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Chapter 8
Overcome Your Fear of Criticism and Feedback, Gain the Power to Succeed
It happens in different ways, but appears throughout your life and throughout life’s various aspects. At home as a child, your mother asks you to wash the windows again because there are several spots you missed. In adult life, your wife mentions that she wishes you were more confident speaking in front of people and participating in group conversations with friends. At work, you receive a never-ending stream of feedback from your boss – and never is it without criticisms. Even though each stage and type is different they all bring out the same feelings and reactions in you.
You feel sad, angry, and frustrated. There’s a part of you that recognizes that the comments are intended to make improvements – but instead of challenging you or making you want to work harder, they just make you feel small and incapable. Why do people need to criticize you incessantly? Are you really that bad?
Exploring the Fear of Criticism and Feedback
Fact of the matter is, feedback and criticism are a part of our lives and they do come from all sides. And while, yes, some comments are not exactly welcome and at times may not be polite, most of the feedback you receive is intended to help everyone and the overall outcomes and the criticism is likely constructive criticism.
At the root of it, no one likes being told what they can’t do or that they aren’t good at something – however, many times, if you listen, this is not what people are truly saying; people who have a fear of criticism and feedback have a tendency to hear the worst in statements, rather than the constructive feedback that is most often being provided.
People who have a fear of criticism and feedback often display the following behaviors or experience thoughts such as:
Overcoming Your Fear of Criticism and Feedback
Overcoming a fear of feedback or a fear of criticism is often a bit of an inner struggle because, rather than fighting a chemically caused reaction or feeling, sufferers often must battle their own nature and deeply rooted thoughts and behaviors. Recognizing the fear in and of itself can be tricky, as this fear isn’t necessarily experienced in the form of sweaty palms or nausea (thought physical symptoms can certainly accompany emotional reactions), but rather in feelings.
However, there is strong reason to overcome it and move past the fear because feedback is a necessary component to our improvement and growth. Often times, it is how people receive and respond to feedback in the workplace that furthers their position and opens new doors and opportunities – without overcoming a fear of feedback, you may be missing out on opportunities you didn’t even know existed.
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