Being dependent
There are times in our life when we do need assistance, and on those occasions, it is necessary to accept it. However; it should not become a habit, as it is better you learn to do as much as possible by yourself. As you continue to pay attention to what is taking place around you; new approaches are developed and the tasks that looked difficult become easier to accomplish.
Independent and decisive
Making independent decisions, is a skill that develops over time. Begin practising with general everyday decisions and as you become more comfortable with the result and experience, you can then move on to more difficult and complex decisions.