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How Do Single Parents Find People To Date?
It's probably been a long time since you were in the dating scene, and you may have lost touch with your single friends and activities. One way to meet new people is through your friends. Perhaps your best friend knows someone they think would be perfect for you. Take a chance. Go on a blind date.
You also have a constraint that many singles don't: time. It's important for you to plan your social activities well in advance so you can get a baby-sitter or make other arrangements for your children. So, whatever you do to meet new people can't be a spur-of-the-moment decision.
Many areas have singles groups where you can meet other unattached people. As long as you don't have to make commitments, this is a great way to meet people. Group social activities are fun and safe. You get a chance to get to know people before being alone with them.
You may even be able to find social groups specifically for single parents. This way, you'll meet people whose lives are more like yours. They have the same challenges and problems. You may find it easier to relate to another single parent, and certainly they will be more understanding when something comes up at the last minute.
What about relationships?
You are the only person who knows if you're ready to start a serious relationship. Of course, you are not alone, and your children will influence your readiness and willingness to get into a relationship.
You need to be very clear in your own mind about where you are and what you want. Perhaps you only want companionship and social contact. If you're not ready to get serious, let your dates know. Don't allow yourself to become more involved than you can handle emotionally. Your first few dates shouldn't be serious, and you don't need to involve your children with your casual dates.
But if you're lonely and feel you need someone to love, you may be more interested in getting serious. First, you must ask yourself why. Getting into a serious relationship because you're lonely isn't a great idea. You want to get involved with a person, not just fill a hole in your life. Be sure of your motives before you allow things to get to serious.
What to do when on a date?
You'll want to know that your dates will be both fun and safe. Your family depends on you, and taking chances to date isn't wise. Always be sure someone knows where you're going and who you're going with. Let them know when you'll be home, and take your cell phone with you in case of an emergency. Let your date know about your family and that you might get a call. No surprises is a good policy.
When you go out, you'll want to do something that helps you get to know each other. Look for places where you can talk and activities that encourage conversation and interaction. Movies aren't a good idea for those first few dates because they don't provide a good get-to-know-you environment. Better to go bowling or play miniature golf than to go to a movie.
For first dates especially, it's important that you go to public places. Your personal safety is very important, and you don't want to take chances with people you don't know. You might even want to arrange to meet your date somewhere so that you aren't dependent on them for your ride home.