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An architect knows that even the best building blueprint will fail if he does not build on a firm foundation. Our goal is not just a lasting marriage but a blissful marriage. We want a truly happy marriage. For a truly happy marriage, you need a strong, unshakable foundation. That foundation is found in your two hearts and minds. The good news is that each of you has power over your own heart and mind to create the strong foundation you need to be happy. These six values are the key ingredients to your unshakable foundation.
Value 1) It Takes Two – Starting with Me
Sometimes you will have to be the leader and take the first step in your relationship. After an argument, for instance, don’t wait for him or her to be the first to calm down and apologize and admit that they were being stubborn. Instead, be the leader and be the first to reach out to the other person. Take responsibility for your relationship and hopefully the other person will follow your lead. But whatever they do, it is not your job to manage their behavior. You should9
