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the House of

Lords, in the last century, the question of the

exclusion of

Byron's statue from Westminster Abbey was under

discussion, Lord

Brougham "denied that Shakespeare was more moral

than Byron. He

could, on the contrary, point out in a single page

of Shakespeare

more grossness than was to be found in all Lord

Byron's works."

The conclusion Brougham thus reached, that Byron is

an

incomparably more moral writer than Shakespeare,

ought to have

been a sufficient _reductio ad absurdum_ of his

argument, but it

does not appear that anyone pointed out the vulgar

confusion into

which he had fallen.

It may be said that the special attractiveness which

the

nakedness of great literature sometimes possesses

for young minds

is unwholesome. But it must be remembered that the

peculiar

interest of this element is merely due to the fact

that elsewhere

there is an inveterate and abnormal concealment. It

must also be

said that the statements of the great writers about

natural

things are never degrading, nor even erotically

exciting to the

young, and what Emilia Pardo Bazan tells of herself

and her

delight when a child in the historical books of the

Old

Testament, that the crude passages in them failed to

send the

faintest cloud of trouble across her young

imagination, is

equally true of most children. It is necessary,

indeed, that

these naked and serious things should be left

standing, even if

only to counterbalance the lewdly comic efforts to

besmirch love

and sex, which are visible to all in every low-class

bookseller's

shop window.

This point of view was vigorously championed by the

speakers on

sexual education at the Third Congress of the German

Gesellschaft

zur Bekämpfung der Geschlechtskrankheiten in 1907.

Thus Enderlin,

speaking as a headmaster, protested against the

custom of

bowdlerizing poems and folk-songs for the use of

children, and

thus robbing them of the finest introduction to

purified sexual

impulses and the highest sphere of emotion, while at

the same

time they are recklessly exposed to the "psychic

infection" of

the vulgar comic papers everywhere exposed for sale.

"So long as

children are too young to respond to erotic poetry

it cannot hurt

them; when they are old enough to respond it can

only benefit

them by opening to them the highest and purest

channels of human

emotion" (_Sexualpädagogik_, p. 60). Professor

Schäfenacker (id.,

p. 98) expresses himself in the same sense, and

remarks that "the

method of removing from school-books all those

passages which, in

the opinion of short-sighted and narrow-hearted

schoolmasters,

are unsuited for youth, must be decisively

condemned." Every

healthy boy and girl who has reached the age of

puberty may be

safely allowed to ramble in any good library,

however varied its

contents. So far from needing guidance they will

usually show a

much more refined taste than their elders. At this

age, when the

emotions are still virginal and sensitive, the

things that are

realistic, ugly, or morbid, jar on the young spirit

and are cast

aside, though in adult life, with the coarsening of

mental

texture which comes of years and experience, this

repugnance,

doubtless by an equally sound and natural instinct,

may become

much less acute.

Ellen Key in Ch. VI of her _Century of the Child_

well summarizes

the reasons against the practice of selecting for

children books

that are "suitable" for them, a practice which she considers one

of the follies of modern education. The child should

be free to

read all great literature, and will himself

instinctively put

aside the things he is not yet ripe for. His cooler

senses are

undisturbed by scenes that his elders find too

exciting, while

even at a later stage it is not the nakedness of

great

literature, but much more the method of the modern

novel, which

is likely to stain the imagination, falsify reality

and injure

taste. It is concealment which misleads and

coarsens, producing a

state of mind in which even the Bible becomes a

stimulus to the

senses. The writings of the great masters yield the

imaginative

food which the child craves, and the erotic moment

in them is too

brief to be overheating. It is the more necessary,

Ellen Key

remarks, for children to be introduced to great

literature, since

they often have little opportunity to occupy

themselves with it

in later life. Many years earlier Ruskin, in _Sesame

and Lilies_,

had eloquently urged that even young girls should be

allowed to

range freely in libraries.

What has been said about literature applies equally to art. Art, as well

as literature, and in the same indirect way, can be made a valuable aid in

the task of sexual enlightenment and sexual hygiene.

Modern art may,

indeed, for the most part, be ignored from this point of view, but

children cannot be too early familiarized with the

representations of the

nude in ancient sculpture and in the paintings of the

old masters of the

Italian school. In this way they may be immunized, as

Enderlin expresses

it, against those representations of the nude which make an appeal to the

baser instincts. Early familiarity with nudity in art is at the same time

an aid to the attainment of a proper attitude towards

purity in nature.

