CREATING THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS
You left your castle determined to find the perfect queen to complete your kingdom.
You traveled the world and spent time with many beautiful women – any of them would love to be chosen by such a king. They put on their best to impress you. You created such stories of adventure that you knew would capture the imaginations of your kindred back home who eagerly awaited word from your travels.
Then you met the woman of intrigue who captured your attention. She is graceful, feminine, sensuous, and captivating. It did not take long to declare that you wanted to know her better. Your romance was like none other. You brought flowers and took her on wonderful dates. She treasures the small gifts you gave to her to this very day.
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family and they were glad for their daughter to have such an opportunity; the chance at living a life as the wife of a nobleman; such as yourself.
The day finally came when you could bring her home. The greatest travel you have ever experienced was that first trip with her at your side.
You took the time to make her feel relaxed and welcomed in your castle. You took her on short visits to see the region surrounding your kingdom and created new experiences and memories for her.
Now she is your bride . . . your queen . . . your lover . . . your wife. She is part of you and will bring grace and love to the walls of your castle. In as much as you had desired to rescue the beauty, she, in turn, rescued you.
The circle is complete and now you get to live your Happily Ever After.
WHAT DOES HAPPILY EVER AFTER LOOK LIKE . . .
IN DAILY LIFE?
What else will you do now? Well, that is up to the two of you to imagine and create.
What has she always dreamed her life would be like? Believe it or not, my wife negotiated that she’d get a puppy and a kitten on that first date with Vera. Within a year after her arriving here we had two dogs and a cat. Your wife will want to create a sense of family and identity with you – even if it is just a family of two.
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The topic of work and career may change as she gets settled in. Let it be a fluid aspect of your new life together. Just figure it out as you go. One man married a woman who had been a doctor in Russia. When she came here, she did what was required so she could practice medicine here. Today, she is a doctor at a major hospital. Many of them have university degrees from their home countries that won’t transfer.
Sometimes the women are adamant that they need to wait to come home with you until after they finish a certain semester of their schooling. You may have to do some compromising, but don’t get on her case later if she delayed coming for a degree she didn’t end up using. Her instincts may be to get the degree in case you leave her and she has to fend for herself. Once she feels secure in your love she may not feel so pressured to have to do anything with that education. Just love her. You may still be too good to be true in her mind.
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I hope you will create a new vision of your perfect life, the way you did in Chapter 2.
But this time, you get to do it with her. Let her dream with you about the life you want to create together. There is nothing to stop you. Make both of your dreams come true. Be the golden man – her king and she will strive to be the woman of your dreams as well.
Whew!
What an adventure! You traveled the world in search of amazing beauty and found a love most men only dream about.
Was all of this worth it? Just look in her eyes and you tell me! But beyond that, what is your alternative? You could live alone. You could marry an American girl and hope your odds are better than most. No, you made a different choice.
Was it worth it? You walk down the street and see the envy of men who wish they had what you have – but what you have is more than a beauty by your side. Even more beautiful is the way you interact with each other. It is delightful and richly satisfying in every respect.
Many men don’t believe they could really have such beauty and love as a part of their daily life. Their lack of belief is exactly why they don’t.
Other men have told me that they wish they had what I have. I tell them that they can have it and where to find it; but will they go get it? It is available to those who take action and just go after it. The system is in place to give expert assistance at every stage.
Why wouldn’t you go see for yourself instead of remaining curious forever – wondering what might have been?
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It is sad to think about the 500 or so wonderful women who came to the three introduction events that I attended; and to realize that some of them didn’t even have the opportunity to talk to one of us. Only a small percentage went on dates. And even fewer got to live out their Happily Ever After. These are good women and I hope to use this book to spark a movement so more men will go and discover this match made in heaven.
Good men finding good women.
If you do what I have suggested in this book, you will become very clear about what you want – and now you know where to find it. In like fashion, my wife told me that she knew I would be her husband the first night we met. She tells me, “All of my dreams are coming into reality just as I imagined they would.” She was also clear about what she was looking for.
