Gerry’s Online Dating Guide for the Lonely by Gerry - HTML preview

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Tips for the Chat Room

Online dating is a great way to meet new people without having to face the bar scene. Chat rooms are one way that you can talk to someone new and exciting so that you can determine if you want to date them in the real world. You can enjoy some good conversation in a chat room without having to worry about dressing up to make a good first impression. You first impression will rely totally on how you present yourself online through the words that you type. There are, however, some things that you need to know so that you stay safe in the chat room and don’t start agreeing to meet the wrong type of people in the real world.

You need to protect your identity at all times. If you’re going to provide an email address for further contact with someone make sure that you don’t give them your personal or work email address. Set up an email account that you use only for chatting online such as Hotmail, Yahoo, or Gmail. If you’re going to put personal information in your online profile make sure that you only include information that people can use to learn enough about you to be interested in more conversation. This can include your age, your gender, and your interests. Never include information about where you live.

Try to be honest when you’re chatting with people online. This is particularly true if you’re chatting online to find a potential date. If you start to lie about how you look, what you do, your interests, or any other personal information, you’ll be setting yourself up for a fall if you decide to meet this person offline. You expect honesty from those people you’re talking to so give them the same courtesy.

Don’t expect too much from the people you meet in a chat room. You have no idea what they are really like so it’s best not to arrange an offline date after the first chat. Agree to meet online a few more times for online internet chatting before you agree to meet in a public place. If you’re going to be exchanging photos with someone that you meet online try to use a current photo so that the other person has a good idea of what you really look like

Your Online Profile

You want your online profile to be a great as possible so that your online dating experience is as positive and successful as it can be. One way that you can improve the communication that you get from potential dates is by stating clearly and precisely what it is that you’re looking for. If you’ll only date people who are three years older or younger than you, you need to be clear about this condition in your profile. If you say that you “want to meet new people” you’ll most likely be flooded with interested people from all around the world. You need to be clear about what it is that you want from a date.

Your subject line should be used as a filter. When you put certain specifics into your subject line you narrow down the type of people who want to respond to your online ad. Be exact about only dating men who have no facial hair if this is important to you. And if you’re a man who will only date slim women you should try to include something about this condition in your subject line whether or not it seems shallow or not. Why leave yourself open to dating all types of people if there are some who you’re just not interested in?

Let people know what actions you’ll take if they are interested in you. For instance, if you want people to email you for further communication make this clear to them when you respond to their introductory email to you. Most online dating sites will have a chat room so that you can “chat” with people who are interested in you before you agree to a real date. When you’re communicating with people try to use grammar that is correct and not offensive. Don’t start calling someone “sexy” or “baby” since this can leave a bad first impression and never get you that first date. Use their real name that they give you or the name that they use in their profile.

Always be respectful of anyone you meet online whether you’re meeting in real life or communicating with them online. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that since this is an online thing that you can lose this respect through anonymity. Remember that anyone who shows an interest in you is a potential date that could lead to a long term relationship.

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