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Chapter 5:

Be Careful Of Actions And Behaviors

 

Synopsis

Actions and behavioral patterns expressed within a relationship, definitely dictate in some way the kind of feelings evident from both parties, and this is usually a good indication of the strength of love and commitment. Being careful in how these actions are played out and interpreted is important if the individual is keen on keeping the relationship alive and strong.

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Be Cautious

There are several documented materials compiled that clearly show the actual level these actions and behaviors shown can affect the relationship, therefore a lot of thought should ideally go into any such displays before they are actually acted out.

Both parties should take the trouble to ensure all actions and behaviors are carefully expressed as once these actions or behaviors are exercised, the negative impact that it can depict will almost always be hard to justify or erase.

In some more severe cases, such actions and behaviors may even cause destruction within the relationship and the eventual ending of the said relationship.

This is especially true when such displays are done in a very public manner for the others to witness. The embarrassment felt, would in all probability not be justifiable enough for the receiving party to forgive or forget.

Women are much more sensitive to actions and behaviors that depict them in a poor light, thus making such displays almost unacceptable for them.

Being able to behave well and show some level of maturity and consideration is usually what most people would want extended to them, and in doing so all parties will be able to comfortable respect each other’s boundaries of tolerance.

Men too don’t respond well to being publically corrected or talked “down” to, thus their partners should learn the vital lesson of keeping such actions and behaviors to the confines of their own private space.