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Chapter 14

Social roles for a successful life

Having a great friend circle and socializing with people is a great way to propel your life ahead. It’s not always that we come across people whom we get on well with. However, having an active social life is great way to keep you boosted up. Spending time with people not only makes your moods uplifted, but it also enhances your emotional well being, personality and manners. The key point to understand here is that one should not only make a lot of friends, but rather, be friends with those people who are open minded and ambitious. Such positive people tend to have a lot of positive influence in your life.

 

However, while making social connections, it is important that we realize some social habits that would be toxic for our social relations and should be best avoided. In this regard, some of the following tips should be implemented while socializing with open minded social circle:

 

  1. Talk about motivation and passion of others:

 

A good social asset for all times is to talk about the social assets of others as much as you can. This would make you find out what inspires them and how they tend to be so intrinsically motivated. You can discuss their passions and ask them why they are so attracted towards them. As you get better at this skill, you will realize that at times, you can even discover somebody’s hidden potentials that even they are unaware of.

 

  1. Don’t whine:

 

Whining is a major push-away. It’s a highly negative sign, a red alert for those whom you socialize with. Moreover, it makes your social circle dislike you. So get away from this whining habit. Even though you might think that you don’t really whine,