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generalized aphrodisiac sense comparable to the specialized

sexual orgasm. Bronson refers to the significant fact that

itching occurs so frequently in the sexual region, and states

that sexual neurasthenia is sometimes the only discoverable cause

of genital and anal pruritus. (Cf. discussion on pruritus,

_British Medical Journal_, November 30, 1895.) Gilman, again

(_American Journal of Psychology_, vi, p. 22), considers that

scratching, as well as sneezing, is comparable to coitus.

The sexual embrace has an intimate connection with the phenomena of

ticklishness which could not fail to be recognized. This connection is,

indeed, the basis of Spinoza's famous definition of love,--"_Amor est

titillatio quædam concomitante idea causæ externæ_,"--a statement which

seems to be reflected in Chamfort's definition of love as "_l'échange de

deux fantaisies, et le contact de deux epidermes_." The sexual act, says

Gowers, is, in fact, a skin reflex.[14] "The sexual parts," Hall and Allin

state, "have a ticklishness as unique as their function and as keen as

their importance." Herrick finds the supreme illustration of the summation

and irradiation theory of tickling in the phenomena of erotic excitement,

and points out that in harmony with this the skin of the sexual region is,

as Dogiel has shown, that portion of the body in which the tactile

corpuscles are most thoroughly and elaborately provided with anastomosing

fibres. It has been pointed out[15] that, when ordinary tactile

sensibility is partially abolished,--especially in hemianæsthesia in the

insane,--some sexual disturbance is specially apt to be found in

association.

In young children, in girls even when they are no longer children, and

occasionally in men, tickling may be a source of acute pleasure, which in

very early life is not sexual, but later tends to become so under

circumstances predisposing to the production of erotic emotion, and

especially when the nervous system is keyed up to a high tone favorable

for the production of the maximum effect of tickling.

"When young," writes a lady aged 28, "I was extremely fond of

being tickled, and I am to some extent still.

Between the ages of

10 and 12 it gave me exquisite pleasure, which I now regard as

sexual in character. I used to bribe my younger sister to tickle

my feet until she was tired."

Stanley Hall and Allin in their investigation of the phenomena of

tickling, largely carried out among young women teachers, found

that in 60 clearly marked cases ticklishness was more marked at

one time than another, "as when they have been

'carrying on,' or

are in a happy mood, are nervous or unwell, after a good meal,

when being washed, when in perfect health, when with people they

like, etc." (Hall and Allin, "Tickling and Laughter," _American

Journal of Psychology_, October, 1897.) It will be observed that

most of the conditions mentioned are such as would be favorable

to excitations of an emotionally sexual character.

The palms of the hands may be very ticklish during sexual

excitement, especially in women, and Moll (_Konträre Sexualempfindung_, p. 180) remarks that in some men titillation

of the skin of the back, of the feet, and even of the forehead

evokes erotic feelings.

It may be added that, as might be expected, titillation of the

skin often has the same significance in animals as in man. "In

some animals," remarks Louis Robinson (art.

"Ticklishness,"

_Dictionary of Psychological Medicine_), "local titillation of

the skin, though in parts remote from the reproductive organs,

plainly acts indirectly upon them as a stimulus.

Thus, Harvey

records that, by stroking the back of a favorite parrot (which he

had possessed for years and supposed to be a male), he not only

gave the bird gratification,--which was the sole intention of the

illustrious physiologist,--but also caused it to reveal its sex

by laying an egg."

The sexual significance of tickling is very clearly indicated by the fact

that the general ticklishness of the body, which is so marked in children

and in young girls, greatly diminishes, as a rule, after sexual

relationships have been established. Dr. Gina Lombroso, who investigated

the cutaneous reflexes, found that both the abdominal and plantar

reflexes, which are well marked in childhood and in young people between

the ages of 15 and 18, were much diminished in older persons, and to a

greater extent in women than in men, to a greater extent in the abdominal

region than on the soles of the feet;[16] her results do not directly show

the influence of sexual relationship, but they have an indirect bearing

which is worth noting.

The difference in ticklishness between the unmarried woman and the married

woman corresponds to their difference in degree of modesty. Both modesty

and ticklishness may be said to be characters which are no longer needed.

From this point of view the general ticklishness of the skin is a kind of

body modesty. It is so even apart from any sexual significance of

tickling, and Louis Robinson has pointed out that in young apes, puppies,

and other like animals the most ticklish regions correspond to the most

vulnerable spots in a fight, and that consequently in the mock fights of

early life skill in defending these spots is attained.

In Iceland, according to Margarethe Filhés (as quoted by Max

Bartels, _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1900, ht. 2-3, p. 57), it

may be known whether a youth is pure or a maid is intact by their

susceptibility to tickling. It is considered a bad sign if that

is lost.

