-----Who is Fairer/Taller?-----
I remember I was at a dinner invitation at my aunt's residence with my family as a teenager. My elder cousin sisters had also come and we were enjoying the occasion full fledgedly. We watched TV for sometime and played around with my aunt's then baby child. We talked to relatives on my uncle's side. Yes, things were great!!
At one time, my cousin sisters, my own sister and I just started to have a chit chat together, when all of a sudden my uncle came up and said, "Hey, what's up?"
Then one of my cousins replied, "Among us sisters, we have some concerns. While my sister and I are struggling to find everyday whose complexion is fairer. Between those sisters (meaning my sister and me), their concern is who is getting taller?"
Well, to that, my uncle replied wittingly, "Does it really matter? I can hardly observe much difference." We all felt silly and laughed out aloud together and so did our uncle!! After all, laughter over self is the highest elevation of emotion and is always good over you. I am glad our uncle helped us to find out our perspectives.