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made an overture to any of their young women, he was given to

understand that the consent of her friends was necessary, and by

the influence of a proper present it was generally obtained; but

when these preliminaries were settled, it was also necessary to

treat the wife for a night with the same delicacy that is here

required by the wife for life, and the lover who presumed to take

any liberties by which this was violated, was sure to be

disappointed." (Hawkesworth, op. cit., vol. ii, p.

254.)

Cook found that the people of New Zealand "bring the prepuce over

the gland, and to prevent it from being drawn back by contraction

of the part, they tie the string which hangs from the girdle

round the end of it. The glans, indeed, seemed to be the only

part of their body which they were solicitous to conceal, for

they frequently threw off all their dress but the belt and

string, with the most careless indifference, but showed manifest

signs of confusion when, to gratify our curiosity, they were

requested to untie the string, and never consented but with the

utmost reluctance and shame.... The women's lower garment was

always bound fast round them, except when they went into the

water to catch lobsters, and then they took great care not to be

seen by the men. We surprised several of them at this employment,

and the chaste Diana, with her nymphs, could not have discovered

more confusion and distress at the sight of Actæon, than these

women expressed upon our approach. Some of them hid themselves

among the rocks, and the rest crouched down in the sea till they

had made themselves a girdle and apron of such weeds as they

could find, and when they came out, even with this veil, we could

see that their modesty suffered much pain by our presence."

(Hawkesworth, op. cit., vol. ii, pp. 257-258.) In Rotuma, in Polynesia, where the women enjoy much freedom, but

where, at all events in old days, married people were, as a rule,

faithful to each other, "the language is not chaste according to

our ideas, and there is a great deal of freedom in speaking of

immoral vices. In this connection a man and his wife will speak

freely to one another before their friends. I am informed,

though, by European traders well conversant with the language,

that there are grades of language, and that certain coarse

phrases would never be used to any decent woman; so that

probably, in their way, they have much modesty, only we cannot

appreciate it." (J. Stanley Gardiner, "The Natives of Rotuma,"

_Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, May, 1898, p. 481.)

The men of Rotuma, says the same writer, are very clean, the

women also, bathing twice a day in the sea; but

"bathing in

public without the _kukuluga_, or _sulu_ [loin-cloth, which is

the ordinary dress], around the waist is absolutely unheard of,

and would be much looked down upon." (_Journal of the

Anthropological Institute_, 1898, p. 410.) In ancient Samoa the only necessary garment for either man or

woman was an apron of leaves, but they possessed so

"delicate a

sense of propriety" that even "while bathing they have a girdle

of leaves or some other covering around the waist."

(Turner,

_Samoa a Hundred Years Ago_, p. 121.)

After babyhood the Indians of Guiana are never seen naked. When

they change their single garment they retire. The women wear a

little apron, now generally made of European beads, but the

Warraus still make it of the inner bark of a tree, and some of

seeds. (Everard im Thurn, _Among the Indians of Guiana_, 1883.)

The Mandurucu women of Brazil, according to Tocantins (quoted by

Mantegazza), are completely naked, but they are careful to avoid

any postures which might be considered indecorous, and they do

this so skilfully that it is impossible to tell when they have

their menstrual periods. (Mantegazza, _Fisiologia della Donna_,

cap 9.)

The Indians of Central Brazil have no "private parts." In men the

little girdle, or string, surrounding the lower part of the

abdomen, hides nothing; it is worn after puberty, the penis being

often raised and placed beneath it to lengthen the prepuce. The

women also use a little strip of bast that goes down the groin

and passes between the thighs. Among some tribes (Karibs, Tupis,

Nu-Arwaks) a little, triangular, coquettishly-made piece of

bark-bast comes just below the mons veneris; it is only a few

centimetres in width, and is called the _uluri. In both sexes

concealment of the sexual mucous membrane is attained_. These

articles cannot be called clothing. "The red thread of the

Trumai, the elegant _uluri_, and the variegated flag of the

Bororó attract attention, like ornaments, instead of drawing

attention away." Von den Steinen thinks this proceeding a

necessary protection against the attacks of insects, which are

often serious in Brazil. He does think, however, that there is

more than this, and that the people are ashamed to show the

glans penis. (Karl von den Steinen, _Unter den Naturvölkern

Zentral-Brasiliens_, 1894, pp. 190 et seq.) Other travelers mention that on the Amazon among some tribes the

