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part of womankind to

preserve the other, and prevent a filthiness of a more heinous nature.

From whence I think I may justly conclude that chastity may be supported

by incontinence, and the best of virtues want the

assistance of the worst

of vices."[200] After Mandeville's time this view of prostitution began to

become common in Protestant as well as in other

countries, though it was

not usually so clearly expressed.

It may be of interest to gather together a few more

modern

examples of statements brought forward for the moral

justification of prostitution.

Thus in France Meusnier de Querlon, in his story of

_Psaphion_,

written in the middle of the eighteenth century,

puts into the

mouth of a Greek courtesan many interesting

reflections

concerning the life and position of the prostitute.

She defends

her profession with much skill, and argues that

while men imagine

that prostitutes are merely the despised victims of

their

pleasures, these would-be tyrants are really dupes

who are

ministering to the needs of the women they trample

beneath their

feet, and themselves equally deserve the contempt

they bestow.

"We return disgust for disgust, as they must surely perceive. We

often abandon to them merely a statue, and while

inflamed by

their own desires they consume themselves on

insensible charms,

our tranquil coldness leisurely enjoys their

sensibility. Then it

is we resume all our rights. A little hot blood has

brought

these proud creatures to our feet, and rendered us

mistresses of

their fate. On which side, I ask, is the advantage?"

But all men,

she adds, are not so unjust towards the prostitute,

and she

proceeds to pronounce a eulogy, not without a slight

touch of

irony in it, of the utility, facility, and

convenience of the

brothel.

A large number of the modern writers on prostitution

insist on

its socially beneficial character. Thus Charles

Richard concludes

his book on the subject with the words: "The conduct of society

with regard to prostitution must proceed from the

principle of

gratitude without false shame for its utility, and

compassion for

the poor creatures at whose expense this is

attained" (_La

Prostitution devant le Philosophe_, 1882, p. 171).

"To make

marriage permanent is to make it difficult," an

American medical

writer observes; "to make it difficult is to defer it; to defer

it is to maintain in the community an increasing

number of

sexually perfect individuals, with normal, or, in

cases where

repression is prolonged, excessive sexual appetites.

The social

evil is the natural outcome of the physical nature

of man, his

inherited impulses, and the artificial conditions

under which he

is compelled to live" ("The Social Evil,"

_Medicine_, August and

September, 1906). Woods Hutchinson, while speaking

with strong

disapproval of prostitution and regarding

prostitutes as "the

worst specimens of the sex," yet regards

prostitution as a social

agency of the highest value. "From a medico-economic point of

view I venture to claim it as one of the grand

selective and

eliminative agencies of nature, and of highest value

to the

community. It may be roughly characterized as a

safety valve for

the institution of marriage" (_The Gospel According to Darwin_,

p. 193; cf. the same author's article on "The

Economics of

Prostitution," summarized in _Boston Medical and

Surgical

Journal_, November 21, 1895). Adolf Gerson, in a

somewhat similar

spirit, argues ("Die Ursache der Prostitution,"

_Sexual-Probleme_, September, 1908) that

"prostitution is one of

the means used by Nature to limit the procreative

activity of

men, and especially to postpone the period of sexual

maturity."

Molinari considers that the social benefits of

prostitution have

been manifested in various ways from the first; by

sterilizing,

for instance, the more excessive manifestations of

the sexual

impulse prostitution suppressed the necessity for

the infanticide

of superfluous children, and led to the prohibition

of that

primitive method of limiting the population (G. de

Molinari, _La

Viriculture_, p. 45). In quite another way than that

mentioned by

Molinari, prostitution has even in very recent times

led to the

abandonment of infanticide. In the Chinese province

of Ping-Yang,

Matignon states, it was usual not many years ago for

poor parents

to kill forty per cent. of the girl children, or

even all of

them, at birth, for they were too expensive to rear

and brought

nothing in, since men who wished to marry could

easily obtain a

wife in the neighboring province of Wenchu, where

women were

very easy to obtain. Now, however, the line of

steamships along

the coast makes it very easy for girls to reach the

brothels of

Shang-Hai, where they can earn money for their

families; the

custom of killing them has therefore died out

(Matignon,

_Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, 1896, p. 72).

