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Key Practice

Sit now and deeply ponder the concept of non-‐separation:

Know that everything is actually a part of who and what you are.

Everything I see is me.

Treat others with love and value; by doing so you love and value

yourself, as they are you.

When I experience negativity in my life I am just seeing the negativity

within being validated and reflected back to me through another

aspect of myself. Be thankful you get to see that negativity because

in that moment you have an opportunity to take positive truthful

action and love yourself more.

A good question to ask yourself whenever you feel negative is, “How

would God respond?”

Another great question is, “What’s the loving thing to do for myself

right now, meaning all of me?” (that is, me and everyone else who

make up the whole)

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Sit and deeply ponder these things, as they are important ingredients for

creating a happy and fulfil ed life.

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Key Ten – True Love

When you are in the ful flow of true unconditional love, you are directly

experiencing your wholeness. When you are in love’s flow you are not

reliant on any external experience, thing or person to feel complete or

happy — you are self-‐empowered.

As a result, love and the joy it brings cannot be taken from you. Your love

is something within yourself and is not tarnished or determined by what

someone else says, thinks or does. When self-‐love is generated, seen and

felt, insecurity and emotional dependency becomes a thing of the past.

Any need to seek approval or validation simply dissolves, as you are

complete.

True love is internal, not external.

An important thing to realise is: True love comes from within you; it is not

external.

If you are reliant on love from another person in order to feel complete

and contented, you miss the point of what love is.

You are looking externally for something that is lacking within you