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part in such

meetings of adults, and will thus be brought up free

from morbid

prudery" (R. Ungewitter, _Die Nacktheit_, p. 58).

No doubt it may be said that the ideal in this

matter is the

possibility of permitting complete nakedness. This

may be

admitted, and it is undoubtedly true that our rigid

police

regulations do much to artificially foster a

concealment in this

matter which is not based on any natural instinct.

Dr. Shufeldt

narrates in his _Studies of the Human Form_ that

once in the

course of a photographic expedition in the woods he

came upon two

boys, naked except for bathing-drawers, engaged in

getting water

lilies from a pond. He found them a good subject for

his camera,

but they could not be induced to remove their

drawers, by no

means out of either modesty or mock-modesty, but

simply because

they feared they might possibly be caught and

arrested. We have

to recognize that at the present day the general

popular

sentiment is not yet sufficiently educated to allow

of public

disregard for the convention of covering the sexual

centres, and

all attempts to extend the bounds of nakedness must

show a due

regard for this requirement. As concerns women,

Valentin Lehr, of

Freiburg, in Breisgau, has invented a costume

(figured in

Ungewitter's _Die Nacktheit_) which is suitable for

either public

water-baths or air-baths, because it meets the

demand of those

whose minimum requirement is that the chief sexual

centres of the

body should be covered in public, while it is

otherwise fairly

unobjectionable. It consists of two pieces, made of

porous

material, one covering the breasts with a band over

the

shoulders, and the other covering the abdomen below

the navel and

drawn between the legs. This minimal costume, while

neither ideal

nor æsthetic, adequately covers the sexual regions

of the body,

while leaving the arms, waist, hips, and legs

entirely free.

There finally remains the moral aspect of nakedness.

Although this has

been emphasized by many during the past half century it is still

unfamiliar to the majority. The human body can never be a little thing.

The wise educator may see to it that boys and girls are brought up in a

natural and wholesome familiarity with each other, but a certain terror

and beauty must always attach to the spectacle of the

body, a mixed

attraction and repulsion. Because it has this force it naturally calls out

the virtue of those who take part in the spectacle, and makes impossible

any soft compliance to emotion. Even if we admit that

the spectacle of

nakedness is a challenge to passion it is still a

challenge that calls

out the ennobling qualities of self-control. It is but a poor sort of

virtue that lies in fleeing into the desert from things that we fear may

have in them a temptation. We have to learn that it is even worse to

attempt to create a desert around us in the midst of

civilization. We

cannot dispense with passions if we would; reason, as

Holbach said, is the

art of choosing the right passions, and education the

art of sowing and

cultivating them in human hearts. The spectacle of

nakedness has its moral

value in teaching us to learn to enjoy what we do not

possess, a lesson

which is an essential part of the training for any kind of fine social

life. The child has to learn to look at flowers and not pluck them; the

man has to learn to look at a woman's beauty and not

desire to possess it.

The joyous conquest over that "erotic kleptomania," as Ellen Key has well

said, reveals the blossoming of a fine civilization. We fancy the conquest

is difficult, even impossibly difficult. But it is not so. This impulse,

like other human impulses, tends under natural

conditions to develop

temperately and wholesomely. We artificially press a

stupid and brutal

hand on it, and it is driven into the two unnatural

extremes of repression

and license, one extreme as foul as the other.

To those who have been bred under bad conditions, it may indeed seem

hopeless to attempt to rise to the level of the Greeks and the other finer

tempered peoples of antiquity in realizing the moral, as well as the

pedagogic, hygienic, and æsthetic advantages[44] of

admitting into life

the spectacle of the naked human body. But unless we do we hopelessly

fetter ourselves in our march along the road of

civilization, we deprive

ourselves at once of a source of moral strength and of joyous inspiration.

Just as Wesley once asked why the devil should have all the best tunes, so

to-day men are beginning to ask why the human body, the most divine melody

at its finest moments that creation has yielded, should be allowed to

become the perquisite of those who lust for the obscene.

And some are,

further, convinced that by enlisting it on the side of purity and strength

they are raising the most powerful of all bulwarks

against the invasion of

a vicious conception of life and the consequent

degradation of sex. These

are considerations which we cannot longer afford to

neglect, however great

the opposition they arouse among the unthinking.

