Dear Friend,
Let me start this book by asking you a few questions. Have you ever felt frustrated because your man will not give you straight answers? Are you annoyed when he tells you “Nothing is wrong,” but you KNOW something is DEFINITELY WRONG? Have you ever wondered what he is REALLY thinking and what he’s not telling you?
Why can’t a man just tell you what he’s REALLY feeling? And why do they get annoyed or defensive when you ask them? Wouldn’t it be great if men came with a user’s manual that told you exactly how to READ them?
Well, I’m with you on this one! Things would be so much clearer and simpler if guys communicated with us in a way we understood. But this dream of ours will only come true if we women live on Mars! If you have read Men Are from Mars And Women From Venus, you’ll know that men and women are on completely different levels when it comes to communication styles. Men are confusing to read, hard to understand, and easy to misread.
After a lot of in-depth research, I’ve compiled this eBook to help you improve how you can READ and UNDERSTAND men, so you will face fewer misunderstandings and question marks. But it does not end there. I will take you one step further to the place that very few women have ever been to: the holy land of seduction.
The women who have been there were legendary seductresses. You may have heard of some of them: Cleopatra, Wallis Simpson and the now infamous Camilla Parker-Bowles. These women were neither the smartest nor the most beautiful (please tell me you know someone who looks better than Camilla!)
But there is one thing they know and understand better than 99.9% of women in this world: They know HOW TO INFLUENCE MEN. In other words, they know how to align men to their way of thinking and make them want to satisfy each and every one of those women’s little wishes. They also make men fall so deeply in love that, in the case of Wallis Simpson, King Edward VIII gave up his throne to spend his life with “the woman I love.”
This is the power to influence men. This is the value of aligning men to your way of thinking. It’s the power that will deliver the man of your dreams and the love life you could only hope for right to your doorstep. Tell me this is something you don’t want to learn and master!
To assist your learning, I’ve spent a lot of time filtering through a huge amount of information, simplifying it and condensing the most useful, practical advice into the least amount of material for you. I want you to quickly digest the information and start applying it in the real world to see how powerful it truly is.
I’ve carefully selected 77 secrets and grouped them into different categories to correspond with the 3 most common sources of all the dating/relationship problems:
Source 1: Lacking Knowledge in Male Psychology
I want you to look back at your life and think about one example where you’ve successfully influenced another person. Did you know that person well?
Well enough to know what his or her “hot buttons” were? Did you keep pushing those “hot buttons” to get the other person to respond? Did you try to adapt your communication style to what that person was most responsive to? Exactly!
Without understanding what your man responds to, you cannot influence him, change him and make him do what you want. You may have some luck here and there, but without knowing where to aim, how many Cupids Arrows do you have to waste until you finally hit the target? Once you know what the hot buttons are, you CANNOT POSSIBLY fail in attracting and keeping men. How can you fail when you target the things that men are most responsive to? How can you fail when you know exactly how to elicit certain responses from men?
How can you fail when you can READ MEN LIKE A BOOK and know men better than they know themselves? You cannot fail in attracting and keeping a man when you fully understand them. The only reason that you might fail is: “You Don’t Know Enough Yet!”
Source 2: Lacking Knowledge Of How Your Emotions/Behaviors
Influence Men
Unless they are plain evil, most men do not purposely try to break your heart.
They don’t actively find ways or secretly plan to ruin your personal life. But there is one thing all men do: They REACT! They react to you, the things you say, the things you do and, most importantly, they react to the hints you give them.
What do I mean by this? A man can’t get into your mind. He is not your alter-ego and does not know what you are thinking. But when you interact with a man, you constantly give him hints that lead him to derive how you think, what you think and who you are.
From your communication styles, body language and facial expressions, an experienced male can quickly gather tons of information about you. He only reacts to the information you give him. This is good news for you.
If a man can only form his perception of you from the information you give him, you are in total control. The key is to figure out how to allow only the good information to flow out and keep a lid on the bad information.
Source 3: Lacking Sufficient Practice To Become An Expert Seductress
There is a huge difference between knowing something on a theoretical level and knowing how to do something on a practical level. It’s the difference between dreamers and doers. If you want to be the woman who’s in control of her love life and who has the power to attract and keep any man of her choice, you need sufficient practice. I can tell you all the right things you need to know, but you have to practice, practice and practice to hone your skills. Think about it as starting a new job: It takes practice to become really good at what you are doing.
The same rule applies here. If you practice enough, you'll become an expert seductress.
To sum up, if you take care of the three sources I have mentioned, you will solve 99.9% of your problems. You will also do better than 99.9% of women who are constantly confused by men and always frustrated with their never-ending problems, caused by men.
These 77 secrets are your friends, your tools and your strategies to influence, impact, and change men. Study them, use them and apply them. Then practice, practice, practice, until you’ve become so good at what you are doing that within 10 minutes of meeting a guy, you’ve already come up with a detailed mental plan to lead him from the first date to the altar. It’s 100% possible! I’ve done it, many of my readers have done it, and now, you can, too.
Are you ready for the first secret?