he gladly named him after his noble ancestor, Ibrahim
(Abraham). But his happiness did not last longer because his only
son, Ibrahim died when he was just sixteen months old.
We went with God’s Apostle (p.b.u.h) to the blacksmith Abu Saif,
and he was the husband of the wet-nurse of Ibrahim (the son of
the Prophet). God’s Apostle took Ibrahim and kissed him and
smelled him and later we entered Abu Saif’s house and at that
time Ibrahim was in his last breaths and the eyes of God’s
Apostle (p.b.u.h) started shedding tears. ‘Abdur Rahman bin ‘Auf
said, 'O God’s Apostle, even you are weeping!' He said, 'O Ibn
‘Auf, this is mercy.' Then he wept more and said, 'The eyes are
shedding tears and the heart is grieved, and we wil not say
except what pleases our Lord, O Ibrahim! Indeed we are grieved
by your separation.'
Narrated by Anas bin Malik (May God be pleased with his
deeds)
Buhari 2.390
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We see how deep he was moved by the love for his son. On the
day of his son’s death in Madinah there was solar eclipse. The
people of those days were not knowledgeable enough to
understand the reason for the occurrence of solar or lunar
eclipse. They had been wrongly believing out of gross superstition
that eclipse occurred to announce the death of some great
person on earth.
Even though they might not know exactly who died, yet they
guessed the eclipse had occured to announce the death of the
son of the Prophet (peace be upon him).
The Prophet heard this. He could have simply ignored it! This
would only improve his image among the people making the
ignorant people wonder ‘what great power this Man Supreme
must be having. Then they would imagine that there is so much
happening in the heaven just for the death of his beloved little
son.’ And they would believe it too. His mood was not in a state
to condemn the people for what he heard.
Even the people who are used to condemning anyone at the
first occurrence of any fault would ignore such fault of others
when they are in deep sorrow and in bereavement. The loss may
appear greater than their act of condemning others. They might
think that they are not in a proper mind to judge a thing however
serious it may be.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) was also in a state of great
loss.
But the people’s slipping in to the darkness of ignorance
appeared to be a greater loss than the loss of his beloved son.
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He gathers all the people at once and eradicates the
ignorance.
On the day of Ibrahim’s death, the sun eclipsed and the people
said that the eclipse was due to the death of Ibrahim (the son of
the Prophet). God’s Apostle said, 'The sun and the moon are two
signs amongst the Signs of God. They do not eclipse because of
someone’s death or life. So when you see them, invoke God and
pray til the eclipse is clear.'
Narrated by Al Mughira bin Shuba (May God be pleased with his
deeds)
Buhari 2.168
He explained that eclipse does not occur for announcing the
death or the birth of anybody. Hence the eclipse had nothing to
do with death of his beloved son.
We witness these days in some parts of the world; when a
political figure visits a place and there is rain the people of the
locality felicitate him or her on the stage saying that there was
good rain because of his or her presence at their place. They
praise the political leader right on the face. The faces of the
praised ones also glitter. Flattering!
This is the quality that the Prophet (pbhu) ever detested most.
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Both rationalists and agnostics seem to enjoy this sort of
felicitations without any reservation!. If these words are so sweet
to these politicians who claim themselves to be total y against
any divinity on man then just imagine the elation a spiritual
leader would be experiencing with these sort of felicitations.
But Prophet, the Man Supreme, who is both a political head and
a unique spiritual leader, was disgusted at such follies.
His advice revealed that his son’s death would be in no way the
reason for such occurrences as an eclipse, solar or lunar.
Keeping aside al his sorrows for the time being the Prophet gives
first preference to the eradication of superstition flaring up
suddenly among his people. Has anyone ever come across such
a wonderful man in the human history? No matter how hard you
search for a man like the Prophet, we only sight the Prophet
(peace be upon him) in the realm of history who never deceived
anybody, any time, even to an atom’s weight. He only mended
people although he had al the opportunities to deceive them
easily. He never failed to warn his close associates who used to
praise the Prophet (peace be upon him) at times, out of love or
out of sheer ignorance. He always kept teaching them that they
should never honour him more than a man.
Sometimes, a man of our confidence would predict it would rain
today. Although it does not happen very often, it does rain at
times as he predicted exactly. We tell him, ' it has rained as you
predicted.' We don’t mean that any thing would happen
exactly as he says. We tell him like this despite the fact that it is
just a coincidence that it rained exactly as he said.
