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female between his thighs when he is sitting, holding her with

his forepaws. Froriep informed Lawrence that the male sometimes

supported his feet on the female's calves. (Sir W.

Lawrence,

_Lectures on Physiology_, 1823, p. 186.) A summary of the methods

of congress practiced by the various animals below mammals will

be found in the article "Copulation" by H. de Varigny in Richet's

_Dictionnaire de Physiologie_, vol. iv.

The anterior position in coitus, with the female partner lying

supine, is so widespread throughout the world that it may fairly

be termed the most typically human attitude in sexual congress.

It is found represented in Egyptian graves at Benihassan,

belonging to the Twelfth Dynasty; it is regarded by Mohammedans

as the normal position, although other positions are permitted by

the Prophet: "Your wives are your tillage: go in unto your

tillage in what manner soever you will;" it is that adopted in

Malacca; it appears, from Peruvian antiquities, to have been the

position generally, though not exclusively, adopted in ancient

Peru; it is found in many parts of Africa, and seems also to have

been the most usual position among the American aborigines.

Various modifications of this position are, however, found. Thus,

in some parts of the world, as among the Suahelis in Zanzibar,

the male partner adopts the supine position. In Loango, according

to Pechuel-Loesche, coitus is performed lying on the side.

Sometimes, as on the west coast of Africa, the woman is supine

and the man more or less erect; or, as among the Queenslanders

(as described by Roth) the woman is supine and the man squats on

his heels with her thighs clasping his flanks, while he raises

her buttocks with his hands.

The position of coitus in which the man is supine is without

doubt a natural and frequent variation of the specifically human

obverse method of coitus. It was evidently familiar to the

Romans. Ovid mentions it (_Ars Amatoria_, III, 777-8),

recommending it to little women, and saying that Andromache was

too tall to practice it with Hector. Aristophanes refers to it,

and there are Greek epigrams in which women boast of their skill

in riding their lovers. It has sometimes been viewed with a

certain disfavor because it seems to confer a superiority on the

woman. "Cursed be he," according to a Mohammedan saying, "who

maketh woman heaven and man earth."

Of special interest is the wide prevalence of an attitude in

coitus recalling that which prevails among quadrupeds. The

frequency with which on the walls of Pompeii coitus is

represented with the woman bending forward and her partner

approaching her posteriorly has led to the belief that this

attitude was formerly very common in Southern Italy.

However that

may be, it is certainly normal at the present day among various

more or less primitive peoples in whom the vulva is often placed

somewhat posteriorly. It is thus among the Soudanese, as also, in

an altogether different part of the world, among the Eskimo

Innuit and Koniags. The New Caledonians, according to Foley,

cohabit in the quadrupedal manner, and so also the Papuans of New

Guinea (Bongu), according to Vahness. The same custom is also

found in Australia, where, however other postures are also

adopted. In Europe the quadrupedal posture would seem to prevail

among some of the South Slavs, notably the Dalmatians. (The

different methods of coitus practiced by the South Slavs are

described in Kryptadia vol. vi, pp. 220, et seq.) This method of coitus was recommended by Lucretius (lib. iv) and

also advised by Paulus Æginetus as favorable to conception. (The

opinions of various early physicians are quoted by Schurig,

_Spermatologia_, 1720, pp. 232, et seq.). It seems to be a

position that is not infrequently agreeable to women, a fact

which may be brought into connection with the remarks of Adler

already quoted (p. 131) concerning the comparative lack of

adjustment of the feminine organs to the obverse position. It is

noteworthy that in the days of witchcraft hysterical women

constantly believed that they had had intercourse with the Devil

in this manner. This circumstance, indeed, probably aided in the

very marked disfavor in which coitus _a posteriori_

fell after

the decay of classic influences. The mediæval physicians

described it as _mos diabolicus_ and mistakenly supposed that it

produced abortion (Hyrtl, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 87).

The

theologians, needless to say, were opposed to the _mos

diabolicus_, and already in the Anglo-Saxon Penitential of

Theodore, at the end of the seventh century, 40

days' penance is

prescribed for this method of coitus.

From the frequency with which they have been adopted by various

peoples as national customs, most of the postures in coitus here

referred to must be said to come within the normal range of

variation. It is a mistake to regard them as vicious perversions.

Up to the point to which we have so far considered it, the process of

detumescence has been mainly nervous and vascular in character; it has, in

fact, been but the more acute stage of a process which has been going on

throughout tumescence. But now we reach the point at which a new element

comes in: muscular action. With the onset of muscular action, which is

mainly involuntary, even when it affects the voluntary muscles,

detumescence proper begins to take place. Henceforward purposeful psychic

action, except by an effort, is virtually abolished. The individual, as a

separate person, tends to disappear. He has become one with another

person, as nearly one as the conditions of existence ever permit; he and

she are now merely an instrument in the hands of a higher power--by

whatever name we may choose to call that Power--which is using them for an

end not themselves.

