(June 5, 2004)
When I was growing up, an awful lot of pressure was put on having premarital sex. I think it is even worse today among children and even adults. For what it s worth let me tell you that I regret having gotten involved in such practices. It is a totally selfish, immature and irresponsible act. The deception is that you are now mature because you are no longer an infant, you now have reproductive capabilities. But it is immature because you are not willing or prepared to take responsibility for the consequences of your actions. If you are conscious these actions will haunt you for the rest of your life. Things like possibly being the father of an aborted child but you were not there long enough to take care of the situation properly and to prevent the murder. Possibly being the father of an single parent child who may or may not have wondered or is still wondering who you are and may be looking for you. My child might have been orphaned. Or even to think that you were intimately involved with someone you did not care for or who did not care for you, how pitiful. And beside this you will be remembered as being immature, irresponsible and selfish and such were those with whom you committed those sins. Premarital sex deteriorates society and self.
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