Quest. CXXIII., CXXIV., CXXV., CXXVI., CXXVII., CXXVIII.
QUEST. CXXIII. Which is the fifth Commandment?
ANSW. The fifth Commandment is, Honour thy father and thy mother, that thy days may be long upon the land, which the Lord thy God giveth thee.
QUEST. CXXIV. Who are meant by father, and mother, in the fifth Commandment?
ANSW. By father and mother, in the fifth Commandment, are meant not only natural parents; but all the superiors in age, and gifts, and especially such as by GOD’s ordinance, are over us in place of authority, whether in family, church, or common-wealth.
QUEST. CXXV. Why are superiors styled, father and mother?
ANSW. Superiors are styled father and mother, both to teach them in all duties towards their inferiors, like natural parents, to express love and tenderness to them, according to their several relations, and to work inferiors to a greater willingness and cheerfulness in performing their duties to their superiors, as to their parents.
QUEST. CXXVI. What is the general scope of the fifth Commandment?
ANSW. The general scope of the fifth Commandment, is, the performance of those duties which we mutually owe in our several relations, as inferiors, superiors, or equals.
QUEST. CXXVII. What is the honour that inferiors owe to their superiors?
ANSW. The honour which inferiors owe to their superiors, is, all due reverence, in heart, word, and behaviour; prayer, and thanksgiving for them, imitation of their virtues and graces; willing obedience to their lawful commands, and counsels, due submission to their corrections, fidelity to, defence, and maintenance of their persons and authority, according to their several ranks, and the nature of their places; bearing with their infirmities, and covering them in love, that so they may be an honour to them and their government.
QUEST. CXXVIII. What are the sins of inferiors against their superiors?
ANSW. The sins of inferiors against their superiors, are, all neglect of the duties required towards them, envying at, contempt of, and rebellion against their persons, and places, in their lawful counsels, commands, and corrections, cursing, mocking, and all such refractory and scandalous carriage, as proves a shame and dishonour to them and their government.
In the fifth Commandment, no other relations are mentioned, but father and mother; yet it may be observed,
I. That, hereby, all superiors in general are intended; as many others are called fathers in scripture, besides our natural parents, viz.
1. Superiors in age. Thus it is said, Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father, and the younger men as brethren; the elder women as mothers, the younger as sisters, with all purity, 1 Tim. v. 1, 2.
2. They, are also called fathers, who are superior in gifts; and accordingly have been the first inventors of arts, which have been useful to the world. Thus Jabal is said to be the father of such as dwell in tents, and have cattle, Gen. iv. 20. that is, the first that made considerable improvements in the art of husbandry; and Jubal is said to be the father, that is, the instructor of all such as handle the harp and organ, ver. 21. or the first that made improvements in the art of music.
3. Persons to whom we owe, under God, our outward prosperity and happiness. In this sense Joseph, though a subject, a young man, and a little before, a prisoner, is called a father to Pharaoh, chap. xlv. 8. as he was an instrument to support his greatness, and preserve him from the inconveniences of a seven years famine.
4. Princes, great men, and heads of families, are called fathers. Thus Naaman was by his servants, 2 Kings v. 13.
5. Men of honour and usefulness in the church are so called. Thus when Elisha saw Elijah ascend into heaven, he cries out, My father, my father, the chariot of Israel, and the horsemen thereof, chap. ii. 12. And Joash, the king of Israel, used the same expression to Elisha, when fallen sick, chap. xiii. 14. And this is implied in the apostle’s styling those whom he had been of use to, for their conviction, and enlightening in the doctrines of the gospel, My little children, Gal. iv. 19.
6. Good kings and governors are called fathers. Thus it is said, Kings shall be thy nursing fathers, and queens thy nursing mothers, Isa. xlix. 23.
