He Wants You To Pick Him Up!
Most girls are afraid to make the first move because they think a man doesn't want them to. NOTHING COULD BE FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH! Today there are millions of great men who are dying for you to smile at them . . . to introduce yourself . . . to say hello. And the amazing thing is, that's all it really takes, to get a great relationship going.
When a man wants a woman. He will stand perfectly still in one place with his beer and never go near. You'd probably think he's a queer. Or just plain hardly there. Or if you're half lucky he's had a bad scare when it comes to dating women.
Any old how. It is the one thing on his mind. Oh if only women would ask the man out. You see in this world there is an incredible alien to you all force inside energy itself that does not ever want men and women to get together physically. And the aftermath of this is only now just beginning to grow.
So woman. Get your game on. Make it your job to break the ice by being nice more than twice. That is all there is too it.
Basically begin with any eye contact the two of you can make. Then imagine he is as nervous as you are and you will both be right. His fullness of self-consciousness. His feelings of being inappropriate for the occasion are a mirror of the self-consciousness you are feeling also.
And now for the one and only line you will ever need. Hi I am Samantha. And he must reply hi I am Bob. Now you can say Bob how would you like to have a coffee sometime? And then you have returned the dodge ball to him again on both your terms.
Remember everything you are feeling such as nervousness is a mirror of what he is feeling same.
Here is another opening: Hey, how's it going?
This will seem to be the opposite of what you are experiencing. But trust me it is correct. Don't talk too much about yourself.
The person who will come out of the conversation as being the most interesting and unforgettable person is the one who did all of the listening. Encourage him to talk about himself.
How did your day go? Or so, what do you do with your free time? Compliment him early in your conversation. A compliment leads the way for him to give you the compliment for giving him one.
Warning note here if at any time he does not respond to you in this exact fashion of matching your thoughts like with like get the hell out of there. You see in human consciousness it is not opposites that attract like two opposite poles of a physical magnet. Inside the human consciousness of both man and woman. Like thoughts attract like thoughts. This explains why you would not see a Hell's Angel biker assisting an old lady across the road. And why you will see the Boy Scout helping her.
A compliment may be as follows: You're fascinating. I love talking with you.
Or I can't believe I’m getting to know someone as nice and interesting as you.
So to recap so far. Know how to start a conversation with a stranger. Do not count on other people to come to you; be willing to walk up to anyone who looks interesting and forge a connection with the simplicity seeking Hi I am Jane and wait for the reply Hi Jane I am Bob.
Remind yourself of your talents and good qualities. Try to stay out of the past because all past time tense thoughts are negative unless they truly naturally by of their presence uplift and empower you.
Know that you can Google how to pick up men. But the content is so negative. Know that those who wish to write to give advice to others are the very one’s who need to hear this advice because it is they who attract the wrong people.
Know that the information being placed out there. To be good advice. Is too politically correct.
This present era of human input is too apologetic. Too polite. It is a psychology of do-gooder gone astray mentality. It is a police. And a nanny state.
You can well ask why am I telling you all of this in a book about picking up men. It is my beginning and ending way of removing the brain washing done to you by virtue of living in these times.
I have created a board game called Sangreal. It is designed to bring men and women together in an air of romance. The games way of play gives each player a very good indication of the fruits each player has to give. In the games beginning it is the four Hallows cards that you'll be winning. To win one. After landing on a Hallows Square the player on the Square reads out aloud one of the games Great Thoughts category quotations by famous people down throughout time. After reading the quotation out aloud. The player must make an original comment of his or her own. And then all players are free to give their original comment on the quotation card or upon the original comment made by the first player on the card. Then once the conversation and discussion has ended the player’s vote for this player's comment based on the level of discussion he or she promoted. By placing a small ball into the Sangreal Cup.
There is a very old saying that goes something like this. You can tell a man's character by the words he uses. By his fruits thereof. By what comes out of his speech. And so may you come up with the asking of the following questions with which I shall give you the answers a man in a good state of mind shall give you in reply.
Any and all self-consciousness comes from your left-brain. As a source of negativity presently because the Earth's magnetic field is in a dampened state. Its energy is going up and down with a pause on the down cycle meaning gravity is affected. Which means you must be as creative and as original as you can be. As the right brain, which is, God inspired will bring to you the joy of the perfect match you require. I could write for a million pages here to try and cover all bets about how to pick up a man. But rather than this I will give you direct contact with your right-hemisphere. Right here and now. I call this method The Sangreal Method. The Sangreal symbolizing great plenty and great healing power.