The decisive moment in the production of the instinctive and involuntary

orgasm occurs when, under the influence of the stimulus applied to the

penis by friction with the vagina, the tension of the seminal fluid poured

into the urethra arouses the ejaculatory center in the spinal cord and the

bulbo-cavernosus muscle surrounding the urethra responsively contracts in

rhythmic spasms. Then it is that ejaculation occurs.[106]

"The circulation quickens, the arteries beat strongly,"

wrote Roubaud in a

description of the physical state during coitus which may almost be termed

classic; "the venous blood, arrested by muscular contraction, increases

the general heat, and this stagnation, more pronounced in the brain by the

contraction of the muscles of the neck and the throwing of the head

backward, causes a momentary cerebral congestion, during which

intelligence is lost and the faculties abolished. The eyes, violently

injected, become haggard, and the look uncertain, or, in the majority of

cases, the eyes are closed spasmodically to avoid the contact of the

light. The respiration is hurried, sometimes interrupted, and may be

suspended by the spasmodic contraction of the larynx, and the air, for a

time compressed, is at last emitted in broken and meaningless words. The

congested nervous centers only communicate confused sensations and

volitions; mobility and sensation show extreme disorder; the limbs are

seized by convulsions and sometimes by cramps, or are thrown wildly about

or become stiff like iron bars. The jaws, tightly pressed, grind the

teeth, and in some persons the delirium is carried so far that they bite

to bleeding the shoulders their companions have imprudently abandoned to

them. This frantic state of epilepsy lasts but a short time, but it

suffices to exhaust the forces of the organism, especially in man. It is,

I believe, Galen, who said: 'Omne animal post coitum triste præter

mulierem gallumque.'"[107] Most of the elements that make up this typical

picture of the state of coitus are not absolutely essential to that state,

but they all come within the normal range of variation.

There can be no

doubt that this range is considerable. There would appear to be not only

individual, but also racial, differences; there is a remarkable passage in

Vatsyayana's _Kama Sutra_ describing the varying behavior of the women of

different races in India under the stress of sexual excitement--Dravidian

women with difficulty attaining erethism, women of the Punjaub fond of

being caressed with the tongue, women of Oude with impetuous desire and

profuse flow of mucus, etc.--and it is highly probable, Ploss and Bartels

remark, that these characterizations are founded on exact

observations.[108]

The various phenomena included in Roubaud's description of the condition

during coitus may all be directly or indirectly reduced to two groups: the

first circulatory and respiratory, the second motor. It is necessary to

consider both these aspects of the process of detumescence in somewhat

greater detail, although while it is most convenient to discuss them

separately, it must be borne in mind that they are not really separable;

the circulatory phenomena are in large measure a by-product of the

involuntary motor process.

With the approach of detumescence the respiration becomes shallow, rapid,

and to some extent arrested. This characteristic of the breathing during

sexual excitement is well recognized; so that in, for instance, the

_Arabian Nights_, it is commonly noted of women when gazing at beautiful

youths whose love they desired, that they ceased breathing.[109] It may be

added that exactly the same tendency to superficial and arrested

respiration takes place whenever there is any intense mental

concentration, as in severe intellectual work.[110]

The arrest of respiration tends to render the blood venous, and thus aids

in stimulating the vasomotor centers, raising the blood-pressure in the

body generally, and especially in the erectile tissues.

High

blood-pressure is one of the most marked features of the state of

detumescence. The heart beats are stronger and quicker, the surface

arteries are more visible, the conjunctivæ become red.

The precise degree

of blood-pressure attained during coitus has been most accurately

ascertained in the dog. In Bechterew's laboratory in St.

Petersburg a

manometer was introduced into the central end of the carotid artery of a

bitch; a male dog was then introduced, and during coitus observations were

made on the blood-pressure at the peripheral and central ends of the

artery. It was found that there was a great general elevation of

blood-pressure, intense hyperæmia of the brain, rapid alternations, during

the act, of vasoconstriction and vasodilatation of the brain, with

increase and diminution of the general arterial tension in relation with

the various phases of the act, the greatest cerebral vasodilatation and

hyperæmia coinciding with the moment following the intromission of the

penis; the end of the act is followed by a considerable fall in the

blood-pressure.[111] I am not acquainted with any precise observations on

the blood-pressure in human subjects during detumescence, and there are

obvious difficulties in the way of such observations. It is probable,

however, that the conditions found would be substantially the same. This

is indicated, so far as the very marked increase of blood-pressure is

concerned, by some observations made by Vaschide and Vurpas with the

sphygmanometer on a lady under the influence of sexual excitement. In this

case there was a relationship of sympathy and friendly tenderness between

the experimenter and the subject, Madame X, aged 25.