II. We have an account, in one of the answers we are explaining, of the reason why superiors are styled father and mother; namely, to denote, that they should behave towards their inferiors, with that love and tenderness, as though they were natural parents. Authority is not only consistent herewith, but it ought to be exercised, by superiors towards inferiors, in such a way. Thus Job, when in his prosperity, was, as it were, a common father to all that were under him; accordingly he says, I delivered the poor that cried, and the fatherless, and him that had none to help him, Job xxix. 12. upon which occasion he says, I was a father to the poor, ver. 16. And ministers, who, in some respects, are superior in office to others; when their reproofs are mixed with tenderness and compassion towards the souls of men under their care, are compared to the nurse that cherished her children; as being affectionately desirous, and willing to impart to them, not the gospel of God only, but also their own souls, as being dear to them, 1 Thess. ii. 7, 8.
III. We have, in another of the answers under our consideration, an account of the general scope of the fifth Commandment; and, as it requires the duties to be performed by every one in their several relations; these are considered either as superiors, inferiors, or equals. There are several sorts of relations wherein persons are styled superior or inferior to one another.
1. Such as are founded in nature; as that of parents and children.
2. There are such relations as are political, designed for the good of mankind, living together as members of the same common-wealth, in which every one has a right to his civil liberties, which are to be enjoyed by one, and defended by the other; of this sort is the relation of magistrates and subjects.
3. There is a relation founded in mutual compact and agreement, respecting things to be done, on the one side, and gratifications to be allowed, on the other; of this kind is the relation between master and servant. The only difficulty that arises from the account we have of the obligation of persons to give honour to others, respects superiors honouring inferiors. For the understanding of which, let it be considered,
(1.) That superiors are not obliged to shew the same marks of honour to their inferiors, as inferiors are bound, by the laws of God and nature, to express to them. Nevertheless,
(2.) There is a duty which the greatest owe to the least; and there is also a degree of honour, which the lowest of men, as reasonable creatures, or Christians, have put upon them by God; and this is to be regarded by those who are, as to their condition in the world, superior to them.
(3.) The meanest and lowest part of mankind, are, in many respects, necessary and useful to those who are much their superiors; and are to be regarded by them in proportion thereto. And the performing the duties which such owe to them, is called an honouring them.
IV. We have, in another of the answers we are explaining, an account of the honour which inferiors owe to their superiors. Here it will be necessary for us to premise some things concerning the measure of submission and obedience which inferiors owe to superiors, of what kind soever the relation be. As,
1. When the authority God has invested superiors with, is abused, and the highest end of all sort of government, to wit, the glory of God, and the good of mankind, can never be attained, nor is, indeed, designed; or when the commands of superiors contradict the commands of God, we are to obey him rather than men, Acts iv. 19.
2. If we cannot obey the commands of superiors, as being unjust, we must pray that God would interpose, direct, and over-rule their authority, that it may not be abused by them; or become a snare, or an occasion of sin, to us.
3. Though we cannot yield obedience to them, in those things that are contrary to the laws of God, this does not discharge us from our obligation to obey their commands, in other things, agreeable thereunto; since we are not to suppose that the abuse of their authority in some instances, divests them of it in all respects.
V. We shall now proceed to consider the duties which inferiors owe to their superiors. And,
1. That of children to parents. This is founded on the law of nature, as under God, they derive their being from them; and they are obliged thereunto, from a sense of gratitude for that love, tenderness, and compassion which they have shewn to them. Therefore the apostle says, that this is right, Eph. vi. 1. that is, equitable, and highly reasonable; and elsewhere, that it is well-pleasing unto the Lord, Col. iii. 20. This duty includes in it several things.
(1.) They are sometimes to shew the regard they have to them by outward tokens of respect. Thus Solomon, though his character, as a king, rendered him superior to all his subjects; yet he expressed a great deal of honour by outward gestures to his mother; when she went to him to speak in the behalf of Adonijah: it is said, that ‘the king rose up to meet her, and bowed himself unto her, and sat down on his throne, and caused a seat to be set for the king’s mother; and she sat on his right hand,’ 1 Kings ii. 19.
