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Rule number 6:
Enough about you!

When you talk to somebody for the first

 

time you need to introduce yourself so

 

they know enough information about

 

you, but the question here is: when to

 

stop? And how much about you is too

 

much? Well put yourself in the other's place,

 

what do you need to know about them

 

in the first meeting?

 

Normally it's enough to state your full

 

name plus your title or a short

 

description for what you do, and then

 

you stop talking about yourself to give

 

them time to introduce themselves back

 

to you.

 

That would be like saying for an

 

example:

 

- Hi, I'm bob Jones. I'm a senior in
highschool.

- Hello, I'm Dr. Nancy green. I'm a
specialistpediatrician.

 

After that it's better not to say more

 

about yourself unless you're asked to,

 

or unless it came up in the

 

conversation.

 

The bottom line is to be moderate; don't

 

say too much or too little about you in

 

the beginning, then wait and see. Let

 

the conversation lead you and show you

 

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