as possible, in order not to be thwarted in his aims for "getting somewhere in the world"—aims which dominate this type all his life.
A Mate for Wearing Qualities
¶ This type selects his mate as he selects his clothes—for wearing quality. He prefers plain, simple people, for he is plain and simple himself. They are not carried off their feet by impulse as are some of the other types. They therefore choose wives and husbands whose lovable qualities show signs of durability.
The Most Positive Lover
¶ The Muscular makes love almost as strenuously as he does everything else. He does not do it especially gracefully
like the Thoracic, nor caressingly like the Alimentive, but intensely and in dead earnest. He does not cut short the
courtship like the Thoracic, nor extend it for years like the Osseous, but marries as soon as the practical requirements can be met.
The Alimentive is the most affectionate in love and the Thoracic the most flirtatious, but the Muscular is the most positive.
The Fatal Handicap
¶ The Muscular has more strong traits than any other type from the marital point of view, but he has one weakness of
such magnitude that it often counterbalances them. His pugnacity causes him to give way frequently to violent outbursts of anger. In them he says bitter things that are almost impossible to forgive.
This type's chief handicap in all his relations is his tendency to fight too quickly, to say too much when angry, and thus to make enemies.
In marriage this is a serious handicap which loses many an otherwise ideal husband or wife the chance for happiness.
Another Muscular trait which makes life difficult for his mate is his tendency to be so generous with outsiders that his family suffers.
Also this type of husband or wife is inclined to sacrifice the social side of family life to work and thus widen the distance between husband and wife as the years go on.
Desirable Traits
¶ Working capacity, generosity and squareness are qualities making for the success of the Muscular marriage.
The Muscular wife, more often than any other, helps earn the living when things go wrong financially.
The Muscular usually dislikes flirtations and gives his mate little anxiety on this score.
Mates for Musculars
¶ The Muscular has four choices in the selection of a mate. There is but one type he should never marry and that is the Osseous. The stubborness of the Osseous, when pitted against the Muscular's pugnacity, causes constant warfare. The
predominantly Muscular person should choose a mate who is also predominantly Muscular. No other type aids him in the
practical affairs of the family's future. But it is well for him when this Muscular has decided Cerebral tendencies. Second choice for the Muscular is a mate predominantly Cerebral. The Muscular in this case furnishes the brawn to work out the plans made by the brain of the Cerebral, and the combination is one that stands a good chance of happiness. Third
choice is the Thoracic, and fourth choice the Alimentive.