(2.) They ought to be ready to do them any acts of service, which are not unlawful or impossible, when commanded by them. Thus Joseph obeyed Jacob, when he sent him to see where his brethren were, and what they were engaged in, Gen. xxxvii. 13. and David obeyed Jesse, when he sent him to his brethren to the camp of Israel, 1 Sam. xvii. 17, 20. This service is required more especially of them, while they live with their parents, are maintained by them, and not, by mutual compact, become servants to others.
(3.) Another duty which they owe, is, patient submission to their just reproofs, design for their good. Thus the apostle says, ‘We have had fathers of our flesh, which corrected us; and we gave them reverence,’ Heb. xii. 9.
(4.) They are to attend to, and comply with, their wholesome advice and instruction. Thus it is said, A wise son heareth his father’s instruction, Prov. xiii. 1. and, on the other hand, he is branded with the character of a fool who despiseth it, chap. xv. 5. and it is farther added, He that regardeth reproof is prudent.
(5.) Children are to express their duty to their parents, by a thankful acknowledgment of past favours; and accordingly ought to relieve them, if they are able, when their indigent circumstances call for it; and endeavour to be a staff, comfort, and support to them, in their old age. This is contained in the message which Joseph sent to Jacob, when he invited him to come down to him into Egypt, Gen. xlv. 9,-11. So when Ruth bare a son to Boaz, her mother Naomi’s companions blessed her, and said, He shall be unto thee a restorer of thy life, and a nourisher of thine old age, Ruth iv. 15.
(6.) Children are to pay deference to, and, so far as it concerns the glory of God, and their own future good, be advised, by their parents, in disposing of themselves in marriage, or any other important change of their condition and circumstances in the world. Herein they acknowledge their authority as superiors, and the care and concern which it is supposed they naturally have for their welfare, as a part of themselves. Moreover, by this they pay a deference to their wisdom and judgment, as being superior in age, and probably, in wisdom, as well as relation. And this ought to be done out of a sense of gratitude for past favours received; and prudence will, for the most part, dictate as much, especially when they depend on them for present, or expect future advantages from them. This is also an expedient to maintain love and peace in families, which is oftentimes broken by the contrary practice. And it may be farther recommended, from the laudable examples hereof in good men; as Isaac, who submitted to the direction of his father Abraham herein; and Jacob, Gen. xxiv. who was determined by the consent of Laban, chap. xxix. Many more instances might be given to the same purpose. And, on the other hand, Esau’s contrary practice hereunto is recorded in scripture, as a vile instance of disobedience; which was a grief of mind unto Isaac and to Rebekah, chap. xxvi. 35. And it was, doubtless, an argument that he had no regard to God or religion.
Nevertheless, this obligation is not without some exceptions; for,
[1.] We do not speak of parents that are so far deprived of judgment, that they are not fit to determine this matter; nor,
[2.] Such as have divested themselves of the natural affection of parents, and entertaining an ungrounded prejudice against some of their children, are endeavouring to expose them to ruin, that they may shew more kindness to others. These forfeit that right, which is otherwise founded in nature.
[3.] If parents, by refusing to comply with the desire of their children, plainly, in the judgment of the wisest of men, obstruct their happiness, and the glory of God herein. Or, if they have no reason for their not complying, or the reason given is contrary to the laws of God, or the common sense of all impartial judges; especially if the affair took its first rise from them, and afterwards they changed their mind, without sufficient ground. This, without doubt, lessens, or it may be so circumstanced, that it wholly takes away the charge of sin in the child, in acting contrary to the will of his parents, and fastens the guilt on them.
[4.] The case is vastly different, when applied to children who are so far from being dependent on their parents, that they depend on them. Nevertheless, in this case, some deference and respect ought to be paid to them; and as it is the children’s duty, it may be their interest so to do; since we can hardly suppose, that parents, who depend on their children, would oppose their happiness, in an affair that is apparently contrary to their own interest, if they did not think that they had sufficient reason for it; which ought to be duly weighed, that it may be known, whether their advice is expedient to be complied with, or no. And if in this, or any other instance, children are obliged to act contrary to the will of their parents; they ought to satisfy them, that it is not out of contempt to their authority, but a conscientious regard to the glory of God; and that it is conducive to their happiness, in the opinion of the wisest and best of men.