women are clothed and the men naked; among others the women

naked, and the men clothed. Thus, among the Guaycurus the men are

quite naked, while the women wear a short petticoat; among the

Uaupás the men always wear a loin-cloth, while the women are

quite naked.

"The feeling of modesty is very developed among the Fuegians, who

are accustomed to live naked. They manifest it in their bearing

and in the ease with which they show themselves in a state of

nudity, compared with the awkwardness, blushing, and shame which

both men and women exhibit if one gazes at certain parts of their

bodies. Among themselves this is never done even between husband

and wife. There is no Fuegian word for modesty, perhaps because

the feeling is universal among them." The women wear a minute

triangular garment of skin suspended between the thighs and never

removed, being merely raised during conjugal relations. (Hyades

and Deniker, _Mission Scientifique du Cap Horn_, vol. vii, pp.

239, 307, and 347.)

Among the Crow Indians of Montana, writes Dr.

Holder, who has

lived with them for several years, "a sense of modesty forbids

the attendance upon the female in labor of any male, white man or

Indian, physician or layman. This antipathy to receiving

assistance at the hands of the physician is overcome as the

tribes progress toward civilization, and it is especially

noticeable that half-breeds almost constantly seek the

physician's aid." Dr. Holder mentions the case of a young woman

who, although brought near the verge of death in a very difficult

first confinement, repeatedly refused to allow him to examine

her; at last she consented; "her modest preparation was to take

bits of quilt and cover thighs and lips of vulva, leaving only

the aperture exposed.... Their modesty would not be so striking

were it not that, almost to a woman, the females of this tribe

are prostitutes, and for a consideration will admit the

connection of any man." (A.B. Holder, _American Journal of

Obstetrics_, vol. xxv, No. 6, 1892.)

"In every North American tribe, from the most northern to the

most southern, the skirt of the woman is longer than that of the

men. In Esquimau land the _parka_ of deerskin and sealskin

reaches to the knees. Throughout Central North America the

buckskin dress of the women reached quite to the ankles. The

West-Coast women, from Oregon to the Gulf of California, wore a

petticoat of shredded bark, of plaited grass, or of strings, upon

which were strung hundreds of seeds. Even in the most tropical

areas the rule was universal, as anyone can see from the codices

or in pictures of the natives." (Otis T. Mason, _Woman's Share in

Primitive Culture_, p. 237.)

Describing the loin-cloth worn by Nicobarese men, Man says: "From

the clumsy mode in which this garment is worn by the Shom

Pen--necessitating frequent readjustment of the folds--one is led

to infer that its use is not _de rigueur_, but reserved for

special occasions, as when receiving or visiting strangers."

(E.H. Man, _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, 1886, p.

442.)

The semi-nude natives of the island of Nias in the Indian Ocean

are "modest by nature," paying no attention to their own nudity

or that of others, and much scandalized by any attempt to go

beyond the limits ordained by custom. When they pass near places

where women are bathing they raise their voices in order to warn

them of their presence, and even although any bold youth

addressed the women, and the latter replied, no attempt would be

made to approach them; any such attempt would be severely

punished by the head man of the village.

(Modigliani, _Un Viaggio

a Nias_, p. 460.)

Man says that the Andamanese in modesty and self-respect compare

favorably with many classes among civilized peoples.

"Women are

so modest that they will not renew their leaf-aprons in the

presence of one another, but retire to a secluded spot for this

purpose; even when parting with one of their _bod_

appendages

[tails of leaves suspended from back of girdle] to a female

friend, the delicacy they manifest for the feelings of the

bystanders in their mode of removing it amounts to prudishness;

yet they wear no clothing in the ordinary sense."