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Anything the Prophet predicts on the basis of the revelation
would take place accordingly. But when he predicts anything in
the capacity of a man, it does not occur always as he says and
at times the guess is seen in reality. Then his disciples used to
remark, ' This is according to the Wil of God and according to
your thought.'
We make compliments when a man of our liking predicts some
thing and sometime it takes place exactly as he said in a guess.
Similarly the companions of the Prophet (peace be upon him)
used to pass these sort of remarks. The compliments made by the
companions of the Prophet (peace be upon him) sounded more
divine and the meaning was much closer to the act of
remembrance of God.
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STRICT MONOTHEISM
The Companions pronounced God first and the Prophet (peace
be upon him) later. As they were pretty sure that the Prophet
Muhammad (peace be upon him) was not divine in any way,
the Prophet (peace be upon him) did not bother to prevent
them from their using these phrases to compliment him.
A priest came to the Prophet and said 'Oh Prophet! If you don’t
associate paral el (to God) you wil be the best society in the
world.' The Prophet said, 'Glory to God.' (The Prophet used to say
like this when he wants to express his astonishment) he inquired
what he meant by this. The Priest said, 'When you want to
promise something you promise us by Kaaba. This is what I mean.
The Prophet was silent for a while. He addressed the Muslims, 'if
and when you have to promise you must say By the Lord of the
Kaaba.' The priest again said, 'Oh! Prophet, If you don’t even in
your imagination associate any thing equal to God then you are
the best community.' He said in wonder, 'Glory be to God. What
is that we are associating?' The priest said, 'Your people are
saying, God thought and you thought.' The Prophet was silent
and said to Muslims, 'The priest has commented. If any of you
(Muslims) say it is according to God’s Wil , you should give a
pause and say then you thought.'
Ahmed
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Just because they said like that, it does not mean that they
equated Muhammad (peace be upon him) to God. However,
Christian priest points out that this phrase suggests as though the
disciples associate paral el to God. Accepting the suggestion
from the non-Muslim clergy the Prophet (peace be upon him)
instructs his companions to say: It is according to God’s Wil . Then
you thought of it.
Had the companions of the Prophet (peace be upon him) said
with any evil intention he would have barred them immediately
from pronouncing such phrase.
Yet he accepts the suggestion from the priest, as his argument
seemed fair enough. He could have argued with priest, saying
they never meant to equate him to God. He could have
established that he was divine because he was a spiritual leader.
This is how the spiritual leaders endeavour to establish themselves
as though they are something above human being, at the
slightest chance. The Prophet advised that this kind of phrase
should never be applied in their daily discourse. After this he
severely condemned it if anyone repeated the same or similar
phrase even by force of habit.
After the amendments the Prophet encouraged his companions
to use the phrase ‘This is what God thought. Later you thought of
it’ let them use the phrase to address any one as they pleased.
He never wanted to reserve it for himself.
(See: Ahmed and Abu Dawood)
It is witnessed round the world that prime honour is paid to
people supposed to be spiritual leaders.
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Even a ruler of a sovereign state stands in attention before his
favourite spiritual leader. The highest authorities of a nation fal
prostrated before a spiritual head. This has been the case ever
since man began to live as a society.
The spiritual leaders are honoured in such ridiculous manner that
they bow down, prostrate to these men, wash the spiritual
leaders’ feet with water or other palatable fluids and drink the
same with utmost devotion.
We may forgive the political leaders who allow them to be
honoured like this. But we should never forgive the spiritual
leaders facilitating these kind of ridiculous acts because these
leaders are supposed to be much more matured and
enlightened to guide the people away from gross superstition
and the darkness of ignorance and steer them into the right
mode of conduct.
Spiritual leaders should be much humbler than al others, not
expecting special honours and respect.
A sensible man must think that any man who demands undue
respect from others lack maturity.
But most people don’t possess or apply this basic knowledge.
Even the spiritual heads lack this. Prophet Muhammad (peace
be upon him) is one spiritual head (peace be upon him) in the
world who adhered to this principle of conduct very strictly.
The Prophet (peace be upon him), a Statesman never al owed
anyone to prostrate before him in order to honour him nor did he
ever fail to stop anyone trying to prostrate and adore him.
