“Get clear on what REALLY delights you in this life of yours.
Release yourself of the need that you must live up to anyone’s
expectations, including your own.”
~ Isis
What you think you want probably isn’t what really delights you the most about life.
There are millions of people just like you, all who want to figure out a way to:
…or any number of things they have talked themselves into believing will “make” them “happy”.
This one thing you have been craving, that you have been striving towards for a long time… whatever it is that you think you really, really want or need is simply just a messenger. It’s been assigned a symbol in your mind of what happiness or success looks like to you.
Honestly, there is no one and no thing in this world that can “make” you do or feel anything at all. Our beliefs, actions and emotions come from the symbols we’ve associated to things, people and circumstances throughout our life.
That “one thing” you have made up your mind to really, really want… holds no power to “make” you feel anything at all.
Only you have the power to choose to feel how you feel about it.
For as long as you’ve attached your idea of happiness to an object, a thing or some kind of achievement, your happiness will be fleeting. After a short period of time, you’ll be right back in the rat race looking for the next thing to “make” you “feel” a certain way.
WHAT YOU THINK YOU WANT OUT OF
LIFE HIDES THIS SECRET BEHIND WHAT
YOU REALLY, TRULY DESIRE.
You are looking to get an underlying FEELING, an EXPERIENCE out of that thing you desire so much.
Unfortunately, as long as you believe all those “things” exist outside of you, you’ll always be running, striving, seeking the next big thing and you’ll never really get to deeply FEEL and EXPERIENCE all that what you truly desire to. You’ll find momentary thrill, but in a short while, it will disappear and you’ll be out seeking again.
Whether it’s feeling happy, peaceful, secure, relaxed, excited, or something else… whether its an exhilarating experience, a sense of achievement, the experience of being alive and filled up… the experience of success and the feeling of accomplishment it lends to you… all of these things are clues to you regarding the hidden driving force that exists behind our physical reality.
The thing that truly motivates you, that truly drives you to reach, to expand yourself, to challenge yourself, that pushes you to achieve what you think you really want out of life…. is in fact…. the underlying driving force of the entire universe. It is the most powerful creative force there is.
And as soon as you discover what it is that really propels you forward in life, you can learn to tap into it to get what you truly desire in your core.
This is the first Law upon which all other Universal Laws are based.
And it is this same, universal experience, this same universal feeling you really think this one thing you’ve currently got your heart set on is going to give you.
Don’t be fooled.
And it’s not what every other teacher has told you.
It’s not pleasure. It’s not happiness. It’s not love. It’s not to fulfill a need. While all these things can be driving forces for us, it isn’t the force that pushes us to achieve the impossible.
Happiness, love, pleasure, feeling good… all these things don’t come from a job... a person... a big bank account or nice car.
They are all borne within you.
They all come from within you.
It’s all just a big inside job.
Your Invisible Power creates all your desires, your dreams, your hopes, your yearnings, your wants.
And all these things contain within them a whisper of the Creative Force of the Universe.
We all have wants, needs, desires, and dreams. Yet, most of us haven’t quite figured out how to attract all we truly yearn to attract to us.
THERE’S REALLY ONLY A FEW KEYS TO
GETTING WHAT YOU REALLY, REALLY
WANT OUT OF LIFE.
Millions of us have tried to use the Law of Attraction, but found things holding us back, creating stumbling blocks in our path.
Most people will tell you that choosing to feel happy is the only way to get there.
If it’s really so easy to just feel happy (even for those of us who have PhDs in severe depression), then why aren’t more people happy?
The feeling of “happiness” for many people is a very fleeting concept. What if, for example, you honestly cannot remember what it “feels” like to “be happy”?
If that’s the case, why not choose something that doesn’t “feel” so beyond or outside of you right now.
As I talk about in my book, DELIGHT, happiness is the elephant in the room that most people really just don’t want to get too deep with. I talk about the difference between happiness and joy, and how DeLight is our catalyst to experiencing both, simultaneous.
Let’s start with remembering one simple, albeit very important key:
YOU ARE A CHILD OF THE INFINITE
UNIVERSE AND AS SUCH, YOU DESERVE
ALL YOUR HEARTS DESIRES.
No matter how old you are, remembering that you are a CHILD brings out a more playful spark inside. A sense of joviality, silliness and humor gives us a healthy balance for discharging the stresses of the day and reignites our own inner playfulness, allowing it to come forth.
Remembering how we played as children brings out the light in our eyes, color to our cheeks and the laughter of DELIGHT to our Spirit.
Perhaps you delighted in blowing bubbles as a child, or building with Legos. Perhaps you delighted in playing dress up or dancing to silly music, or jump roping or bike riding. Perhaps you loved playing ball as a child, or hula hooping or making discoveries.
For me it was swinging on a swing and dancing. Remembering those things always brings a smile to my lips.
And that, my dear, is the first key… the first secret.