"Under

present conditions," writes Dr. F. Erhard ("Auch ein Wort zur

Ehereform," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I, Heft 9),

"prostitution (in the broadest sense, including free relationships) is necessary in order that young men

may, in some

degree, learn to know women, for conventional

conversation cannot

suffice for this; an exact knowledge of feminine

thought and

action is, however, necessary for a proper choice,

since it is

seldom possible to rely on the certainty of

instinct. It is good

also that men should wear off their horns before

marriage, for

the polygamous tendency will break through

somewhere.

Prostitution will only spoil those men in whom there

is not much

to spoil, and if the desire for marriage is thus

lost, the man's

unbegotten children may have cause to thank him."

Neisser, Näcke,

and many others, have pleaded for prostitution, and

even for

brothels, as "necessary evils."

It is scarcely necessary to add that many, among

even the

strongest upholders of the moral advantages of

prostitution,

believe that some improvement in method is still

desirable. Thus

Bérault looks forward to a time when regulated

brothels will

become less contemptible. Various improvements may,

he thinks, in

the near future, "deprive them of the barbarous

attributes which

mark them out for the opprobrium of the skeptical or

ignorant

multitude, while their recognizable advantages will

put an end to

the contempt aroused by their cynical aspect" (_La Maison de

Tolérance_, Thèse de Paris, 1904).

4. _The Civilizational Value of Prostitution._--The

moral argument for

prostitution is based on the belief that our marriage

system is so

infinitely precious that an institution which serves as its buttress must

be kept in existence, however ugly or otherwise

objectionable it may in

itself be. There is, however, another argument in

support of prostitution

which scarcely receives the emphasis it deserves. I

refer to its influence

in adding an element, in some form or another necessary, of gaiety and

variety to the ordered complexity of modern life, a

relief from the

monotony of its mechanical routine, a distraction from its dull and

respectable monotony. This is distinct from the more

specific function of

prostitution as an outlet for superfluous sexual energy, and may even

affect those who have little or no commerce with

prostitutes. This

element may be said to constitute the civilizational

value of

prostitution.

It is not merely the general conditions of civilization, but more

specifically the conditions of urban life, which make

this factor

insistent. Urban life imposes by the stress of

competition a very severe

and exacting routine of dull work. At the same time it makes men and women

more sensitive to new impressions, more enamored of

excitement and change.

It multiplies the opportunities of social intercourse; it decreases the

chances of detection of illegitimate intercourse while at the same time it

makes marriage more difficult, for, by heightening

social ambitions and

increasing the expenses of living, it postpones the time when a home can

be created. Urban life delays marriage and yet renders the substitutes for

marriage more imperative.[201]

There cannot be the slightest doubt that it is this

motive--the effort to

supplement the imperfect opportunities for self-

development offered by our

restrained, mechanical, and laborious civilization--

which plays one of the

chief parts in inducing women to adopt, temporarily or permanently, a

prostitute's life. We have seen that the economic factor is not, as was

once supposed, by any means predominant in this choice.

Nor, again, is

there any reason to suppose that an over-mastering

sexual impulse is a

leading factor. But a large number of young women turn instinctively to a

life of prostitution because they are moved by an

obscure impulse which

they can scarcely define to themselves or express, and are often ashamed

to confess. It is, therefore, surprising that this

motive should find so

large a place even in the formal statistics of the

factors of

prostitution. Merrick, in London, found that 5000, or

nearly a third, of

the prostitutes he investigated, voluntarily gave up

home or situation

"for a life of pleasure," and he puts this at the head of the causes of

prostitution.[202] In America Sanger found that

"inclination" came almost

at the head of the causes of prostitution, while Woods Hutchinson found

"love of display, luxury and idleness" by far at the head. "Disgusted and

wearied with work" is the reason assigned by a large number of Belgian

girls when stating to the police their wish to be

enrolled as prostitutes.