"He who has once learnt," as Höller remarks, "to enjoy peacefully

nakedness in art, will be able to look on nakedness in nature as on a work

of art."

Casts of classic nude statues and reproductions of

the pictures

of the old Venetian and other Italian masters may

fittingly be

used to adorn schoolrooms, not so much as objects of

instruction

as things of beauty with which the child cannot too

early become

familiarized. In Italy it is said to be usual for

school classes

to be taken by their teachers to the art museums

with good

results; such visits form part of the official

scheme of

education.

There can be no doubt that such early familiarity

with the beauty

of nudity in classic art is widely needed among all

social

classes and in many countries. It is to this defect

of our

education that we must attribute the occasional, and

indeed in

America and England frequent, occurrence of such

incidents as

petitions and protests against the exhibition of

nude statuary in

art museums, the display of pictures so inoffensive

as Leighton's

"Bath of Psyche" in shop windows, and the demand for the draping

of the naked personifications of abstract virtues in

architectural street decoration. So imperfect is

still the

education of the multitude that in these matters the

ill-bred

fanatic of pruriency usually gains his will. Such a

state of

things cannot but have an unwholesome reaction on

the moral

atmosphere of the community in which it is possible.

Even from

the religious point of view, prurient prudery is not

justifiable.

Northcote has very temperately and sensibly

discussed the

question of the nude in art from the standpoint of

Christian

morality. He points out that not only is the nude in

art not to

be condemned without qualification, and that the

nude is by no

means necessarily the erotic, but he also adds that

even erotic

art, in its best and purest manifestations, only

arouses emotions

that are the legitimate object of man's aspirations.

It would be

impossible even to represent Biblical stories

adequately on

canvas or in marble if erotic art were to be tabooed

(Rev. H.

Northcote, _Christianity and Sex Problems_, Ch.

XIV).

Early familiarity with the nude in classic and early

Italian art

should be combined at puberty with an equal

familiarity with

photographs of beautiful and naturally developed

nude models. In

former years books containing such pictures in a

suitable and

attractive manner to place before the young were

difficult to

procure. Now this difficulty no longer exists. Dr.

C.H. Stratz,

of The Hague, has been the pioneer in this matter,

and in a

series of beautiful books (notably in _Der Körper

des Kindes, Die

Schönheit des Weiblichen Körpers_ and _Die

Rassenschönheit des

Weibes_, all published by Enke in Stuttgart), he has

brought

together a large number of admirably selected

photographs of nude

but entirely chaste figures. More recently Dr.

Shufeldt, of

Washington (who dedicates his work to Stratz), has

published his

_Studies of the Human Form_ in which, in the same

spirit, he has

brought together the results of his own studies of

the naked

human form during many years. It is necessary to

correct the

impressions received from classic sources by good

photographic

illustrations on account of the false conventions

prevailing in

classic works, though those conventions were not

necessarily

false for the artists who originated them. The

omission of the

pudendal hair, in representations of the nude was,

for instance,

quite natural for the people of countries still

under Oriental

influence are accustomed to remove the hair from the

body. If,

however, under quite different conditions, we

perpetuate that

artistic convention to-day, we put ourselves into a

perverse

relation to nature. There is ample evidence of this.

"There is

one convention so ancient, so necessary, so

universal," writes

Mr. Frederic Harrison (_Nineteenth Century and

After_, Aug.,

1907), "that its deliberate defiance to-day may

arouse the bile

of the least squeamish of men and should make women

withdraw at

once." If boys and girls were brought up at their mother's knees

in familiarity with pictures of beautiful and

natural nakedness,

it would be impossible for anyone to write such

silly and

shameful words as these.

There can be no doubt that among ourselves the

simple and direct

attitude of the child towards nakedness is so early

crushed out

of him that intelligent education is necessary in

order that he

may be enabled to discern what is and what is not

obscene. To the

plough-boy and the country servant-girl all

nakedness, including

that of Greek statuary, is alike shameful or

lustful. "I have a

picture of women like that," said a countryman with a grin, as he

pointed to a photograph of one of Tintoret's most

beautiful

groups, "smoking cigarettes." And the mass of people in most

northern countries have still passed little beyond

this stage of

discernment; in ability to distinguish between the

beautiful and

the obscene they are still on the level of the

plough-boy and the

servant-girl.

