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to make themselves felt, but, owing to the physical sexual feelings having

been trained into a foreign channel, these new and more normal sex

associations remain of a purely ideal and emotional character, without the

strong sensual impulses with which under healthy conditions they tend to

be more and more associated as puberty passes on into adolescence or

mature adult life. I am fairly certain that in many women, often highly

intellectual women, the precocious excess in masturbation has been a main

cause, not necessarily the sole efficient cause, in producing a divorce in

later life between the physical sensuous impulses and the ideal emotions.

The sensuous impulse having been evolved and perverted before the

manifestation of the higher emotion, the two groups of feelings have

become divorced for the whole of life. This is a common source of much

personal misery and family unhappiness, though at the same time the clash

of contending impulses may lead to a high development of moral character.

When early masturbation is a factor in producing sexual inversion it

usually operates in the manner I have here indicated, the repulsion for

normal coitus helping to furnish a soil on which the inverted impulse may

develop unimpeded.

This point has not wholly escaped previous observers, though they

do not seem to have noted its psychological mechanism. Tissot

stated that masturbation causes an aversion to marriage. More

recently, Loiman ("Ueber Onanismus beim Weibe,"

_Therapeutische

Monatshefte_, April, 1890) considered that masturbation in women,

leading to a perversion of sexual feeling, including inability to

find satisfaction in coitus, affects the associated centres.

Smith Baker, again ("The Neuropsychical Element in Conjugal

Aversion," _Journal of Nervous and Mental Disease_, September,

1892), finds that a "source of marital aversion seems to lie in

the fact that substitution of mechanical and iniquitous

excitations affords more thorough satisfaction than the mutual

legitimate ones do," and gives cases in point.

Savill, also, who

believes that masturbation is more common in women than is

usually supposed, regards dyspareunia, or pain in coition, as one

of the signs of the habit.

Masturbation in women thus becomes, as Raymond and Janet point

out (_Les Obsessions_, vol. ii, p. 307) a frequent cause of

sexual frigidity in marriage. These authors illustrate the train

of evils which may thus be set up, by the case of a lady, 26

years of age, a normal woman, of healthy family, who, at the age

of 15, was taught by a servant to masturbate. At the age of 18

she married. She loved her husband, but she had no sexual

feelings in coitus, and she continued to masturbate, sometimes

several times a day, without evil consequences. At 24 she had to

go into a hospital for floating kidney, and was so obliged to

stop masturbating. She here accidentally learnt of the evil

results attributed to the habit. She resolved not to do it again,

and she kept her resolution. But while still in hospital she fell

wildly in love with a man. To escape from the constant thought of

this man, she sought relations with her husband, and at times

masturbated, but now it no longer gave her pleasure.

She wished

to give up sexual things altogether. But that was easier said

than done. She became subject to nervous crises, often brought on

by the sight of a man, and accompanied by sexual excitement. They

disappeared under treatment, and she thereupon became entirely

frigid sexually. But, far from being happy, she has lost all

energy and interest in life, and it is her sole desire to attain

the sexual feelings she has lost. Adler considers that even when

masturbation in women becomes an overmastering passion, so far as

organic effects are concerned it is usually harmless, its effects

being primarily psychic, and he attaches especial significance to

it as a cause of sexual anæsthesia in normal coitus, being,

perhaps, the most frequent cause of such anæsthesia.

He devotes

an important chapter to this matter, and brings forward numerous

cases in illustration (Adler, _Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, pp. 93-119, also 21-23). Adler

considers that the frequency of masturbation in women is largely

due to the fact that women experience greater difficulties than

men in obtaining sexual satisfaction, and so are impelled by

unsatisfying coitus to continue masturbation after marriage. He

adds that partly from natural shyness, partly from shame of

acknowledging what is commonly accounted a sin, and partly from

the fear of seeming disgusting or unworthy of sympathy in the

doctor's eyes, women are usually silent on this matter, and very

great tact and patience may be necessary before a confession is

obtained.

On the psychic side, no doubt, the most frequent and the most

characteristic result of persistent and excessive masturbation is a morbid

heightening of self-consciousness without any co-ordinated heightening of

self-esteem.[340] The man or woman who is kissed by a desirable and

desired person of the opposite sex feels a satisfying sense of pride and

elation, which must always be absent from the manifestations of

auto-erotic activity.[341] This must be so, even apart from the

masturbator's consciousness of the general social attitude toward his

practices and his dread of detection, for that may also exist as regards

normal coitus without any corresponding psychic effects.

The masturbator,

if his practice is habitual, is thus compelled to cultivate an artificial

consciousness of self-esteem, and may show a tendency to mental arrogance.