In Italy a similar motive is estimated to play an

important part. In

Russia "desire for amusement" comes second among the causes of

prostitution. There can, I think, be little doubt that, as a thoughtful

student of London life has concluded, the problem of

prostitution is "at

bottom a mad and irresistible craving for excitement, a serious and wilful

revolt against the monotony of commonplace ideals, and the uninspired

drudgery of everyday life."[203] It is this factor of prostitution, we may

reasonably conclude, which is mainly responsible for the fact, pointed out

by F. Schiller,[204] that with the development of

civilization the supply

of prostitutes tends to outgrow the demand.

Charles Booth seems to be of the same opinion, and

quotes (_Life

and Labor of the People_, Third Series, vol. vii, p.

364) from a

Rescue Committee Report: "The popular idea is, that these women

are eager to leave a life of sin. The plain and

simple truth is

that, for the most part, they have no desire at all

to be

rescued. So many of these women do not, and will

not, regard

prostitution as a sin. 'I am taken out to dinner and

to some

place of amusement every night; why should I give it

up?'"

Merrick, who found that five per cent. of 14,000

prostitutes who

passed through Millbank Prison, were accustomed to

combine

religious observance with the practice of their

profession, also

remarks in regard to their feelings about morality:

"I am

convinced that there are many poor men and women who

do not in

the least understand what is implied in the term

'immorality.'

Out of courtesy to you, they may assent to what you

say, but they

do not comprehend your meaning when you talk of

virtue or purity;

you are simply talking over their heads" (Merrick, op. cit., p.

28). The same attitude may be found among

prostitutes everywhere.

In Italy Ferriani mentions a girl of fifteen who,

when accused of

indecency with a man in a public garden, denied with

tears and

much indignation. He finally induced her to confess,

and then

asked her: "Why did you try to make me believe you were a good

girl?" She hesitated, smiled, and said: "Because _they say_ girls

ought not to do what I do, but ought to work. But I

am what I am,

and it is no concern of theirs." This attitude is often more than

an instinctive feeling; in intelligent prostitutes

it frequently

becomes a reasoned conviction. "I can bear

everything, if so it

must be," wrote the author of the _Tagebuch einer Verlorenen_ (p.

291), "even serious and honorable contempt, but I cannot bear

scorn. Contempt--yes, if it is justified. If a poor

and pretty

girl with sick and bitter heart stands alone in

life, cast off,

with temptations and seductions offering on every

side, and, in

spite of that, out of inner conviction she chooses

the grey and

monotonous path of renunciation and middle-class

morality, I

recognize in that girl a personality, who has a

certain

justification in looking down with contemptuous pity

on weaker

girls. But those geese who, under the eyes of their

shepherds and

life-long owners, have always been pastured in

smooth green

fields, have certainly no right to laugh scornfully

at others who

have not been so fortunate." Nor must it be supposed that there

is necessarily any sophistry in the prostitute's

justification of

herself. Some of our best thinkers and observers

have reached a

conclusion that is not dissimilar. "The actual

conditions of

society are opposed to any high moral feeling in

women," Marro

observes (_La Pubertà_, p. 462), "for between those who sell

themselves to prostitution and those who sell

themselves to

marriage, the only difference is in price and

duration of the

contract."

We have already seen how very large a part in

prostitution is furnished by

those who have left domestic service to adopt this life (_ante_ p. 264).

It is not difficult to find in this fact evidence of the kind of impulse

which impels a woman to adopt the career of

prostitution. "The servant, in

our society of equality," wrote Goncourt, recalling somewhat earlier days

when she was often admitted to a place in the family

life, "has become

nothing but a paid pariah, a machine for doing household work, and is no

longer allowed to share the employer's human life."[205]

And in England,

even half a century ago, we already find the same

statements concerning

the servant's position: "domestic service is a complete slavery," with

early hours and late hours, and constant running up and down stairs till

her legs are swollen; "an amount of ingenuity appears too often to be

exercised, worthy of a better cause, in obtaining the

largest possible

amount of labor out of the domestic machine"; in

addition she is "a kind

of lightning conductor," to receive the ill-temper and morbid feelings of

her mistress and the young ladies; so that, as some have said, "I felt so

miserable I did not care what became of me, I wished I was dead."[206] The

servant is deprived of all human relationships; she must not betray the

existence of any simple impulse, or natural need. At the same time she

lives on the fringe of luxury; she is surrounded by the tantalizing

visions of pleasure and amusement for which her fresh

young nature

craves.[207] It is not surprising that, repelled by

unrelieved drudgery

and attracted by idle luxury, she should take the plunge which will alone

enable her to enjoy the glittering aspects of

civilization which seem so

desirable to her.[208]

It is sometimes stated that the prevalence of

prostitution among

girls who were formerly servants is due to the

immense numbers of

servants who are seduced by their masters or the

young men of the

family, and are thus forced on to the streets.