FOOTNOTES:

[18] These manifestations have been dealt with in the

study of Autoerotism

in vol. i of the present _Studies_. It may be added that the sexual life

of the child has been exhaustively investigated by Moll, _Das Sexualleben

des Kindes_, 1909.

[19] This genital efflorescence in the sexual glands and breasts at birth

or in early infancy has been discussed in a Paris

thesis, by Camille

Renouf (_La Crise Génital et les Manifestations Connexes chez le Foetus et

le Nouveau-né_, 1905); he is unable to offer a

satisfactory explanation of

these phenomena.

[20] Amélineau, _La Morale des Egyptiens_, p. 64.

[21] "The Social Evil in Philadelphia," _Arena_, March, 1896.

[22] Moll, _Konträre Sexualempfindung_, third edition, p. 592.

[23] This powerlessness of the law and the police is

well recognized by

lawyers familiar with the matter. Thus F. Werthauer

(_Sittlichkeitsdelikte

der Grosstadt_, 1907) insists throughout on the

importance of parents and

teachers imparting to children from their early years a progressively

increasing knowledge of sexual matters.

[24] "Parents must be taught how to impart information,"

remarks E.L.

Keyes ("Education upon Sexual Matters," _New York Medical Journal_, Feb.

10, 1906), "and this teaching of the parent should begin when he is

himself a child."

[25] Moll (op. cit., p. 224) argues well how impossible it is to preserve

children from sights and influence connected with the

sexual life.

[26] Girls are not even prepared, in many cases, for the appearance of the

pubic hair. This unexpected growth of hair frequently

causes young girls

much secret worry, and often they carefully cut it off.

[27] G.S. Hall, _Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 511. Many

years ago, in 1875,

the late Dr. Clarke, in his _Sex in Education_, advised menstrual rest for

girls, and thereby aroused a violent opposition which

would certainly not

be found nowadays, when the special risks of womanhood are becoming more

clearly understood.

[28] For a summary of the physical and mental phenomena of the menstrual

period, see Havelock Ellis: _Man and Woman_, Ch. XI. The primitive

conception of menstruation is briefly discussed in

Appendix A to the first

volume of these _Studies_, and more elaborately by J.G.

Frazer in _The

Golden Bough_. A large collection of facts with regard to the menstrual

seclusion of women throughout the world will be found in Ploss and

Bartels, _Das Weib_. The pubertal seclusion of girls at Torres Straits has

been especially studied by Seligmann, _Reports

Anthropological Expedition

to Torres Straits_, vol. v, Ch. VI.

[29] Thus Miss Lura Sanborn, Director of Physical

Training at the Chicago

Normal School, found that a bath once a fortnight was

not unusual. At the

menstrual period especially there is still a

superstitious dread of water.

Girls should always be taught that at this period, above all, cleanliness

is imperatively necessary. There should be a tepid hip bath night and

morning, and a vaginal douche (which should never be

cold) is always

advantageous, both for comfort as well as cleanliness.

There is not the

slightest reason to dread water during menstruation.

This point was

discussed a few years ago in the _British Medical

Journal_ with complete

unanimity of opinion. A distinguished American

obstetrician, also, Dr. J.

Clifton Edgar, after a careful study of opinion and

practice in this

matter ("Bathing During the Menstrual Period," _American Journal

Obstetrics_, Sept., 1900), concludes that it is possible and beneficial to

take cold baths (though not sea-baths) during the

period, provided due

precautions are observed, and that there are no sudden changes of habits.

Such a course should not be indiscriminately adopted,

but there can be no

doubt that in sturdy peasant women who are inured to it early in life even

prolonged immersion in the sea in fishing has no evil

results, and is even

beneficial. Houzel (_Annales de Gynécologie_, Dec.,

1894) has published

statistics of the menstrual life of 123 fisherwomen on the French coast.

They were accustomed to shrimp for hours at a time in

the sea, often to

above the waist, and then walk about in their wet

clothes selling the

shrimps. They all insisted that their menstruation was easier when they

were actively at work. Their periods are notably

regular, and their

fertility is high.

[30] J.H. McBride, "The Life and Health of Our Girls in Relation to Their

Future," _Alienist and Neurologist_, Feb., 1904.

