Don’t be afraid to share insecurities or ask the questions you want to ask. Communication should be open. Who better, but your boyfriend/girlfriend, to answer your questions or give you reassurance about any insecurity you may have about your relationship. People come to us all the time asking usif we think that their partner is cheating, or asking us what we think their partner is thinking. We can only make guesses, or give you a couple possibilities, but only they can give you the real answers and give you more reassurance than we ever could.