When I told my friends that I wanted to be 'wanted', they were confused. Hope you aren't confused too.
I'm not talking about being wanted by the police but being wanted for your talent. Make yourself so valuable that people will pay anything for you to be with them. As I said earlier, be so valuable that if you had to move out of the neigbourhood, men and women would weep because of your departure.
The only way to be wanted is to work hard on your gift, on your talent and be the best there is. Be a real contributor to your age, don't just exist. Prepare yourself and doors will open for you everywhere.