(_Journal of

the Anthropological Institute_, 1883, pp. 94 and 331.)

Of the Garo women of Bengal Dalton says: "Their sole garment is a

piece of cloth less than a foot in width that just meets around

the loins, and in order that it may not restrain the limbs it is

only fastened where it meets under the hip at the upper corners.

The girls are thus greatly restricted in the positions they may

modestly assume, but decorum is, in their opinion, sufficiently

preserved if they only keep their legs well together when they

sit or kneel." (E.T. Dalton, _Ethnology of Bengal_, 1872, p. 66.)

Of the Naga women of Assam it is said: "Of clothing there was not

much to see; but in spite of this I doubt whether we could excel

them in true decency and modesty. Ibn Muhammed Wali had already

remarked in his history of the conquest of Assam (1662-63), that

the Naga women only cover their breasts. They declare that it is

absurd to cover those parts of the body which everyone has been

able to see from their births, but that it is different with the

breasts, which appeared later, and are, therefore, to be covered.

Dalton (_Journal of the Asiatic Society_, Bengal, 41, 1, 84) adds

that in the presence of strangers Naga women simply cross their

arms over their breasts, without caring much what other charms

they may reveal to the observer. As regards some clans of the

naked Nagas, to whom the Banpara belong, this may still hold

good." (K. Klemm, "Peal's Ausflug nach Banpara,"

_Zeitschrift für

Ethnologie_, 1898, Heft 5, p. 334.)

"In Ceylon, a woman always bathes in public streams, but she

never removes all her clothes. She washes under the cloth, bit by

bit, and then slips on the dry, new cloth, and pulls out the wet

one from underneath (much in the same sliding way as servant

girls and young women in England). This is the common custom in

India and the Malay States. The breasts are always bare in their

own houses, but in the public roads are covered whenever a

European passes. The vulva is never exposed. They say that a

devil, imagined as a white and hairy being, might have

intercourse with them." (Private communication.) In Borneo, "the _sirat_, called _chawal_ by the Malays, is a

strip of cloth a yard wide, worn round the loins and in between

the thighs, so as to cover the pudenda and perinæum; it is

generally six yards or so in length, but the younger men of the

present generation use as much as twelve or fourteen yards

(sometimes even more), which they twist and coil with great

precision round and round their body, until the waist and stomach

are fully enveloped in its folds." (H. Ling Roth,

"Low's Natives

of Borneo," _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, 1892, p.

36.)

"In their own houses in the depths of the forest the Dwarfs are

said to neglect coverings for decency in the men as in the women,

but certainly when they emerge from the forest into the villages

of the agricultural Negroes, they are always observed to be

wearing some small piece of bark-cloth or skin, or a bunch of

leaves over the pudenda. Elsewhere in all the regions of Africa

visited by the writer, or described by other observers, a neglect

of decency in the male has only been recorded among the Efik

people of Old Calabar. The nudity of women is another question.

In parts of West Africa, between the Niger and the Gaboon

(especially on the Cameroon River, at Old Calabar, and in the

Niger Delta), it is, or was, customary for young women to go

about completely nude before they were married. In Swaziland,

until quite recently, unmarried women and very often matrons went

stark naked. Even amongst the prudish Baganda, who made it a

punishable offense for a man to expose any part of his leg above

the knee, the wives of the King would attend at his Court

perfectly naked. Among the Kavirondo, all unmarried girls are

completely nude, and although women who have become mothers are

supposed to wear a tiny covering before and behind, they very

often completely neglect to do so when in their own villages.

Yet, as a general rule, among the Nile Negroes, and still more

markedly among the Hamites and people of Masai stock, the women

are particular about concealing the pudenda, whereas the men are

ostentatiously naked. The Baganda hold nudity in the male to be

such an abhorrent thing that for centuries they have referred

with scorn and disgust to the Nile Negroes as the

'naked people.'

