How Soul Codestm Changed One Woman’s Life
A young woman by the name of Becky asked me for a Soul Codestm reading for a difficult relationship. She had been dating a young man who expressed strong interest in her but would not give her any kind of commitment.
The more Becky pressured, the more he withdrew. Because of this, many of her loved ones and friends suggested leaving. However, Becky was finding this a very difficult choice to make.
We cast a complete Soul Codestm Reading for Becky so we could look at the way things were positioned for her on her soul’s blueprint.
We came to learn that Becky was motivated by a strong need for security and stability. She expected it in the form of her relationship to her significant partner. When he didn’t fill that expectation, she began to feel uncertain and anxious, which led her to put pressure on the relationship, trying to get her needs met.
Then we did a very high level Soul Codestm Reading on her love interest. While I cannot do a complete reading without an individual’s permission, we can access basic information about a soul’s energy flow and astrological influences as it directly pertains to you and how they affect you.
It became clear to us through Soul Codes™ that this young man had been triggered to repel long-term commitments by a previously abusive relationship. This past appeared to cause a great deal of constriction over his sense of freedom and self-expression.
As a result of this past experience, Becky’s love interest couldn’t commit to a relationship until he healed his underlying fear over the loss of his freedom and identity.
Soul Codestm showed us that he preferred his freedom and required a longer amount of time to heal from life situations that challenged his confidence or sense of self than average.
However, Becky wasn’t ready to make a decision about the relationship until she received deeper guidance about why she attracted this particular man into her life.
We took this request back to her guides in the Akashic & we discovered the reason he came into her life.
We discovered something astonishing
Her love interest was attracted to her in order to teach her to find security in herself rather than looking for it outside herself. Security and stability in another person isn’t guaranteed, but when we find that sense of stability and security in our own core sense of our soul, we can operate on a higher level of self-actualization.
One of Becky’s Major Life Challenges was to find a strong sense of self-love, appreciation and security within. Once she met that life challenge, she would no longer go looking for it in relationship with others. She will become more grounded and more certain about what she wanted out of a life partner.
Becky was able see how their relationship was influenced by her own life challenge from Soul Codestm.
She began to realize she could either learn to satisfy her needs on her own by facing this life challenge, or she could choose to find a mate more well-suited to supporting her.
With a soul reconnection session and a few tools I provided to support her healing and growth, Becky faced this challenge with grace.
Becky was surprised to discover that she was able to give herself the security and stability that she once believed she needed someone else to give her.
Soon Becky and her love interest began to enjoy a natural relationship for what it was, an opportunity for mutual self-discovery. Their relationship continues to blossom today as they discover more about themselves and one another.
Not all relationship choices end up being this positive of an outcome. However, I find that it is amazing how Soul Codestm offers my clients the clarity they need to make empowered life choices.
Soul Codestm gives you the ability to change, to influence and to understand your interactions from a higher perspective.