2. We shall now consider the duty of servants to their masters. This depends upon, and is limited by the contract, which first brought them into that relation, the not fulfilling whereof, renders them guilty of unfaithfulness. And it is no less an instance of immorality, for them to rob them of that time, which they have engaged to serve, than it is to take away any part of their estate. But more particularly,
(1.) Servants ought to behave themselves, in their calling, with industry, being as much concerned for their masters interest as their own. Thus Joseph, though a foreigner, and one who does not appear to have expected any reward for his service, but a maintenance, served Potiphar. In the like manner Jacob served Laban, though an unjust, severe and unrighteous master. This may lead us to enquire concerning the duty of servants, when their masters are froward, passionate, and unreasonable in their demands, which renders their service very irksome and unpleasant; but let it be considered in this case,
[1.] That, the master’s passion, which is his sin, ought not to draw forth the corruption of his servant; for, sin indulged by one, is no excuse for its being committed by another. The apostle Peter supposes the case under our present consideration, and gives this advice; Servants be subject to your masters with all fear; not only to the good and gentle, but also to the froward, 1 Pet. ii. 18.
[2.] If the master’s demands are unreasonable, the servant must know the extent of his contract and obligation, which he must, in justice, fulfil as unto Christ, Eph. vi. 5,-8. And, as for those services that are reckoned unreasonable, and not agreeable to the contract. These, if demanded, are rather to be referred to the determination of others, since persons are apt to be partial in judging in their own cause.
There seems, indeed, to be an exception to this, in some instances, which we find in scripture, of the unlimited obedience of servants under the ceremonial law, which was not founded in, nor the result of any contract between their masters and them; accordingly we read, that persons became servants,
1st, Through poverty; by reason of which, they sold themselves for the payment of debts. In this case there was a kind of contract, indeed; and the service to be performed ought, (pursuant to the law of God and nature,) to have been agreeable to, and adjusted by the value of the debt contracted.
2d, Prisoners taken in war, were treated as servants, and, as such, sold to others. In this case, all the children that were born to them, during their servitude, were the property of the master; and these are called home-born servants, who had not so much liberty allowed them as when they were servants by mutual compact, as is most common among us; in which case both parties are bound by this agreement.
3. We proceed to consider the duty of the members of a common-wealth, or body-politic, to their lawful magistrates, as the apostle says, Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers, Rom. xiii. 1. Here we may observe,
(1.) The necessity and the end of civil government. This will appear, if we consider mankind in general, as prone to be influenced by those passions, which are not entirely under the conduct of reason, and, if no check were given to them, would prove injurious to societies. We may also observe, that God has, in his law, ordained certain punishments to be inflicted, with a design to restrain those corruptions, and to keep the world in order. And that this end may more effectually be answered, it is necessary, that some should be set over others, to administer justice, in chastising the guilty, and defending the innocent; otherwise the world would be filled with confusion, and men would commit sin with impunity; and more resemble brute creatures than those that are endowed with reason, and as such, capable of moral government; as it is said when there was no king in Israel, every man did that which was right in his own eyes, Judges xxi. 25.
We proceed now to consider the advantage of civil government. It is in itself a blessing to mankind, when it does not degenerate into tyranny. So that good magistrates are a great instance of divine favour to a nation; as the queen of Sheba said to Solomon, Happy are thy men, and happy are these thy servants which stand continually before thee, and hear thy wisdom. Blessed be the Lord thy God, which delighted in thee, to set thee on his throne, to be king for the Lord thy God. Because thy God loved Israel, to establish them for ever, therefore made he thee king over them, to do judgment and justice, 2 Chron. ix. 7, 8. And it is included among the blessings of the gospel-state, that kings should be their nursing fathers, and their queens their nursing mothers, Isa. xlix. 23. Such are said, as David was, to be raised up, to fulfil the will of God, Acts xiii. 22.