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I went to al-Hirah and saw them (the people) prostrating
themselves before a satrap of theirs, so I said: The Apostle of God
(peace be upon him) has most right to have prostration made
before him. When I came to the Prophet (peace be upon him), I
said: I went to al-Hirah and saw them prostrating themselves
before a satrap of theirs, but you have most right, Apostle of
God, to have (people) prostrating themselves before you. He
said: Tel me, if you were to pass my grave, would you prostrate
yourself before it? I said: No. He then said: Do not do so. If I were
to command anyone to make prostration before another I
would command women to prostrate themselves before their
husbands, because of the special right over them given to
husbands by God
Bais bin Zadh (May God be pleased with his deeds)
Abu Dawood 2135
The Prophet (peace be upon him) quotes the general rule that
no man should prostrate to any other man, and no man should
allow this on him. He says that only God is worthy of prostration
and the prostrating ones and the prostrated ones in this world
are just the same mortals.
Those days women folks used to fal prostrated upon their
husband’s feet, which is in practice even now in some ignorant
quarters of this planet. The Prophet (peace be upon him) says,
'when I don’t al ow even this how can I al ow any one to adore
me by prostration.'
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Since the dawn of human civilisation there have been many
reformers who condemned and struggled against those who in
the name of spiritual leadership were cheating the people with
false sacraments, rituals and ceremonies. They even succeeded
in stripping out the false masquerade of the spiritual leaders. But
it is disgusting to see when similar rituals and ceremonies are
performed for the reformers themselves by their followers, these
selfish impostors simply accept them all with a smile.
Instead of stopping the erection of statues under any banner,
the reformers enjoy the erection of statue for them by the
ignorant people. We also come across reformers who have left
with the insistence on erection of statues for them posthumously.
These people approve the same acts shamelessly, which were
once vehemently opposed by them. Eventually they lose their
credibility among their own followers.
But Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) is the only person
who, as a spiritual leader, strictly abolished erection of statues
forever.
When people asked for his permission to prostrate he was afraid
that these people might worship his grave after his death. He
prevented it too. While he was alive he left the strict warning not
to transform his grave into a place of worship
God’s Apostle in his fatal il ness said, 'God cursed the Jews and
the Christians, for they built the places of worship at the graves of
their prophets.' And if that had not been the case, then the
Prophet’s grave would have been made prominent before the
people.
Narrated by Aisha (May God be pleased with his deeds)
Buhari 2.472
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Aisha said, 'The Prophet in his fatal il ness said, ‘God cursed the
Jews and the Christians because they took the graves of their
Prophets as places for praying.’ ' ‘Aisha added, 'Had it not been
for that, the grave of the Prophet (p.b.u.h) would have been
made prominent but I am afraid it might be taken (as a) place
for praying.'
Narrated by Urwa (May God be pleased with his deeds)
Buhari 2.414
No day of remembrance has been observed before his grave for
fourteen centuries. Nobody prostrates or worships or adores at his
grave. This clear admonition makes him a shining star worthy of
whole-hearted acceptance as the leader by the entire human
race.
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SELF-RESPECT
Besides his insistence that man should never lose his self-respect,
the Prophet (peace be upon him) stressed that no one should
sacrifice his self-respect even for the Prophet’s sake.
Some people preach that there is no power attached to any
statue. The same people lose their self-respect by erecting
statues for their leaders. They even go to the extent of
announcing publicly that they worship the graves of their
leaders.
Even after knowing that dead persons in the grave do not sense
anything, some people sprinkle flowers and lay wreaths on their
graves. They do it even after knowing very well that these acts
are irrational and superstitious.
The rational thinking has turned into utter superstition within a
time span of fifty years of this current century. But it has never
happened like this with the society of the Prophet.
The society that loves the Prophet (peace be upon him)
more than their lives has never erected any statue for
him.
At his grave no worship nor adoring is performed
No day of remembrance is celebrated.
Neither flowers are sprinkled nor wreaths are laid on his
grave.
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There is no damage to anybody’s self–respect even to an
atom’s weight on account of him.
Leave alone prostrating to him, he never accepted any
symbol of respect, even to a lesser degree.
People stand up as a mark of respect to elders, teachers,
leaders, owners, rulers and high officials. This is a common scene
everywhere.