Experimenter and

subject talked sympathetically, and finally, we are told, while the latter

still had her hands in the sphygmanometer, the former almost made a

declaration of love. Madame X was greatly impressed, and afterward

admitted that her emotions had been genuine and strong.

The

blood-pressure, which was in this subject habitually 65

millimeters, rose

to 150 and even 160, indicating a very high pressure, which rarely occurs;

at the same time Madame X looked very emotional and troubled.[112]

Some authorities are of opinion that irregularities in the

accomplishment of the sexual act are specially liable to cause

disturbances in the circulation. Thus Kisch, of Prague, refers to

the case of a couple practising coitus interruptus--

the husband

withdrawing before ejaculation--in which the wife, a vigorous

woman, became liable after some years to attacks termed by Kisch

_neurasthenia cordis vasomotoria_, in which there was at daily or

longer intervals palpitation, with feelings of anxiety, headache,

dizziness, muscular weakness and tendency to faint.

He regards

coitus as a cause of various heart troubles in women: (1) Attacks

of tachycardia in very excitable and sexually inclined women; (2)

attacks of tachycardia with dyspnoea in young women, with

vaginismus; (3) cardiac symptoms with lowered vascular tone in

women who for a long time have practised coitus interruptus

without complete sexual gratification (Kisch,

"Herzbeschwerden

der Frauen verursacht durch den Cohabitationsact,"

_Münchener

Medizinisches Wochenschrift_, 1897, p. 617). In this connection,

also, reference may probably be made to those attacks of anxiety

which Freud associates with psychic sexual lesions of an

emotional character.

Associated with this vascular activity in detumescence we find a general

tendency to glandular activity. Various secretions are formed abundantly.

Perspiration is copious, and the ancient relationship between the

cutaneous and sexual systems seems to evoke a general activity of the skin

and its odoriferous secretions. Salivation, which also occurs, is very

conspicuous in many lower animals, as for instance in the donkey, notably

the female, who just before coitus stands with mouth open, jaws moving,

and saliva dribbling. In men, corresponding to the more copious secretion

in women, there is, during the latter stages of tumescence, a slight

secretion of mucus--Fürbringer's _urethrorrhoea ex libidine_--which

appears in drops at the urethral orifice. It comes from the small glands

of Littré and Cowper which open into the urethra. This phenomenon was well

known to the old theologians, who called it _distillatio_, and realized

its significance as at once distinct from semen and an indication that the

mind was dwelling on voluptuous images; it was also known in classic

times[113]; more recently it has often been confused with semen and has

thus sometimes caused needless anxiety to nervous persons. There is also

an increased secretion of urine, and it is probable that if the viscera

were more accessible to observation we might be able to demonstrate that

the glands throughout the body share in this increased activity.

The phenomena of detumescence culminate, however, and have their most

obvious manifestation in motor activity. The genital act, as Vaschide and

Vurpas remark, consists essentially in "a more and more marked tension of

the motor state which, reaching its maximum, presents a short tonic phase,

followed by a clonic phase, and terminates in a period of adynamia and

repose." This motor activity is of the essence of the impulse of

detumescence, because without it the sperm cells could not be brought into

the neighborhood of the germ cell and be propelled into the organic nest

which is assigned for their conjunction and incubation.

The motor activity is general as well as specifically sexual. There is a

general tendency to more or less involuntary movement, without any

increase of voluntary muscular power, which is, indeed, decreased, and

Vaschide and Vurpas state that dynamometric results are somewhat lower

than normal during sexual excitement, and the variations greater.[114] The

tendency to diffused activity of involuntary muscle is well illustrated by

the contraction of the bladder associated with detumescence. While this

occurs in both sexes, in men erection produces a mechanical impediment to

any evacuation of the bladder. In women there is not only a desire to

urinate but, occasionally, actual urination. Many quite healthy and normal

women have, as a rare accident supervening on the coincidence of an

unusually full bladder with an unusual degree of sexual excitement,

experienced a powerful and quite involuntary evacuation of the bladder at

the moment of orgasm. In women with less normal nervous systems this has,

more rarely, been almost habitual. Brantôme has perhaps recorded the

earliest case of this kind in referring to a lady he knew who "quand on

lui faisait cela elle se compissait à bon escient."[115]

The tendency to

trembling, constriction of throat, sneezing, emission of internal gas, and

the other similar phenomena occasionally associated with detumescence, are

likewise due to diffusion of the motor disturbance. Even in infancy the

motor signs of sexual excitement are the most obvious indications of

orgasm; thus West, describing masturbation in a child of six or nine

months who practiced thigh-rubbing, states that when sitting in her high

chair she would grasp the handles, stiffen herself, and stare, rubbing her

thighs quickly together several times, and then come to herself with a

sigh, tired, relaxed, and sweating, these seizures, which lasted one or

two minutes, being mistaken by the relations for epileptic fits.[116]

