The Secret of Dating a Girl in 5 Minutes by Zoey_Jenson - HTML preview

 Chapter 07

“The First Impression Is a Lasting Impression”

 Synopsis

• Be Aware of Your Body Language
• Keep Some Secrets of Your Personality And Reveal Slowly
• Take Control of Your Date
• Be Funny and Have Fun

If you are looking for shortcuts to  impress a girl, you are  wasting your time. They may be attracted to you, but are  unlikely to fall at your feet without some effort on your part.  However, first impressions do count and if you make a poor  first impression you will have to work all the harder to change  it.

Be Aware of Your Body Language

Be self-aware and know what your body language is saying  about you. It is possible for a girl to tell a lot about you from  your body language, before you approach or speak to her.

Watching other people and thinking about what their body  language is saying to you, can help you to become more aware  of you come across.

Keep Some Secrets of Your Personality & Reveal Slowly

Getting to know each other takes time and we all tend to be on  our best behaviour until we know the person better. That is  OK, unless you are hiding a deep dark secret side to your  personality.

It is easy to make the excuse that you didn’t want to frighten her  off on the first date, but she may feel more aggrieved if she finds  out you have not been truthful with her from the start.

Take Control of Your Date

You have asked the girl out so you can expect to have some  control on what you do and where you go. The girl may well be  happy to sit back and let you take charge, but you take that for  granted at your peril.

You need to remember that you are both equal and you both  have a right to your own opinions. On the first date especially,  you are getting to know about each other, so there should not  really be any reason for debates, heated or otherwise. Steer the  conversation to keep it away from what could be controversial  subject until you know a bit more about each other.

Be Funny and Have Fun

If you have taken time to get to know each other as friends  before going on a date, you will probably find it is a lot easier to  be natural in each other company and you can relax and just  have fun.

If it is a blind date, or you haven’t had the chance to get to know  each other you will likely be more uptight. It is not the best  time to try out a new restaurant or venue you haven’t been to  before. The more familiar you both are with the surroundings  the easier it will be to concentrate on each other and relax.

Wrapping up

Asking a girl out requires some sensitivity and skill that will  come with practice. You are like to have some good and some  bad experiences. You need to learn from the good ones and put  the bad ones behind you so you can move on.

You should never let a bad experience dent your confidence  because that is the key to getting your next date. Girls are more  attracted to confident and assured males.

Not all girls are out for what they can get out of a relationship.  However, if you do meet one that is very material orientated  and start to date her, you will need deep pockets to keep the  relationship going. Unless you run out of money, you may find  she is hard to break up with, or she may quickly move on when  she finds someone who can give her more. You need to decide  what type of girl you are looking for.

This eBook has been written to provide you with an insight into  how you can improve your ability to get dates. Unfortunately,  as human beings are all different and you will rarely find two  people who are immediately in tune with each other’s  personalities, you do need to build up some knowledge of the  girl before she is likely to go out with you. This EBook will help  to guide you in the right direction.

This eBook also attempts to give you an insight into the female  psyche, but as I am sure you often heard said, “Who can  understand a women’s mind”? The answer is probably not you,  but it can be fun trying. So why not have some fun?