People having the upper hand do enjoy such gestures. We don’t
see any leader think, ‘After all anyone that stands up before me
is also a man like me! Wil it not damage his self-respect if he gets
up for me to pay respect?’
The scene is very common on public stages and dais. The dais is
fil ed with lieutenants waiting for the chief guest who himself
advocates self-respect. As soon as he arrives at the dais these
lieutenants stand up to honour their leader.
But no such leader seems to have addressed his lieutenants. 'Hi. I
am also a man just like you. Isn’t it an insult. Doesn’t it damage
your self-respect to raise up for me?
Politicians don’t say this. Self-esteemed leaders don’t say this.
Spiritual leaders too never care to say like this.
But Prophet, the Man Supreme, orders that no man should stand
up for the sake of paying respect to any other man.
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AbuMijlaz said: Mu’awiyah went out to Ibn az-Zubayr and Ibn
Amir. Ibn Amir got up and Ibn az-Zubayr remained sitting.
Mu’awiyah said to Ibn Amir: Sit down, for I heard the Apostle of
God (peace be upon him) say: Let him who likes people to stand
up before him prepare his place in Hell.
Narrated by Mu’awiyah (May God be pleased with his deeds)
Thirmizhi 5210
People should not stand up even for the king. And no Muslim
should expect others to stand up to pay respect to him. This is the
lesson the great teacher Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon
him) taught the people.
He preached others. Did he expect that people should stand up
and respect him alone because he was a spiritual head? No, the
Prophet (peace be upon him) is dearer than our life and nobody
on earth has been dearer to us than him and yet we don’t get
up to respect him. He hates it very much. Anas who served the
Prophet (peace be upon him) for ten long years reports this:
No mortal has been so much loved as the Prophet Muhammad
(peace be upon him) is loved by people. Nevertheless he had
ordered that no body in an assembly should get up from his seat
to pay respect. He did not want even the average gesture as a
mark of respect that is exchanged among men because these
gestures served as mark of respect turns to be the powerful tool
to render man into slavery again. The Prophet was very careful
not to damage other’s self-respect.
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The Messenger of God (peace be upon him) was il and we said
prayer behind him and he was sitting. And Abu Bakr (May God
be pleased with his deeds) was making audible to the people his
takbir. As he paid his attention towards us he saw us standing
and (directed us to sit down) with a gesture. So we said our
prayer with him in a sitting posture. After uttering salutation he
said: You were at this time about to do an act like that of the
Persians and the Romans. They stand before their kings while they
sit, so don’t do that; follow your Imams. If they say prayer
standing, you should also do so, and if they say prayer sitting, you
should also say prayer sitting.
Narrated by Jabir ibn Abdul ah (May God be pleased with his
deeds)
Muslim 824
When the Prophet (peace be upon him) sat and prayed, the
people also sat to pray. We understand this from a hadidh.
When one is not able to stand and pray due to physical
problems he is al owed to sit and pray. The Prophet sat and led
the prayer only on this basis. But when any of the followers did
not have any physical difficulty he stood up and led the prayer.
People stand behind prayer leader not to respect him but it is
one of the manners of prayer. Then there was no reason to be
strict about standing behind him.
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Nevertheless, when the Prophet (peace be upon him) leads the
prayer sitting, the people follow him standing in prayer, because
none of them had any physical difficulty in standing before the
Prophet. It looks as though the people were made to stand
before the Prophet while he was sitting, in order to behave in a
manner to respect a king. It is not true. The Prophet does not
want such an arrogant manner for his people. So he orders them
to sit like he does, to pray. It is chil ing to see the greatness and
purity of heart in this man who did not want even an
appearance which shows as though the people are standing
while he is sitting, to honour him. He hated even the
resemblance of any act of slavery.
This is the Man Supreme, worthy of following. He is so honest that
any one can blindly follow him without a tinge of doubt of being
misled by any chance. One can be sure of this man who is
trustworthy and who would not use anybody for his even trivial
selfish reason.
Here is an incident to prove this where the Muslims should
understand properly.
One may get up to welcome someone. One may stand up to
show love to someone. But no one should stand up to pay
respect to anyone. When his children visited him the Prophet
(peace be upon him) used to rush to the door to receive them.
What do we mean by reception? When someone visits us we