Nevertheless, civil government may be so administered, that it may cease to be a blessing to the subjects. Thus Samuel describes the miserable estate of a people, whose kings endeavour to establish their own greatness by enslaving and plundering their subjects taking their sons and daughters by force, to be their servants; seizing their fields, their vineyards and olive-yards, and the tenth of their increase; which would oblige them to cry unto the Lord, because of their oppression, 1 Sam. viii. 11,-18. And we have an instance of this in Rehoboam, who was herein as remarkable for his want of conduct, as his father was for his excelling wisdom. His rough and ill-timed answer to his subjects, in which gave them to expect nothing else but oppression and slavery, issued in the revolt of the ten tribes from his government, 1 Kings xii. 13, 14.
From this different method of the administration of civil government, whereby it rendered either a blessing or an affliction to the subjects; we may infer,
[1.] That when that which is in itself a blessing, is turned into a curse, this may be looked upon as a punishment inflicted by God, for the iniquity of a people. Thus he says, I gave thee a king in mine anger, and took him away in wrath, Hosea xiii. 11.
[2.] We have great reason to be well-pleased with, and to bless God for the government we are under, as not being exposed to the slavery that some other nations are; who have no laws, but what result from the arbitrary will of their prince; and who can call nothing they have their own. This should make us prize the liberties we enjoy; and be a strong motive to us to give due and cheerful obedience to our rightful and lawful sovereign, and all magistrates under him, who rule in righteousness, and are a terror to evil doers, but a praise to them that do well.
[3.] This affords matter of reproof to the restless tempers of those, who are under the mildest government; which is administered beyond all reasonable exception, our enemies themselves being judges, who would confess the same, were they not blinded with prejudice; which puts them upon betaking themselves to railery, instead of better arguments. These are reproved by the apostle, who speaks of some that walk after the flesh, in the lust of uncleanness, and despise government. Presumptuous are they, self-willed, they are not afraid to speak evil, even of dignities, 2 Pet. ii. 10. This leads us
To consider the honour that subjects owe to their lawful magistrates. Accordingly,
1st, They are highly to resent, and endeavour, in their several stations and capacities, to check the insolence of those who make bold with the character, and take the liberty to reproach their magistrates in common conversation; which is directly contrary to the law of God; that says, Curse not the king, no, not in thy thought, and curse not the rich in thy bed-chamber. For a bird of the air shall carry the voice; and that which hath wings shall tell the matter, Eccles. x. 20.
2dly, We are to support the honour of government, by paying those tributes which are lawfully exacted. Thus the apostle says, Render to all their due; tribute to whom tribute is due, custom to whom custom, fear to whom fear, honour to whom honour, Rom. xiii. 7.
3dly, We are to pray for a blessing from God, on the administration of our civil governors, that it may be under the divine direction, and tend to answer the great ends of government, viz. the glory of God, and the welfare of the subject. And here I cannot but observe, that no one on earth has a power of discharging subjects from their obedience to their lawful governors, who endeavour to rule them according to the laws of God and nature, and those fundamental constitutions that are agreeable thereto. Therefore it is a most detestable position advanced by the Papists, that the pope has a power to excommunicate and depose sovereign princes; though it does not appear that he has received any such authority from Christ, but herein intermeddles with a province that does not belong to him. For princes do not receive their crowns from him; and therefore are not to be deposed by him. In opposition hereunto, it may be alleged,
1st, That this is directly contrary to the temper of the blessed Jesus, and of the apostles, and primitive Christians; who did not encourage their followers to depose Heathen kings and emperors; but on the other hand, exhorted them to submit to them in all things, consistent with the glory of God, and the good of mankind; not only for wrath, but for conscience sake, ver. 5.