Undoubtedly in a

certain proportion of cases, perhaps sometimes a

fairly

considerable proportion, this is a decisive factor

in the matter,

but it scarcely seems to be the chief factor. The

existence of

relationships between servants and masters, it must

be

remembered, by no means necessarily implies

seduction. In a

large number of cases the servant in a household is,

in sexual

matters, the teacher rather than the pupil. (In "The Sexual

Impulse in Women," in the third volume of these

_Studies_, I have

discussed the part played by servants as sexual

initiators of the

young boys in the households in which they are

placed.) The more

precise statistics of the causes of prostitution

seldom assign

seduction as the main determining factor in more

than about

twenty per cent. of cases, though this is obviously

one of the

most easily avowable motives (see _ante_, p. 256).

Seduction by

any kind of employer constitutes only a proportion

(usually less

than half) even of these cases. The special case of

seduction of

servants by masters can thus play no very

considerable part as a

factor of prostitution.

The statistics of the parentage of illegitimate

children have

some bearing on this question. In a series of 180

unmarried

mothers assisted by the Berlin Bund für

Mutterschutz, particulars

are given of the occupations both of the mothers,

and, as far as

possible, of the fathers. The former were one-third

servant-girls, and the great majority of the

remainder assistants

in trades or girls carrying on work at home. At the

head of the

fathers (among 120 cases) came artisans (33),

followed by

tradespeople (22); only a small proportion (20 to

25) could be

described as "gentlemen," and even this proportion loses some of

its significance when it is pointed out that some of

the girls

were also of the middle-class; in nineteen cases the

fathers were

married men (_Mutterschutz_, January, 1907, p. 45).

Most authorities in most countries are of opinion

that girls who

eventually (usually between the ages of fifteen and

twenty)

become prostitutes have lost their virginity at an

early age, and

in the great majority of cases through men of their

own class.

"The girl of the people falls by the people," stated Reuss in

France (_La Prostitution_, p. 41). "It is her like, workers like

herself, who have the first fruits of her beauty and

virginity.

The man of the world who covers her with gold and

jewels only has

their leavings." Martineau, again (_De la

Prostitution

Clandestine_, 1885), showed that prostitutes are

usually

deflowered by men of their own class. And Jeannel,

in Bordeaux,

found reason for believing that it is not chiefly

their masters

who lead servants astray; they often go into service

because they

have been seduced in the country, while lazy,

greedy, and

unintelligent girls are sent from the country into

the town to

service. In Edinburgh, W. Tait (_Magdalenism_, 1842)

found that

soldiers more than any other class in the community

are the

seducers of women, the Highlanders being especially

notorious in

this respect. Soldiers have this reputation

everywhere, and in

Germany especially it is constantly found that the

presence of

the soldiery in a country district, as at the annual

manoeuvres,

is the cause of unchastity and illegitimate births;

it is so also

in Austria, where, long ago, Gross-Hoffinger stated

that

soldiers were responsible for at least a third of

all

illegitimate births, a share out of all proportion

to their

numbers. In Italy, Marro, investigating the occasion

of the loss

of virginity in twenty-two prostitutes, found that

ten gave

themselves more or less spontaneously to lovers or

masters, ten

yielded in the expectation of marriage, and two were

outraged

(_La Pubertà_, p. 461). The loss of virginity, Marro

adds, though

it may not be the direct cause of prostitution,

often leads on to

it. "When a door has once been broken in," a prostitute said to

him, "it is difficult to keep it closed." In Sardinia, as A.

Mantegazza and Ciuffo found, prostitutes are very

largely

servants from the country who have already been

deflowered by men

of their own class.

This civilizational factor of prostitution, the

influence of