I am indebted to a medical correspondent for the following

communication: "Married women have told me that they find that

after marriage they are not ticklish under the arms or on the

breasts, though before marriage any tickling or touching in these

regions, especially by a man, would make them jump or get

hysterical or 'queer,' as they call it. Before coitus the sexual

energy seems to be dissipated along all the nerve-channels and

especially along the secondary sexual routes,--the breasts, nape

of neck, eyebrows, lips, cheeks, armpits, and hair thereon,

etc.,--but after marriage the surplus energy is diverted from

these secondary channels, and response to tickling is diminished.

I have often noted in insane cases, especially mania in

adolescent girls, that they are excessively ticklish. Again, in

ordinary routine practice I have observed that, though married

women show no ticklishness during auscultation and percussion of

the chest, this is by no means always so in young girls. Perhaps

ticklishness in virgins is Nature's self-protection against rape

and sexual advances, and the young girl instinctively wishing to

hide the armpits, breasts, and other ticklish regions, tucks

herself up to prevent these parts being touched. The married

woman, being in love with a man, does not shut up these parts, as

she reciprocates the advances that he makes; she no longer

requires ticklishness as a protection against sexual aggression."

FOOTNOTES:

[5] Alrutz's views are summarized in _Psychological Review_, Sept., 1901.

[6] _Die Spiele der Menschen_, 1899, p. 206.

[7] L. Robinson, art. "Ticklishness," Tuke's _Dictionary of Psychological

Medicine_.

[8] Stanley Hall and Allin, "Tickling and Laughter,"

_American Journal of

Psychology_, October, 1897.

[9] H.M. Stanley, "Remarks on Tickling and Laughter,"

_American Journal of

Psychology_, vol. ix, January, 1898.

[10] Simpson, "On the Attitude of the Foetus in Utero,"

_Obstetric

Memoirs_, 1856, vol. ii.

[11] Erasmus Darwin, _Zoönomia_, Sect. XVII, 4.

[12] Hyades and Deniker, _Mission Scientifique du Cap Horn_, vol. vii. p.

296.

[13] Such an interpretation is supported by the arguments of W. McDougall

("The Theory of Laughter," _Nature_, February 5, 1903), who contends,

without any reference to the sexual field, that one of the objects of

laughter is automatically to "disperse our attention."

[14] Even the structure of the vaginal mucous membrane, it may be noted,

is analogous to that of the skin. D. Berry Hart, "Note on the Development

of the Clitoris, Vagina, and Hymen," _Transactions of the Edinburgh

Obstetrical Society_, vol. xxi, 1896.

[15] W.H.B. Stoddart, "Anæsthesia in the Insane,"

_Journal of Mental

Science_, October, 1899.

[16] Gina Lombroso, "Sur les Réflexes Cutanés,"

International Congress of

Criminal Anthropology, Amsterdam, _Comptes Rendus_, p.

295.

III.

The Secondary Sexual Skin Centres--Orificial Contacts--

Cunnilingus and

Fellatio--The Kiss--The Nipples--The Sympathy of the Breasts with the

Primary Sexual Centres--This Connection Operative both through the Nerves

and through the Blood--The Influence of Lactation on the Sexual

Centres--Suckling and Sexual Emotion--The Significance of the Association

between Suckling and Sexual Emotion--This Association as a Cause of Sexual

Perversity.

We have seen that the skin generally has a high degree of sensibility,

which frequently tends to be in more or less definite association with the

sexual centres. We have seen also that the central and specific sexual

sensation, the sexual embrace itself, is, in large measure, a specialized

kind of skin reflex. Between the generalized skin sensations and the great

primary sexual centre of sensation there are certain secondary sexual

centres which, on account of their importance, may here be briefly

considered.

These secondary centres have in common the fact that they always involve

the entrances and the exits of the body--the regions, that is, where skin

merges into mucous membrane, and where, in the course of evolution,

tactile sensibility has become highly refined. It may, indeed, be said

generally of these frontier regions of the body that their contact with

the same or a similar frontier region in another person of opposite sex,

under conditions otherwise favorable to tumescence, will tend to produce a

minimum and even sometimes a maximum degree of sexual excitation. Contact

of these regions with each other or with the sexual region itself so

closely simulates the central sexual reflex that channels are set up for

the same nervous energy and secondary sexual centres are constituted.

It is important to remember that the phenomena we are here concerned with

are essentially normal. Many of them are commonly spoken of as

perversions. In so far, however, as they are aids to tumescence they must

be regarded as coming within the range of normal variation. They may be

considered unæsthetic, but that is another matter. It has, moreover, to be

remembered that æsthetic values are changed under the influence of sexual

emotion; from the lover's point of view many things are beautiful which

are unbeautiful from the point of view of him who is not a lover, and the

greater the degree to which the lover is swayed by his passion the greater

the extent to which his normal æsthetic standard is liable to be modified.