"Folk are afraid of such things rousing the

passions," Edward

Carpenter remarks. "No doubt the things may act that way. But

why, we may ask, should people be afraid of rousing

passions

which, after all, are the great driving forces of

human life?" It

is true, the same writer continues, our conventional

moral

formulæ are no longer strong enough to control

passion

adequately, and that we are generating steam in a

boiler that is

cankered with rust. "The cure is not to cut off the passions, or

to be weakly afraid of them, but to find a new,

sound, healthy

engine of general morality and common sense within

which they

will work" (Edward Carpenter, _Albany Review_,

Sept., 1907).

So far as I am aware, however, it was James Hinton

who chiefly

sought to make clear the possibility of a positive

morality on

the basis of nakedness, beauty, and sexual

influence, regarded as

dynamic forces which, when suppressed, make for

corruption and

when wisely used serve to inspire and ennoble life.

He worked out

his thoughts on this matter in MSS., written from

about 1870 to

his death two years later, which, never having been

prepared for

publication, remain in a fragmentary state and have

not been

published. I quote a few brief characteristic

passages: "Is not,"

he wrote, "the Hindu refusal to see a woman eating strangely like

ours to see one naked? The real sensuality of the

thought is

visibly identical.... Suppose, because they are

delicious to eat,

pineapples were forbidden to be seen, except in

pictures, and

about that there was something dubious. Suppose no

one might have

sight of a pineapple unless he were rich enough to

purchase one

for his particular eating, the sight and the eating

being so

indissolubly joined. What lustfulness would surround

them, what

constant pruriency, what stealing!... Miss ---- told

us of her

Syrian adventures, and how she went into a wood-

carver's shop and

he would not look at her; and how she took up a tool

and worked,

till at last he looked, and they both burst out

laughing. Will it

not be even so with our looking at women altogether?

There will

come a _work_--and at last we shall look up and both

burst out

laughing.... When men see truly what is amiss, and

act with

reason and forethought in respect to the sexual

relations, will

they not insist on the enjoyment of women's beauty

by youths, and

from the earliest age, that the first feeling may be

of beauty?

Will they not say, 'We must not allow the false

purity, we must

have the true.' The false has been tried, and it is

not good

enough; the power purely to enjoy beauty must be

gained;

attempting to do with less is fatal. Every

instructor of youth

shall say: 'This beauty of woman, God's chief work

of beauty, it

is good you see it; it is a pleasure that serves

good; all beauty

serves it, and above all this, for its office is to

make you

pure. Come to it as you come to daily bread, or pure

air, or the

cleansing bath: this is pure to you if you be pure,

it will aid

you in your effort to be so. But if any of you are

impure, and

make of it the feeder of impurity, then you should

be ashamed and

pray; it is not for you our life can be ordered; it

is for men

and not for beasts.' This must come when men open

their eyes, and

act coolly and with reason and forethought, and not

in mere panic

in respect to the sexual passion in its moral

relations."

FOOTNOTES:

[40] Thus Athenæus (Bk. xiii, Ch. XX) says: "In the Island of Chios it is

a beautiful sight to go to the gymnasia and the race-

courses, and to see

the young men wrestling naked with the maidens who are also naked."

[41] Augustine (_De civitate Dei_, lib. ii, cap. XIII) refers to the same

point, contrasting the Romans with the Greeks who

honored their actors.

[42] See "The Evolution of Modesty" in the first volume of these

_Studies_, where this question of the relationship of

nakedness to modesty

is fully discussed.

[43] C.H. Stratz, _Die Körperformen in Kunst und Leben der Japaner_,

Second edition, Ch. III; id., _Frauenkleidung_, Third

edition, pp. 22, 30.

[44] I have not considered it in place here to emphasize the æsthetic

influence of familiarity with nakedness. The most

æsthetic nations

(notably the Greeks and the Japanese) have been those

that preserved a

certain degree of familiarity with the naked body. "In all arts,"

Maeterlinck remarks, "civilized peoples have approached or departed from

pure beauty according as they approached or departed

from the habit of

nakedness." Ungewitter insists on the advantage to the artist of being

able to study the naked body in movement, and it may be worth mentioning

that Fidus (Hugo Höppener), the German artist of to-day who has exerted

great influence by his fresh, powerful and yet reverent delineation of the

naked human form in all its varying aspects, attributes his inspiration

and vision to the fact that, as a pupil of Diefenbach, he was accustomed

with his companions to work naked in the solitudes

outside Munich which

they frequented (F. Enzensberger, "Fidus," _Deutsche Kultur_, Aug., 1906).