Male nudity extends northwest to within some 200

miles of

Khartum, or, in fact, wherever the Nile Negroes of the

Dinka-Acholi stock inhabit the country." (Sir H.H.

Johnston,

_Uganda Protectorate_, vol. ii, pp. 669-672.) Among the Nilotic Ja-luo, Johnston states that

"unmarried men go

naked. Married men who have children wear a small piece of goat

skin, which, though quite inadequate for purposes of decency, is,

nevertheless, a very important thing in etiquette, for a married

man with a child must on no account call on his mother-in-law

without wearing this piece of goat's skin. To call on her in a

state of absolute nudity would be regarded as a serious insult,

only to be atoned for by the payment of goats. Even if under the

new dispensation he wears European trousers, he must have a piece

of goat's skin underneath. Married women wear a tail of strings

behind." It is very bad manners for a woman to serve food to her

husband without putting on this tail. (Sir H.H.

Johnston, _Uganda

Protectorate_, vol. ii, p. 781.)

Mrs. French-Sheldon remarks that the Masai and other East African

tribes, with regard to menstruation, "observe the greatest

delicacy, and are more than modest." (_Journal of the

Anthropological Institute_, 1894, p. 383.) At the same time the Masai, among whom the penis is of enormous

size, consider it disreputable to conceal that member, and in the

highest degree reputable to display it, even ostentatiously. (Sir

H.H. Johnston, _Kilima-njaro Expedition_, p. 413.) Among the African Dinka, who are scrupulously clean and delicate

(smearing themselves with burnt cows' dung, and washing

themselves daily with cows' urine), and are exquisite cooks,

reaching in many respects a higher stage of civilization, in

Schweinfurth's opinion, than is elsewhere attained in Africa,

only the women wear aprons. The neighboring tribes of the red

soil--Bongo, Mittoo, Niam-Niam, etc.--are called

"women" by the

Dinka, because among these tribes the men wear an apron, while

the women obstinately refuse to wear any clothes whatsoever of

skin or stuff, going into the woods every day, however, to get a

supple bough for a girdle, with, perhaps, a bundle of fine grass.

(Schweinfurth, _Heart of Africa_, vol. i, pp. 152, etc.)

Lombroso and Carrara, examining some Dinka negroes brought from

the White Nile, remark: "As to their psychology, what struck us

first was the exaggeration of their modesty; not in a single case

would the men allow us to examine their genital organs or the

women their breasts; we examined the tattoo-marks on the chest of

one of the women, and she remained sad and irritable for two days

afterward." They add that in sexual and all other respects these

people are highly moral. (Lombroso and Carrara, _Archivio di

Psichiatria_, 1896, vol. xvii, fasc. 4.)