Self-righteousness and religiosity constitute, as it were, a protection

against the tendency to remorse. A morbid mental soil is, of course,

required for the full development of these characteristics. The habitual

male masturbator, it must be remembered, is often a shy and solitary

person; individuals of this temperament are especially predisposed to

excesses in all the manifestations of auto-erotism, while the yielding to

such tendencies increases the reserve and the horror of society, at the

same time producing a certain suspicion of others. In some extreme cases

there is, no doubt, as Kraepelin believes, some decrease of psychic

capacity, an inability to grasp and co-ordinate external impressions,

weakness of memory, deadening of emotions, or else the general phenomena

of increased irritability, leading on to neurasthenia.

I find good reason to believe that in many cases the psychic influence of

masturbation on women is different from its effect on men. As Spitzka

observed, although it may sometimes render women self-reproachful and

hesitant, it often seems to make them bold. Boys, as we have seen, early

assimilate the tradition that self-abuse is "unmanly"

and injurious, but

girls have seldom any corresponding tradition that it is

"unwomanly," and

thus, whether or not they are reticent on the matter, before the forum of

their own conscience they are often less ashamed of it than men are and

less troubled by remorse.

Eulenburg considers that the comparative absence of bad effects

from masturbation in girls is largely due to the fact that,

unlike boys, they are not terrorized by exaggerated warnings and

quack literature concerning the awful results of the practice.

Forel, who has also remarked that women are often comparatively

little troubled by qualms of conscience after masturbation,

denies that this is due to a lower moral tone than men possess

(Forel, _Die Sexuelle Frage_, p. 247). In this connection, I may

refer to History IV, recorded in the Appendix to the fifth volume

of these _Studies_, in which it is stated that of 55

prostitutes

of various nationalities, with whom the subject had had

relations, 18 spontaneously told him that they were habitual

masturbators, while of 26 normal women, 13 made the same

confession, unasked. Guttceit, in Russia, after stating that

women of good constitution had told him that they masturbated as

much as six or ten times a day or night (until they fell asleep,

tired), without bad results, adds that, according to his

observations, "masturbation, when not excessive, is, on the

whole, a quite innocent matter, which exerts little or no

permanent effect," and adds that it never, in any case, leads to

_hypochondria onanica_ in women, because they have not been

taught to expect bad results (_Dreissig Jahre Praxis_, p. 306).

There is, I think, some truth--though the exceptions are

doubtless many--in the distinction drawn by W.C.

Krauss

("Masturbational Neuroses," _Medical News_, July 13, 1901): "From

my experience it [masturbation] seems to have an opposite effect

upon the two sexes, dulling the mental and making clumsy the

physical exertions of the male, while in the female it quickens

and excites the physical and psychical movements.

The man is

rendered hypoesthetic, the woman hyperesthetic."

In either sex auto-erotic excesses during adolescence in young men and

women of intelligence--whatever absence of gross injury there may

be--still often produce a certain degree of psychic perversion, and tend

to foster false and high-strung ideals of life.

Kraepelin refers to the

frequency of exalted enthusiasms in masturbators, and I have already

quoted Anstie's remarks on the connection between masturbation and

premature false work in literature and art. It may be added that excess in

masturbation has often occurred in men and women whose work in literature

and art cannot be described as premature and false. K.P.

Moritz, in early

adult life, gave himself up to excess in masturbation, and up to the age

of thirty had no relations with women. Lenau is said--

though the statement

is sometimes denied--to have been a masturbator from early life, the habit

profoundly effecting his life and work. Rousseau, in his _Confessions_,

admirably describes how his own solitary, timid, and imaginative life

found its chief sexual satisfaction in

masturbation.[342] Gogol, the

great Russian novelist, masturbated to excess, and it has been suggested

that the dreamy melancholy thus induced was a factor in his success as a

novelist. Goethe, it has been asserted, at one time masturbated to excess;

I am not certain on what authority the statement is made, probably on a

passage in the seventh book of _Dichtung und Wahrheit_, in which,

describing his student-life at Leipzig, and his loss of Aennchen owing to

his neglect of her, he tells how he revenged that neglect on his own

physical nature by foolish practices from which he thinks he suffered for

a considerable period.[343] The great Scandinavian philosopher, Sören

Kierkegaard, suffered severely, according to Rasmussen, from excessive

masturbation. That, at the present day, eminence in art, literature, and

other fields may be combined with the excessive practice of masturbation

is a fact of which I have unquestionable evidence.

I have the detailed history of a man of 30, of high ability in a

scientific direction, who, except during periods of mental

strain, has practiced masturbation nightly (though seldom more

than once a night) from early childhood, without any traceable

evil results, so far as his general health and energy are

concerned. In another case, a schoolteacher, age 30, a hard

worker and accomplished musician, has masturbated every night,

sometimes more than once a night, ever since he was at school,

without, so far as he knows, any bad results; he has never had

connection with a woman, and seldom touches wine or tobacco.

