The Secrets Most Men Will Never Know About Women by Kenny Rowell - HTML preview

Bonus Chapter: Five Things Women Hate About Single Men

Just for fun, I’ve decided to include this chapter on five things that women hate about single men. What good does it do for you to know these things? Well, as you read these, you’ll realize that all of them are habits that don’t work out so well in relationships. So if you want to have success in your dating life and start building meaningful connections with women, it’s best if you know what these are and start correcting them right away:

1. Sloppiness

Bad hygiene, stained or torn clothes, a messy apartment or house  all of these are things that turn off women. They’re also very easy habits to fall into when you don’t have a woman in your life. Go through your apartment or house, get rid of the clutter and start getting things organized.

Buy some air fresheners, and get some things that add character to the place, such as pictures or decorations. Look for things that complement your personality. Most importantly, clean up and organize the bathroom. If you haven’t noticed, this is the first place a woman usually goes when she visits a man’s house.

This isn’t because she “has to go so bad” either. She’s trying to find out how well you take care of your place and how neat you are, and the quickest way to do this is by seeing the way you keep your bathroom.

2. Childish Friends

Most single men have at least one single friend who is irresponsible and a bad influence. This is the friend that you’ll end up fighting with your girl about just as soon as things start to get serious. Why is this? Because she hates the influence that he has on you and wants to get him out of your life so that you can become a responsible man.

Friends are great, and I’d never suggest that you give up one of your friends for the sake of a woman. But if you have someone in your life whom you know is just bringing you down or keeping you from becoming more of a responsible man, it might be good to start creating some distance.

Most of the time, this kind of friend will even get a little jealous of your relationship with your woman, and you might realize that he wasn’t as much of a friend that you thought he was.

3. Boyishness

Many men are single because they haven’t found the right woman, but there are also many who just haven’t grown up yet. Women are not attracted to irresponsible men, and if you still have some “boyishness,” which is keeping you from growing up, the best time to start making some changes is BEFORE you meet the woman you’re crazy about.

Some common forms of boyishness are: letting your decisions be controlled by your friends or your parents, inability to earn steady income, excessive partying, impulsive spending or immature attitudes toward women, dating and relationships. Most of these are pretty easy to control once you make up your mind, and the best time to start is now.

4. Bad Manners

We’ve talked about being a Bad Boy, but you still need to know how to treat a lady who you’re dating and to treat other people with respect. Many single men are single because they never had the opportunity to learn good manners or never bothered to make them habits.

These are simple things, such as treating the waiter/waitress at a restaurant like a person instead of an animal, being a courteous driver, opening the door for a woman, not interrupting people when you talk, having good table manners and knowing how to treat people who are guests in your house.

While most of these are common knowledge, you might still want to do some searching online and find out if there are any “blind spots,” which could end up hurting your dating life.

5. Gawking

This is a tough habit to break, and a LOT of men don’t even realize that they’re doing it. Looking at women who are attractive is OK; staring isn’t. It’s rude to the woman you’re staring at, it makes you look needy (and sometimes creepy), and it’s rude to the woman you’re dating, if you’re on one that is.

This is a good habit to break for two reasons: First of all, it will help you to make the woman who you’re with more comfortable (when she comes along that is), and it will increase your chances of meeting a new woman.

Staring at women will never attract them, and the more you do it, the more intimidated you’re likely to get by the way that a woman looks. If you think a woman is hot, go ahead and approach her. If she’s with another man, find something else to look at until the temptation passes.

Get to work on each of these five areas, and you’ll increase your chances of attracting women of value into your life.

Good luck.

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