Therapy For Success
1. Ponder over the smallest advantages of every event of your work life and make use of these to the fullest. Always remember that if you cannot do great things everyday you should try to do small things in a real great way.
2. Think of things that have happened today and now and make them positive and successful. We know that yesterday and then are dead. Our tomorrow and our future are not born yet. We can definitely build our current position firmly and leap to establish our tomorrow with a real difference.
3. Every individual is a unique person so we should never compare ourselves with others. This can develop an inferiority complex in us. Have faith in yourself. People who do not have faith in themselves and their creations provide opportunities for others to bypass them and go ahead of them.
4. Try to consider your critics as your well-wishers because I always found them helping me describe and clarify my weaknesses. They will gradually make you improve some of your faults, errors and mistakes and make you not only a better worker but an improved personality.
5. Try to forgive people who make life difficult and create hurdles in your work and family life. Then take some positive steps to forget those unhappy and irritating incidents. Be sure not to be fooled and fouled by the same person twice.
6. Try to train and develop yourself to solve one problem at a time by starting with the easiest one and proceeding to the most difficult one as you move on. I have found good solutions to many of my difficulties and problems using this powerful strategy. I can assure you that it is worth a try by everyone who seeks success in life.
7. Remember that people who are able to spare some time to assist others can greatly minimize their own tensions, worries and anxieties. Therefore, it is good to join some group to serve the needy, poor, under-privileged or struggling people of your own organization.
8. I always over emphasize the value of positive attitude towards our day to day events. We can heal and convert many of our pains, sorrows and confusions into our joy and pleasure if we continued to conduct all our events with this type of attitude.
9. If I could not change a disturbing situation despite my best effort and genuine endeavors, I was not disheartened, unhappy and depressed because I knew I could make a difference if I kept trying. Time as we have been often told is the best healer of all our wounds. Of course, we should try to change things using another method by developing some new ideas and getting more guidance from our colleagues and mentors.
10. Acting your part well on the fast changing stage of this tough and competitive world has become a must. Since all real life dramas have the similar tragedies, conflicts and frictions it is always advisable to look for truth, beauty and goodness in everything that is difficult and troublesome.
11. Change yourself because self transformation is much soothing and better than the thought of taking any kind of revenge. Change yourself for the better things ahead rather than thinking of taking revenge for the wrongs done unto you. Always remember that change in our thinking in the end brings charm whereas the mere thought of revenge is reckless for good progress.
12. We know that jealousy is harmful for everyone because it burns our own mind, body and soul. So let us develop that kind of wisdom that brings immediate peace, solace, comfort and satisfaction to us. We would never be jealous about the progress and work of others if we could understand the true meaning of teamwork and co-operation.
13. Happiness is definitely contagious and reciprocal so the greater joy, pleasure and mercy we give to others the greater there is the likelihood that a lot more of these would come dancing back to us to distribute and share these traits to others.
14. The problems and difficulties we face at our work places as well as life are often the direct result of our own activities, actions and inactions so if we learnt to be pro-active and act immediately then we can save more of these piling up later. As the good weathermen say, prepare yourself for the bad weather.
15. Selfishness has never paid anybody any dividend so let us not be selfish. Expect more but work for it. Take what is rightfully yours but do not deprive others.
16. Discipline of the mind is dynamic. Control your words, actions, thoughts, character and heart to prevent unwanted and unnecessary ideas entering your system. Use your free and leisure times with care, caution and control.
17. We can definitely overcome lot of our worries by thinking out and planning our own solutions. Your knowledge and right information would be your power to proceed but you may have to do some extensive reading, careful listening and putting your thoughts and ideas into good practice. Plan all you act carefully and then act your plan well.
18. If we spent some fifteen minutes of our working day in meditation we can develop sound values for good living. This meditation would recharge you for additional action.
19. The demands of the new era are: to learn to do better than before, to delegate if you are over committed and to take more work load if you are free.
20. Develop relevant and needed skills and keep re-skilling yourselves continuously to remain productive at all times. Do not stagnate but learn to live with pride, dignity and honour.