[31] W.G. Chambers, "The Evolution of Ideals,"

_Pedagogical Seminary_,

March, 1903; Catherine Dodd, "School Children's Ideals,"

_National

Review_, Feb. and Dec., 1900, and June, 1901. No German girls acknowledged

a wish to be men; they said it would be wicked. Among

Flemish girls,

however, Varendonck found at Ghent (_Archives de

Psychologie_, July, 1908)

that 26 per cent. had men as their ideals.

[32] A. Reibmayr, _Die Entwicklungsgeschichte des

Talentes und Genies_,

1908, Bd. i, p. 70.

[33] R. Hellmann, _Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit_, p. 14.

[34] This belief seems frequent among young girls in

Continental Europe.

It forms the subject of one of Marcel Prevost's _Lettres de Femmes_. In

Austria, according to Freud, it is not uncommon,

exclusively among girls.

[35] Yet, according to English law, rape is a crime

which it is impossible

for a husband to commit on his wife (see, e.g., Nevill Geary, _The Law of

Marriage_, Ch. XV, Sect. V). The performance of the

marriage ceremony,

however, even if it necessarily involved a clear

explanation of marital

privileges, cannot be regarded as adequate justification for an act of

sexual intercourse performed with violence or without

the wife's consent.

[36] Hirschfeld, _Jahrbuch für Sexuelle Zwischenstufen_, 1903, p. 88. It

may be added that a horror of coitus is not necessarily due to bad

education, and may also occur in hereditarily degenerate women, whose

ancestors have shown similar or allied mental

peculiarities. A case of

such "functional impotence" has been reported in a young Italian wife of

twenty-one, who was otherwise healthy, and strongly

attached to her

husband. The marriage was annulled on the ground that

"rudimentary sexual

or emotional paranoia, which renders a wife invincibly refractory to

sexual union, notwithstanding the integrity of the

sexual organs,

constitutes psychic functional impotence" (_Archivio di Psichiatria_,

1906, fasc. vi, p. 806).

[37] The reasonableness of this step is so obvious that it should scarcely

need insistence. "The instruction of school-boys and school-girls is most

adequately effected by an elderly doctor," Näcke

remarks, "sometimes

perhaps the school-doctor." "I strongly advocate," says Clouston (_The

Hygiene of Mind_, p. 249), "that the family doctor, guided by the parent

and the teacher, is by far the best instructor and

monitor." Moll is of

the same opinion.

[38] I have further developed this argument in "Religion and the Child,"

_Nineteenth Century and After_, 1907.

[39] The intimate relation of art and poetry to the

sexual impulse has

been realized in a fragmentary way by many who have not attained to any

wide vision of auto-erotic activity in life. "Poetry is necessarily

related to the sexual function," says Metchnikoff (_Essais Optimistes_, p.

352), who also quotes with approval the statement of

Möbius (previously

made by Ferrero and many others) that "artistic

aptitudes must probably be

considered as secondary sexual characters."

CHAPTER III.

SEXUAL EDUCATION AND NAKEDNESS.

The Greek Attitude Towards Nakedness--How the Romans

Modified That

Attitude--The Influence of Christianity--Nakedness in

Mediæval

Times--Evolution of the Horror of Nakedness--Concomitant Change in the

Conception of Nakedness--Prudery--The Romantic Movement-

-Rise of a New

Feeling in Regard to Nakedness--The Hygienic Aspect of Nakedness--How

Children May Be Accustomed to Nakedness--Nakedness Not Inimical to

Modesty--The Instinct of Physical Pride--The Value of

Nakedness in

Education--The Æsthetic Value of Nakedness--The Human

Body as One of the

Prime Tonics of Life--How Nakedness May Be Cultivated--

The Moral Value of

Nakedness.

The discussion of the value of nakedness in art leads us on to the allied

question of nakedness in nature. What is the

psychological influence of

familiarity with nakedness? How far should children be made familiar with

the naked body? This is a question in regard to which

different opinions

have been held in different ages, and during recent

years a remarkable

change has begun to come over the minds of practical

educationalists in

regard to it.

In Sparta, in Chios, and elsewhere in Greece, women at one time practiced

gymnastic feats and dances in nakedness, together with the men, or in

their presence.[40] Plato in his _Republic_ approved of such customs and

said that the ridicule of those who laughed at them was but "unripe