In the case of internal energy flow, attachment does to your energy
channels what fat does to your arteries. The more you attach to things,
the more burdened your energies become. This makes everything a little
more sluggish and negative. Attaching to positive good things is just as
bad as attaching to negatives; they both clog up the system.
One of the most common forms of attachment is attachment to our
partners. Many of us do this because of our misguided love for our
partners. However, the act of attaching to a partner is real y a very
unloving thing to do. All this wil serve is to create a breeding ground for
resentment. When we attach to our partner, we hinder the natural
unfolding of their life. On a deep sub-‐conscious level this is recognised by
them; eventually, you wil be resented for doing this.
It is only a matter of time before this happens in any relationship. When it
does, arguments wil occur or someone wil suppress their feelings and
burden their life, eventual y manifesting il ness as a result. If you truly
love your partner you should do your best to not hinder them on any
level. When their life is al owed to unfold unrestricted, they wil love you
more. When you detach and ful y communicate with your partner, you
are creating the best possible energy flow for your relationship to succeed
and this wil ultimately create unity.
Whatever you hold onto — people, places, possessions, anything at all —
you are only making your life more negative and more difficult as a result.
If you truly loved yourself you would not do this. When you grasp and
hold on, you push away everything the universe wishes to give you — joy,
abundance, love, ease and allowance. Everything you seek comes from
universal consciousness flow, but more on this later.
Some people hold onto things out of a false sense of security. True
security comes from self-‐love, not material possessions or people.
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Security is an internal thing and is never reliant on external objects or
people.
Once you look outside of yourself for happiness, love and contentment