Curschmann knew a young and able author who, from the age of 11

had masturbated excessively, but who retained physical and mental

freshness. It would be very easy to refer to other examples, and

I may remark that, as regards the histories recorded in various

volumes of these _Studies_, a notable proportion of those in

which excessive masturbation is admitted, are of persons of

eminent and recognized ability.

It is often possible to trace the precise mechanism of the relationship

between auto-erotic excitement and intellectual activity. Brown-Séquard,

in old age, considered that to induce a certain amount of sexual

excitement, not proceeding to emission, was an aid to mental work. Raymond

and Janet knew a man considering himself a poet, who, in order to attain

the excitation necessary to compose his ideal verses, would write with one

hand while with the other he caressed his penis, though not to the extent

of producing ejaculation.[344] We must not believe, however, that this is

by any means the method of workers who deserve to be accepted seriously;

it would be felt, to say the least, as unworthy. It is indeed a method

that would only appeal to a person of feeble or failing mental power. What

more usually happens is that the auto-erotic excitement develops, _pari

passu_ and spontaneously, with the mental activity and at the climax of

the latter the auto-erotic excitement also culminates, almost or even

quite spontaneously, in an explosion of detumescence which relieves the

mental tension. I am acquainted with such cases in both young men and

women of intellectual ability, and they probably occur much more

frequently than we usually suspect.

In illustration of the foregoing observations, I may quote the

following narrative, written by a man of letters:

"From puberty

to the age of 30 (when I married), I lived in virgin continence,

in accord with my principle. During these years I worked

exceedingly hard--chiefly at art (music and poetry).

My days

being spent earning my livelihood, these art studies fell into my

evening time. I noticed that productive power came in

periods--periods of irregular length, and which certainly, to a

partial extent, could be controlled by the will.

Such a period of

vital power began usually with a sensation of melancholy, and it

quickened my normal revolt against the narrowness of conventional

life into a red-hot detestation of the paltriness and pettiness

with which so many mortals seem to content themselves. As the

mood grew in intensity, this scorn of the lower things mixed with

and gave place to a vivid insight into higher truths. The

oppression began to give place to a realization of the eternity

of the heroic things; the fatuities were seen as mere fashions;

love was seen as the true lord of life; the eternal romance was

evident in its glory; the naked strength and beauty of men were

known despite their clothes. In such mood my work was produced;

bitter protest and keen-sighted passion mingled in its building.

The arising vitality had certainly deep relation to the

periodicity of the sex-force of manhood. At the height of the

power of the art-creative mood would come those natural emissions

with which Nature calmly disposes of the unused force of the

male. Such emissions were natural and healthy, and not exhaustive

or hysterical. The process is undoubtedly sane and protective,

unless the subject be unhealthy. The period of creative art power

extended a little beyond the end of the period of natural seed

emission--the art work of this last stage being less vibrant, and

of a gentler force. Then followed a time of calm natural rest,

which gradually led up to the next sequence of melancholy and

power. The periods certainly varied in length of time, controlled

somewhat by the force of the mind and the mental will to create;

that is to say, I could somewhat delay the natural emission, by

which I gained an extension of the period of power."

How far masturbation in moderately healthy persons living without normal

sexual relationships may be considered normal is a difficult question only

to be decided with reference to individual cases. As a general rule, when

only practiced at rare intervals, and _faute de mieux_, in order to obtain

relief for physical oppression and mental obsession, it may be regarded as

the often inevitable result of the unnatural circumstances of our

civilized social life. When, as often happens in mental degeneracy,--and

as in shy and imaginative persons, perhaps of neurotic temperament, may

also sometimes become the case,--it is practiced in preference to sexual

relationships, it at once becomes abnormal and may possibly lead to a

variety of harmful results, mental and physical.[345]

It must always be remembered, however, that, while the practice of

masturbation may be harmful in its consequences, it is also, in the

absence of normal sexual relationships, frequently not without good

results. In the medical literature of the last hundred years a number of

cases have been incidentally recorded in which the patients found

masturbation beneficial, and such cases might certainly have been

enormously increased if there had been any open-eyed desire to discover

them. My own observations agree with those of Sudduth, who asserts that

"masturbation is, in the main, practiced for its sedative effect on the

nervous system. The relaxation that follows the act constitutes its real

attraction.... Both masturbation and sexual intercourse should be classed

as typical sedatives."[346]

Gall (_Fonctions du Cerveau_, 1825, vol. iii, p.