CHAPTER IV.

THE VALUATION OF SEXUAL LOVE.

The Conception of Sexual Love--The Attitude of Mediæval Asceticism--St.

Bernard and St. Odo of Cluny--The Ascetic Insistence on the Proximity of

the Sexual and Excretory Centres--Love as a Sacrament of Nature--The Idea

of the Impurity of Sex in Primitive Religions Generally-

-Theories of the

Origin of This Idea--The Anti-Ascetic Element in the

Bible and Early

Christianity--Clement of Alexandria--St. Augustine's

Attitude--The

Recognition of the Sacredness of the Body by Tertullian, Rufinus and

Athanasius--The Reformation--The Sexual Instinct

regarded as Beastly--The

Human Sexual Instinct Not Animal-like--Lust and Love--

The Definition of

Love--Love and Names for Love Unknown in Some Parts of the World--Romantic

Love of Late Development in the White Race--The Mystery of Sexual

Desire--Whether Love is a Delusion--The Spiritual as

Well as the Physical

Structure of the World in Part Built up on Sexual Love--

The Testimony of

Men of Intellect to the Supremacy of Love.

It will be seen that the preceding discussion of

nakedness has a

significance beyond what it appeared to possess at the outset. The

hygienic value, physically and mentally, of familiarity with nakedness

during the early years of life, however considerable it may be, is not the

only value which such familiarity possesses. Beyond its æsthetic value,

also, there lies in it a moral value, a source of

dynamic energy. And now,

taking a still further step, we may say that it has a

spiritual value in

relation to our whole conception of the sexual impulse.

Our attitude

towards the naked human body is the test of our attitude towards the

instinct of sex. If our own and our fellows' bodies seem to us

intrinsically shameful or disgusting, nothing will ever really ennoble or

purify our conceptions of sexual love. Love craves the flesh, and if the

flesh is shameful the lover must be shameful. "Se la cosa amata è vile,"

as Leonardo da Vinci profoundly said, "l'amante se fa vile." However

illogical it may have been, there really was a

justification for the old

Christian identification of the flesh with the sexual

instinct. They stand

or fall together; we cannot degrade the one and exalt

the other. As our

feelings towards nakedness are, so will be our feelings towards love.

"Man is nothing else than fetid sperm, a sack of dung, the food of

worms.... You have never seen a viler dung-hill." Such was the outcome of

St. Bernard's cloistered _Meditationes Piissimæ_.[45]

Sometimes, indeed,

these mediæval monks would admit that the skin possessed a certain

superficial beauty, but they only made that admission in order to

emphasize the hideousness of the body when deprived of this film of

loveliness, and strained all their perverse intellectual acumen, and their

ferocious irony, as they eagerly pointed the finger of mockery at every

detail of what seemed to them the pitiful figure of man.

St. Odo of

Cluny--charming saint as he was and a pioneer in his

appreciation of the

wild beauty of the Alps he had often traversed--was yet an adept in this

art of reviling the beauty of the human body. That

beauty only lies in the

skin, he insists; if we could see beneath the skin women would arouse

nothing but nausea. Their adornments are but blood and mucus and bile. If

we refuse to touch dung and phlegm even with a

fingertip, how can we

desire to embrace a sack of dung?[46] The mediæval monks of the more

contemplative order, indeed, often found here a

delectable field of

meditation, and the Christian world generally was

content to accept their

opinions in more or less diluted versions, or at all

events never made any

definite protest against them.

Even men of science accepted these conceptions and are, indeed, only now

beginning to emancipate themselves from such ancient

superstitions. R. de

Graef in the Preface to his famous treatise on the

generative organs of

women, _De Mulierum Organis Generatione Inservientibus_, dedicated to

Cosmo III de Medici in 1672, considered it necessary to apologize for the

subject of his work. Even a century later, Linnæus in

his great work, _The

System of Nature_, dismissed as "abominable" the exact study of the female

genitals, although he admitted the scientific interest of such

investigations. And if men of science have found it

difficult to attain an

objective vision of women we cannot be surprised that

medieval and still

more ancient conceptions have often been subtly mingled with the views of

philosophical and semi-philosophical writers.[47]

We may regard as a special variety of the ascetic view of sex,--for the

ascetics, as we see, freely but not quite legitimately, based their

asceticism largely on æsthetic considerations,--that

insistence on the

proximity of the sexual to the excretory centres which found expression in

the early Church in Augustine's depreciatory assertion:

"Inter fæces et

urinam nascimur," and still persists among many who by no means always

associate it with religious asceticism.[48] "As a result of what

ridiculous economy, and of what Mephistophilian irony,"

asks Tarde,[49]

"has Nature imagined that a function so lofty, so worthy of the poetic and

philosophical hymns which have celebrated it, only

deserved to have its

exclusive organ shared with that of the vilest corporal functions?"

