HOW TO REMAIN SEXY AFTER SIXTY.
How you conducted your sexual life in your 30s or 40s goes to make your sexual life at 60s and above.
Men who were committed to business and profession and never found time to indulge much in sex, except of course with their partner occasionally, are people, who may lose interest in sex or may not be very active sexually when older. Women too, with their entire life committed to their family and home, may not have been very active sexually.
Very few people are sexually happy and satisfied, but they may not want to share this secret with you. Perhaps they do not know the meaning of a satisfactory sex life. For them an occasional sex, with their partner is all they felt were normal.
Amongst most people, pleasing each other’s partner is all they have learnt about having sex. Having sex is routine, a compulsion, or one of the commitments in a relationship. It remains unimportant, if one or both the partners enjoyed those moments.
As you grow older, it becomes increasingly difficult to find time or make a mood for having sex. Living with older children and grandchildren, living in old age homes, living in shelters provided for older people, are all great deterrents to having a meaningful sex.
The greatest joy in older couples comes from doing things or travelling together which makes them happy. When in a relationship people are happy and harmonized, sex comes automatically. One need not find time to set a date or time for having sex. It should come spontaneously, with love and naturally.
If both the partners are healthy, live an active life with a healthy lifestyle, have a good understanding, had been having a healthy sexual relationship all along ,there is no reason why it should suddenly stop, when one is 60. Being 60 or so is all in the mind, nothing happens to man or woman psychologically or physiologically, so suddenly as to sexually disable them overnight.
At 60, you and your partner may find more time to spend together. After all those rush hours, sending children to school, catching a train to work and cooking and cleaning, suddenly when children are grown up all that time is yours. For men, at 60, unless they are into business or profession, a retired life allows them to do things they always wanted to do. With children off to work or college, they have all the time in hand to spend together. This allows them to renew their relationship and re-establish their understanding once again. With older children in other cities and towns, parents become very lonely. They may find time to do things which they could not, for years. All these and much more are the bonus and incentive that nature bestows upon older couples. It is how we see it and utilize it. Our perspective, if healthy and positive, will have far-reaching consequences in harnessing it for our gains.
Like we save money to see us through our old age, in the same way we should save our health to be able to use it when we are older and with richer experience and more time in hand. If you look back, you will realize that with each passing day you became wiser than before. At 60 and above, if your health and energy permits, you would be able to do things much better, than the way you did years ago, in the same way, sex life should be better for you with the passing of time and with richer experience!