2dly, The church has no temporal sword committed to her, all its censures being spiritual. Temporal punishments are left in the hands of the civil magistrate; concerning whom, the apostle says, that he is the minister of God to thee for good. But if thou do that which is evil, be afraid; for he beareth not the sword in vain; for he is the minister of God, a revenger to execute wrath upon him that doth evil, ver. 4. On the other hand, when speaking concerning those, who have the government of ecclesiastical matters committed to them, he says, The weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God, to the pulling down of strong holds, 2 Cor. x. 24.
The arguments generally used by the Papists, to support the cause of rebellion, and their usurped power to depose magistrates, who are not of their communion, are very weak, and most of them, such as may easily be answered; as,
1. When they allege the commission given by Christ, to Peter, Feed my sheep, John xxi. 17. They pretend, that to feed, is the same as to govern; and that this implies a power of punishing; which they suppose to be so far extended, as that the bishop of Rome may depose sovereign princes, as occasion offers; and that this power was given to Peter and his successors, which the popes of Rome pretend to be.
But to this it may be replied; that this commission given by Christ to Peter, to feed his sheep, imports his feeding them with knowledge and understanding, and not lording it over God’s heritage. Thus our Saviour says, The kings of the Gentiles exercise lordship over them; and they that exercise authority over them, are called benefactors. But ye shall not be so; but he that is greatest among you, let him be as the younger; and he that is chief as he that doth serve, Luke xxii. 25, 26. Moreover, their pretence that the bishops of Rome are Peter’s successors, contains a claim of what they have not the least shadow of right to; and is, indeed, to place them in Peter’s chair, who are the greatest opposers of his doctrine.
2. Another argument they bring, tending to overthrow the power of the civil magistrate, is, that, as the soul is more excellent than the body, and its welfare to be preferred in proportion thereunto; so the church is to take care of the spiritual concerns of mankind, to which all temporal concerns are to give place; therefore its power is greater than that of the civil magistrate.
Answ. To this it may be replied; that this similitude does not prove the thing for which it is brought; and though it be allowed, that the soul is more excellent than the body; yet its welfare is not to be secured by inflicting corporal punishments, such as persecutions and massacres; which, to abate and encourage, is to cast a reproach on religion; and it will tend very much to weaken the interest of Christ in the world.
Moreover, the magistrate is ordained by God, to defend the religious as well as civil liberties of his subjects; which is included in the apostle’s exhortation; let prayers be made for kings and for all in authority; that we may lead a peaceable and quiet life in all godliness and honesty, 1 Tim. ii. 2. and elsewhere we are exhorted, to submit to governors, as unto them who are sent by the Lord, for the punishment of evil doers, and for the praise of them that do well, 1 Pet. ii. 14.
3. There is another argument which they make use of, taken from Azariah the priest’s opposing king Uzziah, for intruding himself into the priest’s office, in burning incense in the temple. Thus it is said, in 1 Chron. xxvi. 16-18. that ‘when he was strong, his heart was lifted up to his destruction. For he transgressed against the Lord his God, and went into the temple of the Lord, to burn incense upon the altar of incense. And Azariah the priest went in after him, and with him four-score priests of the Lord, that were valiant men. And they withstood Uzziah the king, and said unto him, It appertaineth not unto thee, Uzziah, to burn incense unto the Lord, but to the priests the sons of Aaron, that are consecrated to burn incense. Go out of the sanctuary, for thou hast trespassed, neither shall it be for thine honour from the Lord God.’ To support their argument, taken from this scripture, they observe, that the priests, who went in with Azariah, are said to be valiant men, and so ready to commit any hostilities against the king. Azariah also threatens him, when he tells him, It should not be for his honour; and peremptorily commands him, to be gone out of the temple. This they suppose, is a flagrant instance of the power of the church over the civil magistrate, in all those things that interfere with what is sacred.
But to this it may be replied;
(1st,) That Uzziah’s sin, according to the law of that dispensation, was very great, and against an express command o