It may, however, be pointed out that this view of the

matter, however

unconsciously, is itself the outcome of the ascetic

depreciation of the

body. From a scientific point of view, the metabolic

processes of the

body from one end to the other, whether regarded

chemically or

psychologically, are all interwoven and all of equal

dignity. We cannot

separate out any particular chemical or biological

process and declare:

This is vile. Even what we call excrement still stores up the stuff of our

lives. Eating has to some persons seemed a disgusting

process. But yet it

has been possible to say, with Thoreau, that "the gods have really

intended that men should feed divinely, as themselves, on their own nectar

and ambrosia.... I have felt that eating became a

sacrament, a method of

communion, an ecstatic exercise, and a sitting at the

communion table of

the world."

The sacraments of Nature are in this way everywhere

woven into the texture

of men's and women's bodies. Lips good to kiss with are indeed first of

all chiefly good to eat and drink with. So accumulated and overlapped have

the centres of force become in the long course of

development, that the

mucous membranes of the natural orifices, through the

sensitiveness gained

in their own offices, all become agents to thrill the

soul in the contact

of love; it is idle to discriminate high or low, pure or impure; all alike

are sanctified already by the extreme unction of Nature.

The nose receives

the breath of life; the vagina receives the water of

life. Ultimately the

worth and loveliness of life must be measured by the

worth and loveliness

for us of the instruments of life. The swelling breasts are such divinely

gracious insignia of womanhood because of the potential child that hangs

at them and sucks; the large curves of the hips are so voluptuous because

of the potential child they clasp within them; there can be no division

here, we cannot cut the roots from the tree. The supreme function of

manhood--the handing on of the lamp of life to future

races--is carried

on, it is true, by the same instrument that is the daily conduit of the

bladder. It has been said in scorn that we are born

between urine and

excrement; it may be said, in reverence, that the

passage through this

channel of birth is a sacrament of Nature's more sacred and significant

than men could ever invent.

These relationships have been sometimes perceived and

their meaning

realized by a sort of mystical intuition. We catch

glimpses of such an

insight now and again, first among the poets and later among the

physicians of the Renaissance. In 1664 Rolfincius, in

his _Ordo et Methods

Generationi Partium etc._, at the outset of the second Part devoted to the

sexual organs of women, sets forth what ancient writers have said of the

Eleusinian and other mysteries and the devotion and

purity demanded of

those who approached these sacred rites. It is so also with us, he

continues, in the rites of scientific investigation. "We also operate with

sacred things. The organs of sex are to be held among

sacred things. They

who approach these altars must come with devout minds.

Let the profane

stand without, and the doors be closed." In those days, even for science,

faith and intuition were alone possible. It is only of recent years that

the histologist's microscope and the physiological

chemist's test-tube

have furnished them with a rational basis. It is no

longer possible to cut

Nature in two and assert that here she is pure and there impure.[50]

There thus appears to be no adequate ground for

agreeing with

those who consider that the proximity of the

generative and

excretory centres is "a stupid bungle of Nature's."

An

association which is so ancient and primitive in

Nature can only

seem repulsive to those whose feelings have become

morbidly

unnatural. It may further be remarked that the anus,

which is the

more æsthetically unattractive of the excretory

centres, is

comparatively remote from the sexual centre, and

that, as R.

Hellmann remarked many years ago in discussing this

question

(_Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit_, p. 82): "In the first place,

freshly voided urine has nothing specially

unpleasant about it,

and in the second place, even if it had, we might

reflect that a

rosy mouth by no means loses its charm merely

because it fails to

invite a kiss at the moment when its possessor is

vomiting."

A clergyman writes suggesting that we may go further

and find a

positive advantage in this proximity: "I am glad

that you do not

agree with the man who considered that Nature had

bungled by

using the genitals for urinary purposes; apart from

teleological

or theological grounds I could not follow that line

of