A broad consideration of the phenomena among civilized and uncivilized

peoples amply suffices to show the fallacy of the tendency, so common

among unscientific writers on these subjects, to introduce normal æsthetic

standards into the sexual sphere. From the normal standpoint of ordinary

daily life, indeed, the whole process of sex is unæsthetic, except the

earlier stages of tumescence.[17]

So long as they constitute a part of the phase of tumescence, the

utilization of the sexual excitations obtainable through these channels

must be considered within the normal range of variation, as we may

observe, indeed, among many animals. When, however, such contacts of the

orifices of the body, other than those of the male and female sexual

organs proper, are used to procure not merely tumescence, but

detumescence, they become, in the strict and technical sense, perversions.

They are perversions in exactly the same sense as are the methods of

intercourse which involve the use of checks to prevent fecundation. The

æsthetic question, however, remains the same as if we were dealing with

tumescence. It is necessary that this should be pointed out clearly, even

at the risk of misapprehension, as confusions are here very common.

The essentially sexual character of the sensitivity of the

orificial contacts is shown by the fact that it may sometimes be

accidentally developed even in early childhood. This is well

illustrated in a case recorded by Féré. A little girl of 4, of

nervous temperament and liable to fits of anger in which she

would roll on the ground and tear her clothes, once ran out into

the garden in such a fit of temper and threw herself on the lawn

in a half-naked condition. As she lay there two dogs with whom

she was accustomed to play came up and began to lick the

uncovered parts of the body. It so happened that as one dog

licked her mouth the other licked her sexual parts.

She

experienced a shock of intense sensation which she could never

forget and never describe, accompanied by a delicious tension of

the sexual organs. She rose and ran away with a feeling of shame,

though she could not comprehend what had happened.

The impression

thus made was so profound that it persisted throughout life and

served as the point of departure of sexual perversions, while the

contact of a dog's tongue with her mouth alone afterward sufficed

to evoke sexual pleasure. (Féré, _Archives de Neurologie_, 1903,

No. 90.)

I do not purpose to discuss here either _cunnilingus_ (the

apposition of the mouth to the female pudendum) or _fellatio_

(the apposition of the mouth to the male organ), the agent in the

former case being, in normal heterosexual relationships, a man,

in the latter a woman; they are not purely tactile phenomena, but

involve various other physical and psychic elements.

_Cunnilingus_ was a very familiar manifestation in classic times,

as shown by frequent and mostly very contemptuous references in

Aristophanes, Juvenal, and many other Greek and Roman writers;

the Greeks regarded it as a Phoenician practice, just as it is

now commonly considered French; it tends to be especially

prevalent at all periods of high civilization.

_Fellatio_ has

also been equally well known, in both ancient and modern times,

especially as practiced by inverted men. It may be accepted that

both _cunnilingus_ and _fellatio_, as practiced by either sex,

are liable to occur among healthy or morbid persons, in

heterosexual or homosexual relationships. They have little

psychological significance, except to the extent that when

practiced to the exclusion of normal sexual relationships they

become perversions, and as such tend to be associated with

various degenerative conditions, although such associations are

not invariable.

The essentially normal character of _cunnilingus_

and _fellatio_,

when occurring as incidents in the process of tumescence, is

shown by the fact that they are practiced by many animals. This

is the case, for instance, among dogs. Moll points out that not

infrequently the bitch, while under the dog, but before

intromission, will change her position to lick the dog's

penis--apparently from an instinctive impulse to heighten her own

and his excitement--and then return to the normal position, while

_cunnilingus_ is of constant occurrence among animals, and on

account of its frequency among dogs was called by the Greeks

skylax (Rosenbaum, _Geschichte der Lustseuche im Altertume_,

fifth edition, pp. 260-278; also notes in Moll, _Untersuchungen

über pie Libido Sexualis_, Bd. I, pp. 134, 369; and Bloch,

_Beiträge zur Ætiologie der Psychopathia Sexualis_, Teil II, pp.

216 et seq.)

The occurrence of _cunnilingus_ as a sexual episode of tumescence

among lower human races is well illustrated by a practice of the

natives of the Caroline Islands (as recorded by Kubary in his

ethnographic study of this people and quoted by Ploss and

Bartels, _Das Weib_, vol. i). It is here customary for a man to

place a piece of fish between the labia, while he stimulates the

latter by his tongue and teeth until under stress of sexual

excitement the woman urinates; this is regarded as an indication

that the proper moment for intercourse has arrived.

Such a

practice rests on physiologically sound facts whatever may be

thought of it from an æsthetic standpoint.