The essentially motor character of detumescence is well shown by

the extreme forms of erotic intoxication which sometimes appear

as the result of sexual excitement. Féré, who has especially

called attention to the various manifestations of this condition,

presents an instructive case of a man of neurotic heredity and

antecedents, in whom it occasionally happened that sexual

excitement, instead of culminating in the normal orgasm, attained

its climax in a fit of uncontrollable muscular excitement. He

would then sing, dance, gesticulate, roughly treat his partner,

break the objects around him, and finally sink down exhausted and

stupefied. (Féré, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, Chapter X.) In such a case

a diffused and general detumescence has taken the place of the

normal detumescence which has its main focus in the sexual

sphere.

The same relationship is shown in a case of impotence accompanied

by cramps in the calves and elsewhere, which has been recorded by

Brügelmann ("Zur Lehre vom Perversen Sexualismus,"

_Zeitschrift

für Hypnotismus_, 1900, Heft I). These muscular conditions ceased

for several days whenever coitus was effected.

An instructive analogy to the motor irradiations preceding the

moment of sexual detumescence may be found in the somewhat

similar motor irradiations which follow the delayed expulsion of

a highly distended bladder. These sometimes become very marked in

a child or young woman unable to control the motor system

absolutely. The legs are crossed, the foot swung, the thighs

tightly pressed together, the toes curled. The fingers are flexed

in rhythmic succession. The whole body slowly twists as though

the seat had become uncomfortable. It is difficult to concentrate

the mind; the same remark may be automatically repeated; the eyes

search restlessly, and there is a tendency to count surrounding

objects or patterns. When the extreme degree of tension is

reached it is only by executing a kind of dance that the

explosive contraction of the bladder is restrained.

The picture of muscular irradiation presented under these

circumstances differs but slightly from that of the onset of

detumescence. In one case the explosion is sought, in the other

case it is dreaded; but in both cases there is a retarded

muscular tension,--in the one case involuntary, in the other case

voluntary--maintained at a point of acute intensity, and in both

cases the muscular irradiations of this tension spread over the

whole body.

The increased motor irritability of the state of detumescence

somewhat resembles the conditions produced by a weak anæsthetic

and there is some interest in noting the sexual excitement liable

to occur in anæsthesia. I am indebted to Dr. J.F.W.

Silk for some

remarks on this point:--

"I. Sexual emotions may apparently be aroused during the stage of

excitement preceding or following the administration of any

anæsthetic; these emotions may take the form of mere delirious

utterances, or may be associated with what is apparently a sexual

orgasm. Or reflex phenomena connected with the sexual organs may

occasionally be observed under special circumstances; or, to put

it in another way, such reflex possibilities are not always

abolished by the condition of narcosis or anæsthesia.

"II. Of the particular anæsthetics employed I am inclined to

think that the possibility of such conditions arising is

inversely proportionate to their strength, e.g., they are more

frequently observed with a weak anæsthetic like nitrous oxide

than with chloroform.

"III. Sexual emotions I believe to be rarely observable in men,

and this is remarkable, or, I should say, particularly

noticeable, for the presence of nurses, female students, etc.,

might almost have led one to expect that the contrary would have

been the case. On the other hand, it is among men that I have

frequently observed a reflex phenomenon which has usually taken

the shape of an erection of the penis when the structures in the

neighborhood of the spermatic cord have been handled.

"IV. Among females the emotional sexual phenomena most frequently

obtrude themselves, and I believe that if it were possible to

induce people to relate their dreams they would very often be

found to be of a sexual character."

Much more important than the general motor phenomena, more purposive

though involuntary, are the specifically sexual muscular movements. From

the very beginning of detumescence, indeed, muscular activity makes itself

felt, and the peripheral muscles of sex act, according to Kobelt's

expression, as a peripheral sexual heart. In the male these movements are

fairly obvious and fairly simple. It is required that the semen should be

expressed from the vesiculæ seminales, propelled along the urethra, in

combination with the prostatic fluid which is equally essential, and

finally ejected with a certain amount of force from the urethral orifice.

Under the influence of the stimulation furnished by the contact and

friction of the vagina, this process is effectively carried out, mainly by

the rhythmic contractions of the bulbo-cavernosus muscle, and the semen is

emitted in a jet which may be ejaculated to a distance varying from a few

centimeters to a meter or more.

With regard to the details of the psychic sides of this process a

correspondent, a psychologist, writes as follows:--

"I have never noticed in my reading any attempt to analyze the

sensations which accompany the orgasm, and, as I have made a good

many attempts to make such an analysis myself, I will append the