Right now someone out there is imagining a life with you and you don’t even know it.
After spending just a short time with Anna, I knew she was the one for me. I had the clarity and confidence in my decision to pursue her. Yet it still astonishes me that I was able to write this first letter to her after spending just five days together: My Darling Anna:
It is 3:00 in the morning and I cannot sleep. My mind is full of thoughts of you.
Soon I will be in California at least in body. But my mind and heart will remain with you.
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strong in your values, and a fighter. At the same time; you are still the child who loves to play, as I am.
Your laughter is as refreshing as the warm glow of the sun. Your smile is like a masterpiece of art - there is nothing like it. Your eyes write books and tell stories in the simplest of glances - they are limitless in beauty and in expression. Your eyes whisper and tell me that there is a woman of mystery hiding in wait - longing to be discovered by the one with the key - and so I search for the key to your heart.
I am a king with a growing kingdom. I have earned the respect of important men.
But you are the one who has captured the king’s heart.
I am proud that you wear my ring. Part of my identity is now connected with you -
it may just be for a season of life - or it may be for all time. God will make it known to both of us and we will be glad for the time we are given, however long or short.
I learn more of you with each moment we share together. Each time I see something new I did not see before. Should we share moments together for the rest of our lives - I know I would still be discovering new insights into your soul - it is deep and limitless.
I am grateful to God that he did not let me find the person I came to see in Nikolaev. He had another plan. I think he takes great pleasure in such surprises.
I believe that our lives will be joined together forever - but only God knows for certain.
Have a wonderful day, my love.
With love from my heart,
Your Mark
Together you will build a relationship that is unique. It can give you both a lifetime of meaningful love and deep satisfaction. You will become a better man for having taken the journey. You will understand other cultures and ways people experience daily life.
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You will bring some of that home with you so you can take the best of both worlds and make a family that is special to you. I wish all men would have such an experience and understanding of the world.
As I finish writing the last words of this book, I have to recount to you my evening last night. Anna and I were snuggling on the couch watching a movie with the dogs at our sides. When the movie was over, she glanced over at me and reached up to touch my cheek. I asked, “What?” She simply replied, “I am so happy I married you. I am the happiest woman in the world.”
And with that, I conclude the book as I began – with a beautiful woman reclining on my chest. This has been my daily life for quite some time now. I am deeply loved by one of the most beautiful women in the world – and, in return, I make her feel deeply loved as well.
Now you know the secret – and she has thousands of sisters out there just hoping to someday meet you.
Just one parting request . . .
I would just ask for your help in spreading the word.
Share this secret. Let other men know that there is hope. And in doing so, you provide hope to the most wonderful women in the world as well. Hope that someday they may see their king walk into a ballroom and pursue them to win their heart.
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May God bless you and guide you as you go on your quest for your queen.
And above all, follow your heart,
Mark & Anna Davis
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
“The greatest fulfillment comes when you
put your passions to work in a way that
makes a difference – and share those
experiences with the love of your life.”
He’s fished in the Amazon River, made
friends with villagers along its banks and
hunted alligators. Life is an adventure for
Mark Edward Davis, author, businessman,
entrepreneur, public speaker, Men’s
Studies’ counselor and now the
“International Dating Ambassador”.
Mark has traveled and dated on four
continents and brings a world of experience in dating combined with an understanding of healthy masculinity and femininity. He advocates utilizing romance tours as a system for successful dating around the world.
He’s president and CEO of European Dream Connections, Inc., and founder of Abundance Int’l – a non-profit organization.
He and his wife, Anna, and son, Christopher, live in Anaheim, California.
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https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world factbook/index.html
MSN article “Are Boys and Endangered Species?” http://health.msn.com/pregnancy/
articlepage.aspx?cp-documentid=100171768
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Da Capo Press, Eleven
Cambridge Center, Cambridge, MA 02142. 2004
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Thomas Nelson, Inc., PO Box 141000, Nashville, TN 37214.
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