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Papichulo, for example, had a fiasco in his trip: ―My last trip we had sex a few times sin condom, she claimed to be on the pill, but now says that the antibiotics she was on for a foot injury made the pill null & void.‖ According to him, ―Drunken moments happen‖ and this time ―she‘s pregnant.‖ Papichulo is desperate and asks for help to his fellow mongers: ―She quickly became my novia (whether I wanted it or not). ! Slipped in...felt so good...she didnt stop me...so it was off to the races! God damn am I am idiot!‖159
His friends tell him not to trust the woman until a DNA test is done. Nevertheless, if the child turns to be his, he has obligations because part of the relationship is ―to take care of the novia.‖160
Witling warns other mongers that most sex workers asked him to have sex without a condom. He admits being ―shocked at the number of girls who wanted to Phuck me bareback.‖ Nevertheless, of the 155 Countries in Central America need to invest more in HIV/AIDS prevention, Revista Hispanoamericana de Salud Pública, Vol. 14, No 6, Dec. 2003.
156 Sex without condom, commonly known as bbfs (Bare Back Full Service) 157 According to the poll taker ―It doesn't matter if it is your novia or not. With intent means that the condom did not break, it means she or you just slipped it in.‖
158 http://www.costaricaticas.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=4924
159 http://www.costaricaticas.com/phpbb2/viewtopic.php?t=3150
160 http://www.costaricaticas.com/phpbb2/viewtopic.php?t=3150
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women he was with ―I must have had about 8 different girls who requested that I take off the condom. I felt like grabbing them by the shoulders and shaking the shit out of them. ‗Do you know how dangerous that is? You don‘t know what I might have, you should never Phuck without a condom!!‖
Despite Witling‘s strong stand in favor of prevention and his rejection of unsafe sex, he himself recognizes to have being tempted and ready to submit: ―I have to be honest and say I was really tempted with a couple of them, especially 2 girls.‖ 161 Prolijo, on the other hand, thinks it takes two to tango. In a discussion over how many porno stars haven been infected, he sees a parallel with mongers. He asks: ―How many of them take them up on the offer? How many of them try to pressure the girls to perform other unsafe practices that they don't want to?‖ Many take their chances, he says and ―This is a story of the risks we ALL face if we have unprotected sex with a untested sex worker.
Guys go bareback in the porn biz so that viewers can enjoy the "money shot". We don't have to do that and there is no reason why we should take any unnecessary risks.‖ Notwithstanding his admonitions, he knows that ―When I read this thread, I can only shake my own shoulders and say, "some people never learn". 162
Joe1015 admits he never used condoms for oral sex at the Massage Parlor. He also indicates that he was offered the same for vaginal sex. ―Never wore a condom at MP 6 for BJ.I was even asked with or without when it came to penetration, and I chose to get some coverage. Maybe this can help.‖ 163
Jack52 is afraid of having gotten infected from unprotected sex. He feels sorry now but it is too late.
―Had unprotected sex, with a seasoned puta. Did not go down on her, kissed and had two sessions. Had been a good boy for a few weeks prior to doing her. I want her to be tested if possible, boy was i stupid!!‖164 Goetzvonberlishingen wonders now whether the sex workers are tested since they seem to practice unsafe sex generally. ―I had a session at MP 6 last trip during which the chica, who is quite popular on this board asked me if I wanted to use a condom for the main sex part. I was a little shocked and said yes, but I am wondering if these MP girls are routinely going bareback for the main deal. That gives me a little concern over the safety situation. Anyone else experience this?‖ 165
Goetz explains that sex workers have bareback sex as a sign of trust and intimacy. ―I just return from CR last week and a girl that I was with all night about 4 times when I was there asked me if I would like to have sex sin condom? (We used a condom all the other times) I declined, but I took as a sign of trust and she being comfortable with me.‖ 166 The same happened to Goetz who admits having being asked by the women at the MP‘s to have unsafe sex: : ―During my last trip, out of all the sessions I had at ZB I also had one that asked for sex sin condom. Of course I denied her and told her con condom, but it also surprised me a little, especially coming from a MP chica who sees numerous clients a day.
In the end though I did CIM as a compromise.‖ 167