"The negro is very rarely knowingly indecent or addicted to

lubricity," says Sir H.H. Johnston. "In this land of nudity,

which I have known for seven years, I do not remember once having

seen an indecent gesture on the part of either man or woman, and

only very rarely (and that not among unspoiled savages) in the

case of that most shameless member of the community-

-the little

boy." He adds that the native dances are only an apparent

exception, being serious in character, though indecent to our

eyes, almost constituting a religious ceremony. The only really

indecent dance indigenous to Central Africa "is one which

originally represented the act of coition, but it is so altered

to a stereotyped formula that its exact purport is not obvious

until explained somewhat shyly by the natives.... It may safely

be asserted that the negro race in Central Africa is much more

truly modest, is much more free from real vice, than are most

European nations. Neither boys nor girls wear clothing (unless

they are the children of chiefs) until nearing the age of

puberty. Among the Wankonda, practically no covering is worn by

the men except a ring of brass wire around the stomach. The

Wankonda women are likewise almost entirely naked, but generally

cover the pudenda with a tiny bead-work apron, often a piece of

very beautiful workmanship, and exactly resembling the same

article worn by Kaffir women. A like degree of nudity prevails

among many of the Awemba, among the A-lungu, the Batumbuka, and

the Angoni. Most of the Angoni men, however, adopt the Zulu

fashion of covering the glans penis with a small wooden case or

the outer shell of a fruit. The Wa-Yao have a strong sense of

decency in matters of this kind, which is the more curious since

they are more given to obscenity in their rites, ceremonies, and

dances than any other tribe. Not only is it extremely rare to see

any Yao uncovered, but both men and women have the strongest

dislike to exposing their persons even to the inspection of a

doctor. The Atonga and many of the A-nyanga people, and all the

tribes west of Nyassa (with the exception possibly of the

A-lunda) have not the Yao regard for decency, and, although they

can seldom or ever be accused of a deliberate intention to expose

themselves, the men are relatively indifferent as to whether

their nakedness is or is not concealed, though the women are

modest and careful in this respect." (H.H. Johnston, _British

Central Africa_, 1897, pp. 408-419.)

In Azimba land, Central Africa, H. Crawford Angus, who has spent

many years in this part of Africa, writes: "It has been my

experience that the more naked the people, and the more to us

obscene and shameless their manners and customs, the more moral

and strict they are in the matter of sexual intercourse." He

proceeds to give a description of the _chensamwali_, or

initiation ceremony of girls at puberty, a season of rejoicing

when the girl is initiated into all the secrets of marriage, amid

songs and dances referring to the act of coition.

"The whole

matter is looked upon as a matter of course, and not as a thing

to be ashamed of or to hide, and, being thus openly treated of

and no secrecy made about it, you find in this tribe that the

women are very virtuous. They know from the first all that is to

be known, and cannot see any reason for secrecy concerning

natural laws or the powers and senses that have been given them

from birth." (_Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1898, Heft 6, p.

479.)

Of the Monbuttu of Central Africa, another observer says: "It is

surprising how a Monbuttu woman of birth can, without the aid of

dress, impress others with her dignity and modesty."

(_British

Medical Journal_. June 14, 1890.)

"The women at Upoto wear no clothes whatever, and came up to us

in the most unreserved manner. An interesting gradation in the

arrangement of the female costume has been observed by us: as we

ascended the Congo, the higher up the river we found ourselves,

the higher the dress reached, till it has now, at last,

culminated in absolute nudity." (T.H. Parke, _My Personal

Experiences in Equatorial Africa_, 1891, p. 61.)

"There exists throughout the Congo population a marked

appreciation of the sentiment of decency and shame as applied to

private actions," says Mr. Herbert Ward. In explanation of the

nudity of the women at Upoto, a chief remarked to Ward that

"concealment is food for the inquisitive." (_Journal of the

Anthropological Institute_, 1895, p. 293.) In the Gold Coast and surrounding countries complete nudity is

extremely rare, except when circumstances make it desirable; on

occasion clothing is abandoned with unconcern. "I have on several

occasions," says Dr. Freeman, "seen women at Accra walk from the

beach, where they have been bathing, across the road to their

houses, where they would proceed to dry themselves, and resume

their garments; and women may not infrequently be seen bathing in

pools by the wayside, conversing quite

unconstrainedly with their

male acquaintances, who are seated on the bank. The mere

unclothed body conveys to their minds no idea of indecency.

Immodesty and indelicacy of manner are practically unknown." He

adds that the excessive zeal of missionaries in urging their

converts to adopt European dress--which they are only too ready

to do--is much to be regretted, since the close-fitting, thin

garments are really less modest than the loose clothes they

replace, besides being much less cleanly. (R.A.

Freeman, _Travels

and Life in Ashanti and Jaman_, 1898, p. 379.) At Loango, says Pechuel-Loesche, "the well-bred negress likes to

cover her bosom, and is sensitive to critical male eyes; if she

meets a European when without her overgarment, she instinctively,

though not without coquetry, takes the attitude of the Medicean

Venus." Men and women bathe separately, and hide themselves from

each other when naked. The women also exhibit shame when

discovered suckling their babies. (_Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_,

1878, pp.