The Secret To The Law Of Attraction In The Matter Of Appearance
Do you wake up, get a shower and wonder what you are going to wear? Do you spend more than an hour getting ready so you can look good when you go outside or are you one of these people who throw on whatever you can, not caring about the thoughts of others? Did you know that what you wear matters?
When others meet you for the very first time, how you appear to them tells them much about you. It also tells them if they want to be friends with you or move on. What you wear says many things about you and about who you desire to be?
Creating a positive initial impression with a clean and neat appearance is a very important part of meeting someone. Slobs do not attract people around them. It tells people that you have no desire for the regards of yourself or anyone else who you may come into contact with.
Remember that members of the opposite sex are attracted to those people who believe top of "food chain". This is metaphorically speaking, of course. Course no one is going this way if you cannot do things for yourself without assistance.
Appearance of Clothing
Clothes should be clean, neat and properly fitting so the image you present to others is one as if you care about yourself as well as your belongings and the people around you. It is rare to care about yourself and not others around you but it is quite easy to care for others and not yourself.
This does not mean you should spend a fortune on clothing, jewelry, make-up and anything else that would make you spend more than what is necessary. Plus you do not need to spend more than three hours getting all spruced up. Let the essence of yourself shine through without getting overly done. Even when you look like that, it can tell people that you are trying too hard.
Be yourself but look good doing it.
What kind of clothing should you wear? Ask for help.
If you do not know what your essence...remember that for most people, wearing jeans and sweatshirts or t-shirts are comfortable, every-day clothing. Much more comfortable than wearing dress clothes. You must understand that just because you choose comfortably clothing over dress clothing, does not mean you care less about yourself and how you appear to others.
If you are hesitant about the taste of your clothing, there are people out there who can help you. People can go to sales clerk, especially those in retail clothing, who are qualified to have a good eye for what does and does not look good on people. Most people do not know what looks good on them even though they think it does. A common misconception which is why it is always good to have a friend go shopping with you. A second opinion is always best when buying clothing. With sales clerks, they know if they help their customers buy nice clothing, that the customer is likely to come back.
You must remember that a second impression never happens and that first impression is everything. If you make a negative impression from the get-go, it can be very damaging. Try to look your best even if you run out to get something from the grocery store. If you put your best foot forward, you are likely to be remembered for someone who takes pride in themselves.