The contrast between the normal æsthetic standpoint in this

matter and the lover's is well illustrated by the following

quotations: Dr. A.B. Holder, in the course of his description of

the American Indian _boté_, remarks, concerning _fellatio_: "Of

all the many varieties of sexual perversion, this, it seems to

me, is the most debased that could be conceived of."

On the other

hand, in a communication from a writer and scholar of high

intellectual distinction occurs the statement: "I affirm that, of

all sexual acts, _fellatio_ is most an affair of imagination and

sympathy." It must be pointed out that there is no contradiction

in these two statements, and that each is justified, according as

we take the point of view of the ordinary onlooker or of the

impassioned lover eager to give a final proof of his or her

devotion. It must be added that from a scientific point of view

we are not entitled to take either side.

Of the whole of this group of phenomena, the most typical and the most

widespread example is certainly the kiss. We have in the lips a highly

sensitive frontier region between skin and mucous membrane, in many

respects analogous to the vulvo-vaginal orifice, and reinforcible,

moreover, by the active movements of the still more highly sensitive

tongue. Close and prolonged contact of these regions, therefore, under

conditions favorable to tumescence sets up a powerful current of nervous

stimulation. After those contacts in which the sexual regions themselves

take a direct part, there is certainly no such channel for directing

nervous force into the sexual sphere as the kiss. This is nowhere so well

recognized as in France, where a young girl's lips are religiously kept

for her lover, to such an extent, indeed, that young girls sometimes come

to believe that the whole physical side of love is comprehended in a kiss

on the mouth; so highly intelligent a woman as Madam Adam has described

the agony she felt as a girl when kissed on the lips by a man, owing to

the conviction that she had thereby lost her virtue.

Although the lips

occupy this highly important position as a secondary sexual focus

in the sphere of touch, the kiss is--unlike _cunnilingus_ and

_fellatio_--confined to man and, indeed, to a large extent, to civilized

man. It is the outcome of a compound evolution which had its beginning

outside the sphere of touch, and it would therefore be out of place to

deal with the interesting question of its development in this place. It

will be discussed elsewhere.[18]

There is yet another orificial frontier region which is a highly important

tactile sexual focus: the nipple. The breasts raise, indeed, several

interesting questions in their intimate connection with the sexual sphere

and it may be worth while to consider them at this point.

The breasts have from the present point of view this special significance

among the sexual centres that they primarily exist, not for the contact of

the lover, but the contact of the child. This is doubtless, indeed, the

fundamental fact on which all the touch contacts we are here concerned

with have grown up. The sexual sensitivity of the lover's lips to

orificial contacts has been developed from the sensitivity of the infant's

lips to contact with his mother's nipple. It is on the ground of that

evolution that we are bound to consider here the precise position of the

breasts as a sexual centre.

As the great secreting organs of milk, the function of the breasts must

begin immediately the child is cut off from the nutrition derived from

direct contact with his mother's blood. It is therefore essential that the

connection between the sexual organs proper, more especially the womb, and

the breasts should be exceedingly intimate, so that the breasts may be in

a condition to respond adequately to the demand of the child's sucking

lips at the earliest moment after birth. As a matter of fact, this

connection is very intimate, so intimate that it takes place in two

totally distinct ways--by the nervous system and by the blood.

The breasts of young girls sometimes become tender at puberty in

sympathy with the evolution of the sexual organs, although the

swelling of the breasts at this period is not normally a

glandular process. At the recurring periods of menstruation,

again, sensations in the breasts are not uncommon.

It is not, however, until impregnation occurs that really

decisive changes take place in the breasts. "As soon as the ovum

is impregnated, that is to say within a few days,"

as W.D.A.

Griffith states it ("The Diagnosis of Pregnancy,"

_British

Medical Journal_, April 11, 1903), "the changes begin to occur in

the breast, changes which are just as well worked out as are the

changes in the uterus and the vagina, which, from the

commencement of pregnancy, prepare for the labor which ought to

follow nine months afterward. These are changes in the direction

of marked activity of function. An organ which was previously

quite passive, without activity of circulation and the effects of

active circulation, begins to grow and continues to grow in

activity and size as pregnancy progresses."

The association between breasts and womb is so obvious that it

has not escaped many savage peoples, who are often, indeed,

excellent observers. Among one primitive people at least the

activity of the breast at impregnation seems to be clearly

recognized. The Sinangolo of British New Guinea, says Seligmann

(_Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, July-December, 1902,

p. 298) believe that conception takes place in the breasts; on

this account they hold that coitus should never take place before

the child is weaned or he might imbibe semen with the milk.

It is natural to assume that this connection between the activity

of the womb and the glandular activity of the breasts is a

nervous connection, by means of the spinal cord, and such a

connection certainly exists and plays a very important part in