Indian Society believes man has a fragile ego and he can’t handle a competing partner. Is this true ?
I am not talking about what happened 100 year back but if we look at today's society men look for educated and working partners. He is doing this because he lust for money ? Not really, he looks for support but he finds a best (sometime more educated and earning) partner who can support him when he needs it. Males may represent themselves as the strongest beings alive like they don’t care about a thing., but actually they also need support. Higher number of suiciding men proves the fact.
It is true that men have ego, but the question is who is not having. Every human including women has an ego. But Indian society doesn't think women have ego. They believe a higher earning wife can be a reason to hurt men’s ego and finally can damage relationships. But if we look deeply there are thousands of men who put their best effort 54
Menʼs HUB 26
Ravan - Casual Misandry
to make the partner capable, but I still searching for a example where a women (rich women) marry with a poor men (let say a riksha-wala) Can we change this mind-set ?
55
Menʼs HUB 26
Ravan - Casual Misandry
http://menshub.co.in
MEN’S HUB
Oct 1st, 2022
Ravan – Casual Misandry 06
Men Earn More than Women (Gender Pay Gap) We believe that women earn less compared to men, by doing similar efforts.
From many years the same was in every mind, without any support from any research.
But is that true ?
Research shows the fact is a pure lie. The American Association of University Women (AAUW) senior Researcher Kevin Miller has finally admitted that the “gender pay gap” is caused by women’s choices. The pay disparity between women and men isn’t caused primarily by discrimination, but rather by the personal and professional choices that women make.
Can we accept the fact supported by research or we can continue the journey with a lie.
56
Menʼs HUB 26
Ravan - Casual Misandry
http://menshub.co.in
MEN’S HUB
Oct 1st, 2022
Ravan – Casual Misandry 07
Men Have Shorter Attention Spans Than Women Mostly society believe ‘Men have shorter attention Spans’
But this is not true, it is just that they are wired to pay attention to different things than women. Researchers have found that male brain is wired to be attracted to problems which are analytical, for example sports and visuals etc. At the same time women’s mind is wired to to focus on nonverbal and verbal communication We definitely need to change society and need to understand men have wide attention spans. It may be different from women but not weak.
Can we change this mind-set ?
57
Menʼs HUB 26
Ravan - Casual Misandry
http://menshub.co.in
MEN’S HUB
Oct 1st, 2022
Ravan – Casual Misandry 08
Boy’s Education is Less Important
Today most Indians believe a girl's education is much more important than Men.
And the best part is they even don’t know about their belief. Let me share one of my experience. One of my friend once said ‘Girl’s education should be free’. And best part is he was not able to tell why I should be responsible to the education of her kids ? If one demand everyone’s education must be free, I can agree on it, but if someone says girls education should be free. My question is very simple you earn same as me, they why I should share the burden of your kids education ?
Nowadays a slogan that is very popular is ‘Educate a Girl, Educate Family/Society’. Does that mean boys education is of no use for family or society ? If this is true how the country growing ? Fact is India earns its tax from men, womens share is less than 20%. Now if we are saying boy’s education is less important than girls, we are just making fools of ourselves.
Can we change this mind-set and provide a suitable environment for boys.
58
Menʼs HUB 26
Ravan - Casual Misandry
http://menshub.co.in
MEN’S HUB
Oct 1st, 2022
Ravan – Casual Misandry 09
Men Think about Sex Every few Seconds
Most people think that a men think about sex every seven second, which is more then 8000 times a day. But the fact is this belief is not supported by any research.
There is little research available from the past, but these studies relied on self-report (people are not good at assessing
information like this). Previous research that examined actual numerical frequency has found daily sexual thought frequencies are not even in the double-digits. In addition, the research has not always consistently revealed gender differences in frequency of sexual thoughts. This is a far cry from what most people (and many psychologists) believe to be true.
Recent studies tell us an average man has 19 sexy thoughts per day, meaning one every 1.26 hr. The study reveal that fact that men’s thought about food are not too far from sex. Men think about food 18 times a day.
So we can say men don’t just think about sex always.
59
Menʼs HUB 26
Ravan - Casual Misandry
http://menshub.co.in
MEN’S HUB
Oct 1st, 2022
Ravan – Casual Misandry 10
