Pros and Cons
Technology has made everything easy and more fun and similar is the case with dating. In the past, people used to spend their night out in search of their date but these days technology has provided a home solution to this search. You can just turn on your computer, connect to internet and meet hundreds of people online who are also looking for dates.
This process sounds and looks easy but once you get little deep into this online dating stuff then, you will know that there is nothing easy in this whole process. You have to struggle very hard to find some real dates from online dating websites.
This is obvious that you will face lots of scammers on internet because you never know that who is sitting on the other side of the screen but this does not mean that there are no actual people sitting online instead it is just a hard way to attract those people because of such huge competition. There are some advantages as well as some disadvantages of this online dating trend which I am going to describe in this chapter for you.
Less socializing
Online dating has made people very conservative in their approach and these days’ people are afraid to go out to meet someone in person. This trend has led to less socialized culture because people prefer to sit at homes and meet different kinds of people from different places who also share same interests.
Format Of Online Dating
If you observe the format of online dating then, you will know that it is very women friendly and there is not much in it for men. All the dating websites are designed for women where men come and interact with women and there is no website which has the opposite format.
This makes it very tough for the men to get the one whom they like. Every woman has thousands of winks, friend’s requests and emails while men are always busy in sending winks and friend requests and seldom have they got any response. This format has discouraged many men from trying online dating.
Advantages of online dating
Along with some disadvantages, there are some advantages of online dating as well and one of the most important is easy access to people. Online dating websites provide you an easy access to hundreds of people and you can look for the one who shares same interests with you and who has the same attitude and behavior as you have.
Online dating also allows many people who have not enough confidence of asking someone out in public, to share their feelings with people whom they want to attract. This boosts the confidence of such people and allows them to get a date which is almost impossible for them in real and social dating.
If you are not having any luck from your online dating experience and even after sending hundreds of tweaks, winks, emails and messages to different t people, you are not getting any response then, may be it is time for you to analyze your profile and make it more attractive.
Few attractive pictures of yours can do the trick and you can also get suggestions from some of your friends who have got decent looking profiles and who have met someone through online dating.