235) mentioned a

woman who was tormented by strong sexual desire, which she

satisfied by masturbation ten or twelve times a day; this caused

no bad results, and led to the immediate disappearance of a

severe pain in the back of the neck, from which she often

suffered. Clouston (_Mental Diseases_, 1887, p. 496) quotes as

follows from a letter written by a youth of 22: "I am sure I

cannot explain myself, nor give account of such conduct.

Sometimes I felt so uneasy at my work that I would go to the

water-closet to do it, and it seemed to give me ease, and then I

would work like a hatter for a whole week, till the sensation

overpowered me again. I have been the most filthy scoundrel in

existence," etc. Garnier presents the case of a monk, aged 33,

living a chaste life, who wrote the following account of his

experiences: "For the past three years, at least, I have felt,

every two or three weeks, a kind of fatigue in the penis, or,

rather, slight shooting pains, increasing during several days,

and then I feel a strong desire to expel the semen.

When no

nocturnal pollution follows, the retention of the semen causes

general disturbance, headache, and sleeplessness. I must confess

that, occasionally, to free myself from the general and local

oppression, I lie on my stomach and obtain ejaculation. I am at

once relieved; a weight seems to be lifted from my chest, and

sleep returns." This patient consulted Gamier as to whether this

artificial relief was not more dangerous than the sufferings it

relieved. Gamier advised that if the ordinary _régime_ of a

well-ordered monastry, together with anaphrodisiac sedatives,

proved inefficacious, the manoeuvre might be continued when

necessary (P. Garnier, _Célibat et Célibataires_, 1887, p. 320).

H.C. Coe (_American Journal of Obstetrics_, p. 766, July, 1889)

gives the case of a married lady who was deeply sensitive of the

wrong nature of masturbation, but found in it the only means of

relieving the severe ovarian pain, associated with intense sexual

excitement, which attended menstruation. During the intermenstrual period the temptation was absent.

Turnbull knew a

youth who found that masturbation gave great relief to feelings

of heaviness and confusion which came on him periodically; and

Wigglesworth has frequently seen masturbation after epileptic

fits in patients who never masturbated at other times. Moll

(_Libido Sexualis_, Bd. I, p. 13) refers to a woman of 28, an

artist of nervous and excitable temperament, who could not find

sexual satisfaction with her lover, but only when masturbating,

which she did once or twice a day, or oftener; without

masturbation, she said, she would be in a much more nervous

state. A friend tells me of a married lady of 40, separated from

her husband on account of incompatibility, who suffered from

irregular menstruation; she tried masturbation, and, in her own

words, "became normal again;" she had never masturbated

previously. I have also been informed of the case of a young

unmarried woman, intellectual, athletic, and well developed, who,

from the age of seven or eight, has masturbated nearly every

night before going to sleep, and would be restless and unable to

sleep if she did not.

Judging from my own observations among both sexes, I should say that in

normal persons, well past the age of puberty, and otherwise leading a

chaste life, masturbation would be little practiced except for the

physical and mental relief it brings. Many vigorous and healthy unmarried

women or married women apart from their husbands, living a life of sexual

abstinence, have asserted emphatically that only by sexually exciting

themselves, at intervals, could they escape from a condition of nervous

oppression and sexual obsession which they felt to be a state of hysteria.

In most cases this happens about the menstrual period, and, whether

accomplished as a purely physical act--in the same way as they would

soothe a baby to sleep by rocking it or patting it--or by the co-operation

of voluptuous mental imagery, the practice is not cultivated for its own

sake during the rest of the month.

In illustration of the foregoing statements I will here record a

few typical observations of experiences with regard to

masturbation. The cases selected are all women, and are all in a

fairly normal, and, for the most part, excellent, state of

health; some of them, however, belong to somewhat neurotic

families, and these are persons of unusual mental ability and

intelligence.

OBSERVATION I.--Unmarried, aged 38. She is very vigorous and

healthy, of a strongly passionate nature, but never masturbated

until a few years ago, when she was made love to by a man who

used to kiss her, etc. Although she did not respond to these

advances, she was thrown into a state of restless sexual

excitement; on one occasion, when in bed in this restless state,

she accidentally found, on passing her hand over her body, that,

by playing with "a round thing" [clitoris] a pleasurable feeling

was produced. She found herself greatly relieved and quieted by

these manipulations, though there remained a feeling of tiredness

afterward. She has sometimes masturbated six times in a night,

especially before and after the menstrual period, until she was

unable to produce the orgasm or any feeling of pleasure.

OBSERVATION II.--Unmarried, aged 45, of rather nervous

temperament. She has for many years been accustomed, usually

about a week before the appearance of the menses, to obtain

sexual relief by kicking out her legs when lying down. In this

way, she says, she obtains complete satisfaction.

She never

touches herself. On the following day she frequently has pains

over the lower part of the abdomen, such pains being apparently

muscular and due to the exertion.