If you don't like the Fruits
you are growing,
then change the Seeds
you are sowing.
There's a farmer who has sown tomato seeds in his field hoping that mango trees will grow out of them. And now, when the field is filled with ripened tomatoes, the farmer complains as to why he didn't get mangoes. Are you able to spot the foolishness of the farmer?
The same thing happens in life. You reap what you sow. If you don't like what life is giving you, change what you are giving to life. If you find something missing in your life and you don't know why it is so; introspect on what you are doing and try doing it some other way.